Somewhere in our past life, we may have picked up the idea that it's not all right to ask for help, that asking for help would be a sign of weakness. ; Recovery calls for some basic changes in our thinking, and when we feel vulnerable is the best time to reach out and ask for help from our Higher...

"Avi Ha'Oved" wrote in this amazing story (translated from an email we received in Hebrew): For many years after the wedding, we didn't have children. We did tests and discovered that the chances for me to be able to ever have children were close to zero. The doctor (who, by the way, is one of th...

We are are continuing our new weekly Series – “How this ;Parasha ;relates to the Struggler” Have you ever faced a new opportunity or a big challenge? ;Did you ever really want to change but something always seemed to get in the way? ;You may be asking, what is keeping me from taking the steps n...

; After the alcohol and drugs are gone, what’s next? The path of recovery, followed closely by the gifts of sobriety, may seem like a hard sell at first. I remember that very day ;when I was being asked to choose between the comforts and certainty of active addiction, or choose the great uncerta...

For many years, I tried to beat lust. If only I could figure it out, wrap my head around it, I would be able to control it. Many times, especially after falls or lots of pain, I was sure that I had finally internalized that it was SHEKER, that there was nothing there. I would find a new slogan or...

; Addiction Research Expert William White examines the data known today and suggests that after 5 years of recovery, things seem to stabilize for most people, requiring a greater force at that time to toss them into relapse. ; See from his blog below: ; For years I have been asked when recover...

; As a sexoholic trying to work the program with an SA sponsor ;to the best of my understanding, I would like to answer a few points the recovering person asked.1) Honesty in our society, especially in the Shuls etc. - The truth is there is lots of dishonesty in society, everyone ;is trying to c...

ADDITIONAL TOOLS FOR RECOVERYIMPROVE RELATION WITH SELFEMERGENCY TOOLS ;1. Short prayer, "I'm powerless, please G-d help me!"2. Move somewhere else. (Get away from the trigger!)3. Pick up litter.4. Sing (or hum) a favorite tune. Or listen to music.5. Call someone from the program or the forum NOW...

; Sometimes, especially in early recovery, we concentrate on our losses instead of our gains. We see a chapter in our life closing, and we mourn. We must leave some friends behind, or say goodbye to a social life we enjoyed. We must give up an active addiction, which had become our best friend a...

First and foremost it is a sign of humility for the newcomer to prioritize listening over sharing. ; New members generally know very little about living a healthy, sober life and the only way to learn from the experience of others is to listen to them. It is not appropriate to share about problem...