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Hi 25 Feb 2016 10:02 #279198

Strength365 OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 26 Karma: 1	Hi, I'm new. Nervous. Motivated. Need Help.

Re: Hi 25 Feb 2016 10:29 #279203

Sasha 2 Current streak: 19 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 199 Karma: 10	Welcome!! No need to be nervous we all are here for the same reason! Its great to hear that your motivated, its the right start. Tell us about yourself, Hatzlocha!
	Feel free to email me anytime sanonym380380@gmail.com

Re: Hi 25 Feb 2016 11:03 #279207

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8285 Karma: 427	Strength365 wrote: Hi, I'm new. Nervous. Motivated. Need Help. Welcome! I was nervous when I began too Motivation is key - stick it in the ignition of your 18 wheeler and KOT
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Re: Hi 25 Feb 2016 11:36 #279212

doingtshuva
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Strength365
If your new start with the Handbook and with time you'll learn how to handle.
I would advise to print out the book and set time for reading.
guardyoureyes.com/the-gye-program
Hatzluche Raba

* NO, It's not all or nothing, just every bit counts!
* I failed yesterday, and I might fail tomorrow. But just for today I'm going to give it a try.
* Being curios made me lust and get into trouble.
אָמַר רבי יוחנן: אֵבֶר קָטָן יֵשׁ לוֹ לָאָדָם, מַרְעִיבוֹ = שָׂבֵעַ, מַשְׂבִּיעוֹ = רָעֵב

Gye program + Handbook - Taphsik method - 90 day chart - Ebooks - Shiurim - Rabbi Dr. Avraham Twerski - Recent topics on the Forum

Last Edit: 25 Feb 2016 11:41 by doingtshuva.

Re: Hi 25 Feb 2016 11:55 #279216

iwant2begood Current streak: 3291 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 136 Karma: 13	Welcome! The key is time and patience!

Re: Hi 25 Feb 2016 14:52 #279236

Strength365
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So I have been struggling with this since i was old enough to 15 years, my wife has no idea, I hate it! Bli Ein Hora I have a great marriage, just this is my crazy addiction and all these filters only last a small time.

I'm on day 2 and i'm feeling strong now but i know that the first couple of days after a down are the easiest so i'm bracing myself for the fight ahead.

Yesterday I had complete access to internet but B'H thanks to this site I didn't fall.

Long Long way to go...............

Re: Hi 25 Feb 2016 15:13 #279237

bigmoish
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Strength365 wrote on 25 Feb 2016 10:02:

Hi,
I'm new.
Nervous.
Motivated.
Need Help.

Welcome.
I'm not new. (Relatively speaking.)
Still a bit nervous.
The Oilam here motivates me.
You better believe I need help...

Stick around.

Handbook | Skep's Tips
My threads:
www.guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/236327-Bigmoish-tries-to-be-good
www.guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/236329-Bigmoishs-path-to-tahara

"We have met the enemy and he is us" - Pogo
"Expectation is the mother of frustration" - gibbor120
"Today, damn it! Today!" - cordnoy
"Desiring is not a sin at all, but just a sign that you are not dead yet" - Dov
"We are our own worst observer" - eslaasos's therapist
WDHW!!!

Re: Hi 25 Feb 2016 17:40 #279250

pischoshelmachat
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Hi Strength,
I am new...every day. I take it one day at a time.
I am no longer nervous as in scared, but vigilant and humble as in knowing that I need HKB"H protecting me 24/7/365 to stay clean. I know that he stays with me and protects me...IF I let him.
I am very motivated...my life depends on it.
I need help all the time so I reach out to HKB"H all the time and to my friends on GYE and in person in real life.
LR-LG...Life is good when life is real!!
You came to the right place. Everyone here is so caring and helpful. Just be open and share.

Re: Hi 29 Feb 2016 09:42 #279631

Strength365 OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 26 Karma: 1	I'm still here but its about to get hard!

Re: Hi 29 Feb 2016 09:59 #279632

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8285 Karma: 427	When the going gets tough.... When the going gets hard, turn to hardcore Please would you click on the link... .
	My Story---------Dov Quotes *FREE LUST TRUCK TOWING* *Click HERE to checkout;* • 100 Day Success Stories: cordnoy, Dov, Gevura and more... • Awesome Threads Saved for You • Cast Your Vote ➣ GYE Plenty Solutions ➣ The Mark of Torah - Lust Chizuk ➣ Nice Trucking Story Last Edit: 29 Feb 2016 10:14 by Markz.

Re: Hi 29 Feb 2016 11:23 #279636

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8285 Karma: 427	My friend Besides for the 90 day chart and Peloni's popcorn, is there any other navigation tool you have tried yet? (see the GPS in my signature)
	My Story---------Dov Quotes *FREE LUST TRUCK TOWING* *Click HERE to checkout;* • 100 Day Success Stories: cordnoy, Dov, Gevura and more... • Awesome Threads Saved for You • Cast Your Vote ➣ GYE Plenty Solutions ➣ The Mark of Torah - Lust Chizuk ➣ Nice Trucking Story

Re: Hi 29 Feb 2016 14:50 #279656

BenTorah.BaalHabayis OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 321 Karma: 12	Strength365 wrote on 29 Feb 2016 09:42: I'm still here but its about to get hard! Welcome! Why is it about to get hard? Hasn't it always been hard?
	Feel free to email me at BenTorah.BaalHabayis@gmail.com 1 day may be too long for me, but I take it OWAAT = One wave at a time, cause the lust comes and goes like a wave which rises and crashes.

Re: Hi 29 Feb 2016 15:23 #279658

Strength365 OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 26 Karma: 1	Its ups and downs, and for me day 6 means its a harder day, I'm struggling that's why I am here now
	Last Edit: 29 Feb 2016 15:33 by Strength365. Reason: typo

Re: Hi 29 Feb 2016 15:25 #279659

Strength365 OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 26 Karma: 1	not really, I don't have time to read through pages of material I don't want to be caught on this site

Re: Hi 29 Feb 2016 16:05 #279663

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8285 Karma: 427	Other websites is ok? who was the last thing you wrote directed to?
	My Story---------Dov Quotes *FREE LUST TRUCK TOWING* *Click HERE to checkout;* • 100 Day Success Stories: cordnoy, Dov, Gevura and more... • Awesome Threads Saved for You • Cast Your Vote ➣ GYE Plenty Solutions ➣ The Mark of Torah - Lust Chizuk ➣ Nice Trucking Story