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Re: Singularity's Journey 03 May 2017 05:15 #312180

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Workingguy wrote on 03 May 2017 02:25:

Shouldn't we say that we should?

We definitely could say should if that's what you would wanna do. I definitely could be the one to tell everybody else what they should say, but I don't think that I would actually do that. It wouldn't sound right. At the same time, I definitely couldn't make any definite statements regarding this matter. If I could, I totally would.

My road to 90 days, all with God's help.

What brought me here.

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Re: Singularity's Journey 03 May 2017 08:20 #312192

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My oft-treaded mehalech is such:

I'm learning 4 hours a day. And I just blew up at my wife. Why? My learning should temper me. Ugh. It never works. What's the point. (insert lustful action here)

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I'm working the 12 steps diligently. But that woman still turns my head. She's married to my chavrusa! This program should be working! Oh heck, look I can see her knees..

Perhaps things are working AND I'm still broken, all at the same time. It's a wonderful realisation.

"Vegeta, what does the scouter say about his sobriety level?"
"... It's over NINE-ZEROOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!"
One day... At A Time :-D

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Re: Singularity's Journey 03 May 2017 13:09 #312200

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Singularity wrote on 03 May 2017 08:20:

Perhaps things are working AND I'm still broken, all at the same time. It's a wonderful realisation.

I think that is very true. It's important to remember that life is about the journey. Even when we have goals, it's the process that is most important.

Yes it is a wonderful realization, for in truth everything in life is like this. There is never truly an end to any goal.

Example: Even if one manages to lose weight he must maintain it.

If you are really bored, you can check out my original thread here: guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/305558-Journey-of-one-day-at-a-time

"Think good and it will be good!"

Re: Singularity's Journey 03 May 2017 14:11 #312207

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Ihavenostrength wrote on 03 May 2017 13:09:

Singularity wrote on 03 May 2017 08:20:

Perhaps things are working AND I'm still broken, all at the same time. It's a wonderful realisation.

I think that is very true. It's important to remember that life is about the journey. Even when we have goals, it's the process that is most important.

Yes it is a wonderful realization, for in truth everything in life is like this. There is never truly an end to any goal.

Example: Even if one manages to lose weight he must maintain it.

Oh, how I know that all right

Re: Singularity's Journey 09 May 2017 23:04 #312735

trouble OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 874 Karma: 224	Wonround ordered a small shot on the rocks, When he awoke - there was vomit on his socks. Wontreat took one lick from the chocolate covered fountain, By the end of the meal - he looked like a mountain. Wondeal said, "hit me," this is a sure roll, Within an hour - he was broke for the toll. Wonpeek turned around and stole a quick glance, Later that night - he did wet his pants.
	i'm all about that (substantial) bass, no trouble .... if you're looking for trouble, you can email me @trouble69gye@outlook.com

Re: Singularity's Journey 09 May 2017 23:09 #312736

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Trouble wrote on 09 May 2017 23:04:

Wonround ordered a small shot on the rocks,
When he awoke - there was vomit on his socks.

Wontreat took one lick from the chocolate covered fountain,
By the end of the meal - he looked like a mountain.

Wondeal said, "hit me," this is a sure roll,
Within an hour - he was broke for the toll.

Wonpeek turned around and stole a quick glance,
Later that night - he did wet his pants.

I'm totally confused lol

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Re: Singularity's Journey 09 May 2017 23:30 #312741

trouble OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 874 Karma: 224	I thought I was pretty straight forward.
	i'm all about that (substantial) bass, no trouble .... if you're looking for trouble, you can email me @trouble69gye@outlook.com

Re: Singularity's Journey 09 May 2017 23:43 #312744

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Trouble wrote on 09 May 2017 23:04:

Wonka ate Trouble for breakfast and landed at the dentist, when sleep was apparent, all hell broke loose on Sing's planet

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Re: Singularity's Journey 10 May 2017 12:03 #312779

Singularity Current streak: 72 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder To write, or not to write? Posts: 1507 Karma: 78	Try as hard as you want, I'm not hiring you to be a residential poet! But I like the message.
	"Vegeta, what does the scouter say about his sobriety level?" "... It's over NINE-ZEROOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!" One day... At A Time :-D Introduce Yourself and get a free karma point from yours truley! My Thread

Re: Singularity's Journey 10 May 2017 19:02 #312821

trouble OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 874 Karma: 224	Singularity wrote on 10 May 2017 12:03: Try as hard as you want, I'm not hiring you to be a residential poet! But I like the message. Why not? I haven't seen anything better today.
	i'm all about that (substantial) bass, no trouble .... if you're looking for trouble, you can email me @trouble69gye@outlook.com

Re: Singularity's Journey 11 May 2017 07:33 #312865

Singularity Current streak: 72 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder To write, or not to write? Posts: 1507 Karma: 78	I realised: - I need a sponsor. I'm lazy. Why am I not working this recovery? Am I sitting on my laurels of 160 days? Do I love watching things come crashing down in a blaze of fireworks? - I have a problem with playing chess online. I want to stop. It's something I must surrender too. But today I feel weak. Oh gosh.
	"Vegeta, what does the scouter say about his sobriety level?" "... It's over NINE-ZEROOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!" One day... At A Time :-D Introduce Yourself and get a free karma point from yours truley! My Thread

Re: Singularity's Journey 11 May 2017 10:57 #312872

mayanhamisgaber Current streak: 44 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1198 Karma: 71	SIng Sounds like you are feeling down I do not have the tools to e sponsor but to be friend I do I do not have time to make that thread you requested but feel free to visit my thread to look at the oldies that help me KOMTNMW (feel free to email me but I usually won't answer till nighttime
	very important thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21">FEEL THE HUGS!!!

Re: Singularity's Journey 11 May 2017 14:37 #312889

tiger Current streak: 6 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 112 Karma: 5	Sing, i know that weak feeling, all I can say is if you are living today it's easier to realize how strong you are! I mean come on you could conquer the world right now!! I so agree with the resting on recovery thing I have been a victim to this countless of times so the fact that you are aware is very good! Stay strong, you are one powerful guy

Re: Singularity's Journey 11 May 2017 17:49 #312910

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Singularity wrote on 11 May 2017 07:33:

I realised:

- I need a sponsor. I'm lazy. Why am I not working this recovery? Am I sitting on my laurels of 160 days? Do I love watching things come crashing down in a blaze of fireworks?

- I have a problem with playing chess online. I want to stop. It's something I must surrender too. But today I feel weak. Oh gosh.

I would strongly suggest that. The magic is in the steps. Going to meetings isn't working the program. And steps without a sponsor isn't working the steps.

If you're an LGBTQ or LGBTQ-questioning person and looking for someone who can understand you, feel free to reach out. I promise no judgement and to try and listen the best I can.

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Re: Singularity's Journey 12 May 2017 08:22 #312943

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Shlomo24 wrote on 11 May 2017 17:49:

Singularity wrote on 11 May 2017 07:33:

I would strongly suggest that. The magic is in the steps. Going to meetings isn't working the program. And steps without a sponsor isn't working the steps.

From the White Book.

How I Overcame My Obsession with Lust

How did I do it? I didn't. A woman in AA told me after she spoke in a meeting, quoting Chapter 5 in Alcoholics Anonymous, that "God could and would, if He were sought." And that's how I did it. By letting God do it. Because I couldn't. But God could and would-and did. But I had to go to meet ings to learn things like that. "Meetings, meetings, meetings, meetings, meetings . . ." That's what they told me. "Just keep bringing the body." "Work the Steps, work the Steps, work the Steps, work the Steps, work the Steps." Going to meetings and working the Steps; that's how I did it. That's how I learned to let "the grace of God enter to expel the obsession."