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Re: Hi 04 Mar 2016 00:32 #280187

doingtshuva
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your always so cute,

I'm not sure if that is what Yesod meant to say.

For me the day after I fall is usually a good day and an easy day, only after being some time sober then it starts getting hard to fight.

* NO, It's not all or nothing, just every bit counts!
* I failed yesterday, and I might fail tomorrow. But just for today I'm going to give it a try.
* Being curios made me lust and get into trouble.
אָמַר רבי יוחנן: אֵבֶר קָטָן יֵשׁ לוֹ לָאָדָם, מַרְעִיבוֹ = שָׂבֵעַ, מַשְׂבִּיעוֹ = רָעֵב

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Re: Hi 04 Mar 2016 10:16 #280242

Strength365 OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 26 Karma: 1	Hi Day 10, I'm feeling good, I love the time I have now! Have a great shabbos everyone. For me the hardest day of the week is Motzoi shabbos i've got through one so far, i'm preparing my self for the next.

Re: Hi 04 Mar 2016 14:21 #280256

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doingtshuva wrote on 04 Mar 2016 00:32:

your always so cute,

I'm not sure if that is what Yesod meant to say.

For me the day after I fall is usually a good day and an easy day, only after being some time sober then it starts getting hard to fight.

What kind of
(clarity, focus, determination, commitment) HONESTY and HUMILITY do we have on day #1

listen to Dov talk, you'd think he just had a horrible fall last week

Last Edit: 04 Mar 2016 14:22 by Yesod.

Re: Hi 16 Mar 2016 16:52 #281500

Strength365 OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 26 Karma: 1	Wow, I almost lost myself, rushed straight here, phew!!!!!!!

Re: Hi 16 Mar 2016 17:11 #281504

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8258 Karma: 428	And now?
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Re: Hi 17 Mar 2016 02:08 #281553

Yesod OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 827 Karma: 79	Strength365 wrote on 16 Mar 2016 16:52: Wow, I almost lost myself, rushed straight here, phew!!!!!!! Good going, hope it worked out well for you

Re: Hi 18 Mar 2016 10:57 #281700

Strength365 OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 26 Karma: 1	markz wrote on 16 Mar 2016 17:11: And now? I'm Boruch Hashem still going, I don't know what it is about this that helps me but thanks everyone somehow i'm still going, just rushing on to here helps.

Re: Hi 18 Mar 2016 22:21 #281762

Yesod OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 827 Karma: 79	Come often

Re: Hi 15 Apr 2016 15:03 #284705

Strength365 OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 26 Karma: 1	What should I do? I have looked at pictures online. I have not done shichvas zera levatala and the pictures were naked but not the worst(meaning posing naked) should i start the count again? I'm worried if istart again that i may completely collapse but if i don't maybe it doesn't mean anything anymore and i will collapse? I'm so annoyed with myself
	Last Edit: 15 Apr 2016 15:05 by Strength365.

Re: Hi 15 Apr 2016 15:21 #284706

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8258 Karma: 428	Sorry to hear Maybe ignore the count for now and try a different tool FSJKOMT!!
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Re: Hi 15 Apr 2016 17:48 #284721

inastruggle Current streak: 25 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder the picture is shimshon hagibor. not st. mary.... Posts: 1263 Karma: 35	A long time ago I was in a similar situation. I asked some people what to do. The advice I took was from Skeptical. He told me that the count is only a tool. If I think that it'll hurt me to start over then I should not count it as a fall. Maybe as a big slip. After that I was clean for close to a year. I think if I would've counted it as a fall I would've fell again.

Re: Hi 19 Apr 2016 04:45 #285163

Yesod OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 827 Karma: 79	Yeah i agree, just a massive slip. Like ice skating on the edge of a cliff Please don't do it again. Now be a little more active here pal, dont disappear like some other fellas here that think a little stuff going on at home warrants a prolonged absence. Rock on my niggun.

Re: Hi 19 Apr 2016 05:53 #285179

inastruggle Current streak: 25 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder the picture is shimshon hagibor. not st. mary.... Posts: 1263 Karma: 35	Rock on my niggun. I literally LOL'd

Re: Hi 19 Apr 2016 15:42 #285249

Aryeh821
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inastruggle wrote:

A long time ago I was in a similar situation. I asked some people what to do. The advice I took was from Skeptical. He told me that the count is only a tool. If I think that it'll hurt me to start over then I should not count it as a fall. Maybe as a big slip.

After that I was clean for close to a year. I think if I would've counted it as a fall I would've fell again.

I head that side but when That happened to me I felt like if i didn't put it as a fall I was lying to myself and would not be drinking honestea And we know how important that is

Soberity is a journey NOT a destination

Last Edit: 19 Apr 2016 15:43 by Aryeh821.

Re: Hi 19 Apr 2016 16:31 #285255

inastruggle
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I don't think by not counting it as a fall you're not being honest. Once you post it here you already told everyone. The count can merely change its definition slightly to meaning mz"l and real porn. Also in another few months you can go back and count it as a fall. At least you'll have a decent amount of clean days and won't feel like you just fell so might at well chap arein another fall.

My 2 sense.