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Re: Here we go 19 Jun 2016 04:04 #290308

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Cordnoy how do I join the group
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Re: Here we go 19 Jun 2016 04:17 #290309

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Mark- better? 
This ones definitely for me 
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Re: Here we go 19 Jun 2016 04:20 #290310

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HMMMM updated signature, this is nicer but I would need pirush rashi on it pls

quote="Aryeh"
i wish I had the courage to tell my mother when she asks me if/why I'm stressed I would say ya mom I actually have an addiction


I have no idea if you are often stressed regardless of addiction, but if you are, that's something worth looking into. You say you're stressed bc of the addiction, when actually you may be acting on the addiction bc of stress. Just a thought...

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Re: Here we go 19 Jun 2016 04:28 #290312

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Aryeh821 wrote on 19 Jun 2016 04:04:
Cordnoy how do I join the group

Send me an email.
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
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If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


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Re: Here we go 24 Jun 2016 19:56 #290679

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Hey all 
nothing extra special to report just the usual ups and downs do to technical issues I wasn't able to call in  this week to cords call just gonna listen to recordings and try again next week 
Soberity is a journey NOT a destination 
 
Last Edit: 24 Jun 2016 19:56 by Aryeh821.

Re: Here we go 01 Jul 2016 21:10 #291208

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Hi all 
so summer definitely not making things easier 
I'm having a bit of an issue with believing I can just take one look that's it it won't affect me right I'll stop right after that or just one video one picture one website and then I'll stop tomorrow ,always tommorow as harav cords says today damn it today 
as always viyter 
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Re: Here we go 01 Jul 2016 23:50 #291228

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Who cares if you can handle one look?

You don't want to take that one look anyway.

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Re: Here we go 15 Jul 2016 03:41 #292003

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I've noticed a correlation between posting and falling
ever since I've stopped posting I've been falling more frequently 
but you have nothing new to say says the yetzer hora
Im falling ...as usual 
I'm fed up with myself .... As usual 
I've been taking seconds looks ... Not really as usual cause I have been a bit better
i scheduled a call with Watson just need to work out the details .. Definitely not as usual 
plus I realized I can always post about having nothing to post about 
im going to eretz yisroel soon really freaked out about gedolim refusing to shake my hand or whatever my mashgiach said not to be worried but I am anyway - anyone have experience with This?
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Re: Here we go 15 Jul 2016 14:57 #292038

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I thought about the shaking hand business several times.
They always shook, I think.
It might have been better for me if they had refused.
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
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GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous)

If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

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Re: Here we go 15 Jul 2016 16:39 #292043

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cordnoy wrote:
It might have been better for me if they had refused.

Why
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Re: Here we go 15 Jul 2016 18:39 #292054

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Aryeh821 wrote on 15 Jul 2016 16:39:

cordnoy wrote:
It might have been better for me if they had refused.

Why

It would have been a real nice wake up call.
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads:
GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous)

If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

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Re: Here we go 17 Jul 2016 04:46 #292082

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I talked to a guy from the website who told me a story about a case where a Rosh Yeshiva decided to publicize a guys lust problems and told guys basically not to "be gores" him until he got help.  The good news was that the guy got help.  The bad news was (as I see it) Oy VEy!  Extreme in a harsh kind of way.

"Living's not always easy, but it beats the alternative."

Re: Here we go 28 Jul 2016 02:47 #292830

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Guys I need some advice 
I recently decided to get rid of my phone (the browser is completely blocked so not really because of porn realated issues)
however I realized today that it is a major source of connection as I whatsapp friends and cousins a lot and an idea talked a lot about here is staying out of isolation 
whats you're guys opinion on this?

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Last Edit: 28 Jul 2016 02:48 by Aryeh821.

Re: Here we go 28 Jul 2016 02:56 #292832

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Warning: I communicate primarily by text / email etc (see my story), so what I'll say now may not make sense

To the average human being that needs real connection with real people, wattsap is not the real thing, sorry to have to share the sad news with you. But hey this may portend good news for you in the near future

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Re: Here we go 28 Jul 2016 03:00 #292833

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Markz wrote:

Warning: I communicate primarily by text / email etc (see my story), so what I'll say now may not make sense

To the average human being that needs real connection with real people, wattsap is not the real thing, sorry to have to share the sad news with you. But hey this may portend good news for you in the near future


I wasn't arguing that it was just wondering if it's better than nothing 

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