helpmeout613 wrote on 24 Jun 2013 01:34:
Hi I have just joined.
I started masturbating when I was a bochur. briefly stopped when I got married and then started again, very often with watching porn. I couldn't take living a lie from my wife so I went to an addiction counsellor while I was learning in Eretz Yisroel who persauded me to tell my wife and then he taught us about describing our feelings to each other and introduced us to the book loving what is by Amanda byren (which btw is a really good book) it helped for about a year. Then a recently moved back to chutz laaretz and started working and unfortunately I started again b"h this time my wife knows and she is really supportive but I am still finding it hard to completely stop.
thank you in advance for any advice
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