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Re: Here we go.... 08 Mar 2017 19:33 #307812

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Re: Here we go.... 08 Mar 2017 19:41 #307813

Markz wrote on 08 Mar 2017 19:33:
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Re: Here we go.... 08 Mar 2017 20:16 #307820

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RabosMachsovos wrote on 08 Mar 2017 19:41:

Markz wrote on 08 Mar 2017 19:33:
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Re: Here we go.... 08 Mar 2017 21:03 #307833

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But now, I don't remember what he said before.
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Re: Here we go.... 09 Mar 2017 13:33 #307886

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Re: Here we go.... 09 Mar 2017 14:20 #307898

Well we are here for new beginnings :D


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Re: Here we go.... 10 Mar 2017 12:15 #307984

No good deed goes unpunished lol

Somewhere on the forum (cant find it) someone posted a chessed fund link to nebach a girl really struggling. So i give some to the campaign.

Later that night my wife and I were going through the maaser cheshbon and I mentioned I gave x dollars to a chessed fund...and i started getting drilled!! who told you about it... how do you know its not a scam... whos the girl...
LOL ... she doesnt know about GYE so I very much hide it ... I start making up answers ... i was so unprepared!!! hashem yerachaim really?? lol but baruch hashem she got sidetracked and forgot about it but I was like lord almighty really??? 
LOL but anyways A GUTTEN EREV SHABBOS!!!!

Re: Here we go.... 15 Mar 2017 13:40 #308249

I hope everyone had a geshmak purim... and ensuing snow storm (for those on the north east)

So i noticed that I am not as inspired as when i started... obviously  inspiration wanes and we are in need of constant chizuk....... but does such a sharp influx of extreme chizuk numb the senses?? 
Case in point... I get a lot of chizuk reading the forum and seeing the battle field and guys have such success and enduring getting back up and fighting relentlessly ... 
but that starts to get old... a little.... and so while obviously the most important thing (IMHO) is putting the proper gedarim down ... especially when inspired ... so as to prevent falls.... i like the inspiration feeling and dont like it being dulled.... hmmmmmmmm just thinking out loud

Re: Here we go.... 15 Mar 2017 13:48 #308253

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RaabosMachshovos wrote on 15 Mar 2017 13:40:
I hope everyone had a geshmak purim... and ensuing snow storm (for those on the north east)

So i noticed that I am not as inspired as when i started... obviously  inspiration wanes and we are in need of constant chizuk....... but does such a sharp influx of extreme chizuk numb the senses?? 
Case in point... I get a lot of chizuk reading the forum and seeing the battle field and guys have such success and enduring getting back up and fighting relentlessly ... 
but that starts to get old... a little.... and so while obviously the most important thing (IMHO) is putting the proper gedarim down ... especially when inspired ... so as to prevent falls.... i like the inspiration feeling and dont like it being dulled.... hmmmmmmmm just thinking out loud

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Re: Here we go.... 15 Mar 2017 16:10 #308271

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RaabosMachshovos wrote on 15 Mar 2017 13:40:
I hope everyone had a geshmak purim... and ensuing snow storm (for those on the north east)

So i noticed that I am not as inspired as when i started... obviously  inspiration wanes and we are in need of constant chizuk....... but does such a sharp influx of extreme chizuk numb the senses?? 
Case in point... I get a lot of chizuk reading the forum and seeing the battle field and guys have such success and enduring getting back up and fighting relentlessly ... 
but that starts to get old... a little.... and so while obviously the most important thing (IMHO) is putting the proper gedarim down ... especially when inspired ... so as to prevent falls.... i like the inspiration feeling and dont like it being dulled.... hmmmmmmmm just thinking out loud

Hi RM. I found the chizuk emails to be very inspiring. There are also a number of shiurim and recorded conference calls on GYE that helped my  inspiration. However I have to say that while the inspiration was amazing and necessary, for me it wasn't sustainable after a few months. At some point it was back to business as usual, (minus the tv& p&m.) Of course staying vigilant is important, plus recognizing and avoiding potential triggers, and using the tools I've learned to deal with it if a trigger does occur. But at some point life goes on without constant inspiration. Can't live in Elul mode all the time (unfortunately)

Re: Here we go.... 07 May 2017 03:51 #312418

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What's up Raabos?

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annon12345 wrote on 03 Mar 2017 11:32:

cordnoy wrote on 02 Mar 2017 18:34:
I believe we used to have an "add a pilegesh" poll/survey/thread.

Perhaps it's a business waitin' to be started?

Shark tank?

Costello: hey abbot do you know what polygamy is?
Abbot: ya dats when a guy has three wives
Costello: and you know what bigamy is then
Abbot: ya dats when a guy has two wives
Costello: do you know what its called when he has one wife
Abbot: ya dats monotony 

I second this notion!
I'm all about that (substantial) bass, no trouble ....
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