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Feeling weak.
I want to look at naked women
I need a release 
For the background to my name- see Tanya פרק טו.
״שההפרש בין עובד אלוקים לצדיק הוא שעובד הוא לשון הווה, שהוא באמצע העבודה״
-Oived Elokim means a constant work in progress...
Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can.
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“Every saint has a past, and every sinner has a future”.

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Re: Make it to Yeshiva 08 Apr 2021 06:30 #366517

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YeshivaGuy wrote on 08 Apr 2021 04:33:
I’m leaving to Yeshiva in the morning.
Im reluctant and scared to leave my iPhone at home but I’m doing it. Not sure how to do banking etc or check on my account balance without internet, if anyone can help me that would be great.
Also, how to transfer funds with no internet.

I won’t be checking GYE for some time, though periodically will check in.

Hatzlocha to you all and thanks for sticking with me on this journey.

YeshivaGuy

Hatzlacha!

Most (all?) banks have telephone banking. You can look into it, it may need to be set up first with a pin etc.
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Pure123 wrote on 08 Apr 2021 00:17:
glad to hear that you wonderful loving people in your life,
but that still doesn't mean that you are actually receiving the love you need... 
the point is not if you having loving parents or terrific siblings... the point is if you are receiving the love you need constantly... 

I promise that if you would be receiving your loving and emotional needs, then you would not be so desperate for this girl...

sometime you need to give yourself those needs as well... its not always something someone can provide..


can anyone here help with a better explanation on this?

Really sad, I had a nice long post written up and it got deleted when the site stopped working  . I don't have the energy to write it all over again, maybe soon. 
Check out My thread

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Re: Time to quit! 08 Apr 2021 06:15 #366513

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There ae many forms of addiction and they are all difficult to break. 

There are experts that say that sex and food addictions are the most difficult because they are both connected to survival and we naturally desire them.   
Check out My thread

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(עשה רצונו כרצונך (אבות,ב:ד

Feel free to email me  wilnevergiveupgye@gmail.com
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Re: Make it to Yeshiva 08 Apr 2021 05:41 #366512

Hatzlocho for this Zman
Looking forward to hearing from you again soon.
Well done on taking a big step
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Dont ever stop looking!
BEZH you will find the tools...when, I can't tell you but you will as long as you don't give up!

Wishing you much success!
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I feel lost and helpless, stranded on an island on the stormy sea called Life, with no tools to build a ship strong enough to deliver me from the clutches of crushing self-doubt and depression, to the safe harbor of confidence and success.
But there's a faint voice of hope within me, an echo of a deep seated faith that G-d has not abandoned me, that he has not left me alone.
That somewhere on this island there are tools and materials to build a strong and sturdy naval vessel, with which to safely embark to calmer waters and friendlier shores. 

Good night
For the background to my name- see Tanya פרק טו.
״שההפרש בין עובד אלוקים לצדיק הוא שעובד הוא לשון הווה, שהוא באמצע העבודה״
-Oived Elokim means a constant work in progress...
Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can.
- Arthur Ashe
“Every saint has a past, and every sinner has a future”.

My old thread

My current thread 

Last Edit: 08 Apr 2021 04:46 by OivedElokim.
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Re: Make it to Yeshiva 08 Apr 2021 04:33 #366509

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I’m leaving to Yeshiva in the morning.
Im reluctant and scared to leave my iPhone at home but I’m doing it. Not sure how to do banking etc or check on my account balance without internet, if anyone can help me that would be great.
Also, how to transfer funds with no internet.

I won’t be checking GYE for some time, though periodically will check in.

Hatzlocha to you all and thanks for sticking with me on this journey.

YeshivaGuy
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Re: fell 08 Apr 2021 03:53 #366508

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yankeesrock wrote on 08 Apr 2021 01:23:
Just fell and I don't know how I'm ever going to make it to 90 

I heard the Yankees manager asking the same thing. Do you think the yankees we can get past 90 this year?
My Thread:The Road To Being Honest With Myself (and others:)

I'm not a slow learner, I'm just quick to forget" - Eli Nash

A bit of honesty and less over confidence might help me - Imperfection
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Re: RebbiAkivaBefore40 08 Apr 2021 03:52 #366507

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Welcome to the party! 

There is so much to learn from the chevra here...you just gotta stay around and get to know the people.

What are some things you tried to do to stop?

Keep it one day at a time and BEZH you will get to a place you never thought possible.

Wishing you much success on your journey!

Re: Make it to Yeshiva 08 Apr 2021 03:41 #366506

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YeshivaGuy wrote on 06 Apr 2021 03:40:
I spoke to my parents this evening abit about my negative emotions. Feelings of doom, inevitable failure etc.
And I then read for them some poems (something they appreciate bh).

Bh I’m in bed now at 11:40pm. I hope to fall asleep soon.
There is a faint glimmer of hope deep inside the bowels of my heart.
Im unaware of its source and whether it is rooted in reality or naive optimism.
We shall see.

Good Night dear friends,

YeshivaGuy

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Re: Starting Again... 08 Apr 2021 03:34 #366505

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We all say "falling is part of the process" and it really is but when it happens it hurts.

Your story doesn't end with a fall it continues on....it was just a plot twist to add suspence....

i hope you get up from this and continue forward because the chizuk you give all of us is tremendous.

The past is the past but  tommorow is in your hands.

Wishing you much hatzlocha!
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Re: fell 08 Apr 2021 03:20 #366504

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Hi yankeesrock!

Falling is part of the process and almost everyone can relate to how you feel now..... hopeless.

your not a hopeless case at all its very possible to get out of this.

Keep it one day at a time....one urge at a time and before you know it you will be in a place you never thought possible
mind sharing abit more of your story and what you have been trying?
Dont ever give up! 
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Re: Hayom Yom 08 Apr 2021 02:35 #366503

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The sun was shining, the birds were chirping, and BHYY had a great day.
Seriously, it was beautiful outside.
I took HHM's advice to actually move and went on a brisk walk after Shacharis. Then I learned with my chavrusa did some errands and some more exercise and then had class. I feel so much better than I did yesterday. Exercise puts me in a much better mood and helps me deal with urges.
Yes, HHM is always right.
נאָך אַ שריפה ווערט מען רייַך - After a fire one becomes wealthy.

My email: bhyy@protonmail.com

My thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/349632-Hayom-Yom
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Re: fell 08 Apr 2021 02:06 #366502

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My friend, I just checked your register date. You just joined. This isn't a get rich quick method. Join GYE and boom! cured. It takes time. Learning and fighting. Falling and getting back up. It's a process. You mist stop thinking about 90. It's too intimidating. Take it day by day. You will see success. 
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