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Here goes 29 May 2016 03:47 #289104

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Please daven for me that I make it thru the full 90. Any   Chizuk is appreciated.

Re: Here goes 29 May 2016 03:53 #289107

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Welcome to gye!

Congrats on your first post. 

I try to daven for everyone on gye.

Davening is not enough though. You need a plan. Tell us a bit about yourself and your struggles so you can get some of the great advice that's available here. 

Re: Here goes 29 May 2016 03:54 #289108

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Welcome hatzlacha 
Tell us about yourself 
what if anything have you tried before 
you have a plan for the 90 days or are you just planning on riding it out ?
 
Soberity is a journey NOT a destination 
 

Re: Here goes 29 May 2016 04:02 #289113

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Yeshuashashem wrote:
Please daven for me that I make it thru the full 90. Any   Chizuk is appreciated.

Welcome!!
what about after 90
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Re: Here goes 30 May 2016 10:50 #289244

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Thank you! Not much to say, I've been struggling for as long as I can remember. I'm just hoping I can find a way to finally beat this thing once and for all.

Re: Here goes 30 May 2016 12:55 #289248

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Yeshuashashem wrote on 30 May 2016 10:50:
Thank you! Not much to say, I've been struggling for as long as I can remember. I'm just hoping I can find a way to finally beat this thing once and for all.

The way I found success was by giving up on beating anything

Hey actually Dov talks about the topic
click on this link

do NOT Beat the Y"H - We Surrender





 
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Re: Here goes 31 May 2016 02:39 #289280

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I hope to avoid an argument here but Dov said that about addicts (look at the blue words in the link).

For normal people beating the yetzer is a perfectly fine way to look at it.

So yeshuas, what are you doing now to stay clean? Filters? Accountabilitiy software? Gedarim? What will you do when the urge strikes you hard? (hint:  come here and post and chat). Why do you want to stop anyway?

Now's the time to think about it and plan. Once the urge hits yo're already on the defensive. Be proactive.

Keep on posting!
Last Edit: 31 May 2016 02:40 by inastruggle.

Re: Here goes 31 May 2016 02:47 #289281

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Ina I hope to avoid an argument here, but is your beating plan truly working for you?

(and this is coming from someone like me that;
1- doesn't consider himself an addict
2- doesn't have open unrestricted internet
3- talks in 3rd person)
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Re: Here goes 31 May 2016 03:15 #289292

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I believe it is. Definitely at least as well as the people I know who've surrendered.

 

Re: Here goes 31 May 2016 13:09 #289325

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I had a fall. 

Re: Here goes 31 May 2016 23:33 #289369

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Maybe there was something wrong with your plan?

Re: Here goes 05 Jun 2016 23:46 #289662

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Ok. Five days clean. Not bad. I kinda changed my focus for now. I'm going to put the 90 days on hold and just focus on getting to shavuas clean. After that we will see what the next step is.

Re: Here goes 06 Jun 2016 00:00 #289664

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אחד מי יודע
אחד אני יודע
אחד זהו ואן דיי אט ע טיים


שנים מי יודע
שנים אני יודע
שני בייפ בייפס
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Re: Here goes 06 Jun 2016 01:15 #289670

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שלושה מי יודע
שלושה אני יודע
שלושה סעקאנד רול
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל


"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant


My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: Here goes 06 Jun 2016 01:19 #289671

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ארבע מי יודע
ארבע אני יודע
ארבע זהו ה״פארום״
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Last Edit: 06 Jun 2016 01:41 by Markz.
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