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Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 15 Dec 2015 04:22 #271342

shua73 Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 263 Karma: 7	what do you mean? I dont think its contingent, just last night I was having very strong pull to fall and if she wasn't interested that would have made it harder.
	smile You can't make everyone happy, you are not pizza.

Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 15 Dec 2015 04:34 #271346

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8258 Karma: 428	I think there's a element of truth in the words of that guy that's sleeping under the tree
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Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 15 Dec 2015 05:23 #271354

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I was just pointing out that ultimately, we are striving for a state where our wife's interest or lack thereof has no bearing on our sobriety. If I am content in the mindset that as long as my wife is interested, I'm okay, I am almost guaranteed to fall as soon as she's either forbidden to me or not on the mood.
Hope that was clear.

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Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 16 Dec 2015 00:42 #271459

shua73 Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 263 Karma: 7	Agreed.
	smile You can't make everyone happy, you are not pizza.

Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 13 Apr 2016 03:01 #284440

shua73 Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 263 Karma: 7	Hey everybody out there. I keep on falling and getting up ... so I'm offering 50$ each to the first 2 people that respond and beat me to 90 days. Must be starting now like me and not mind keeping in touch/posting every couple days about your progress on the forum and exchanging insights. Thanks in advance (ps. I'm a student and don't have a lot of money. This is one of my incentives.)
	smile You can't make everyone happy, you are not pizza. Last Edit: 13 Apr 2016 03:01 by shua73.

Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 14 Apr 2016 02:38 #284538

shua73 Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 263 Karma: 7	just want to post something. I'm curious about how to make a new avator
	smile You can't make everyone happy, you are not pizza.

Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 14 Apr 2016 03:28 #284551

inastruggle
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so I'm offering 50$ each to the first 2 people that respond and beat me to 90 days. Must be starting now like me and not mind keeping in touch/posting every couple days about your progress on the forum and exchanging insights.

I will take you up on that offer. I fell last night, so I qualify as starting fresh l'mehadrin. If you want i'll fall again now in order to make a chalois fall.

(ps. I'm a student and don't have a lot of money. This is one of my incentives.)

How about you give it to gye instead? They need it more than me (they deal with me, I only have to deal with them).

BROFIST!

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Last Edit: 14 Apr 2016 03:29 by inastruggle.

Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 14 Apr 2016 03:36 #284552

shua73 Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 263 Karma: 7	Ok deal I responded to your pm in an email. giving it to gye isn't the same it's not a contest its just tzedaka not the same motivation
	smile You can't make everyone happy, you are not pizza.

Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 14 Apr 2016 03:48 #284556

inastruggle Current streak: 25 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder the picture is shimshon hagibor. not st. mary.... Posts: 1263 Karma: 35	If it's a contest then I have to give you $50 if I lose (not including your headstart). What happens when we both win and don't fall for the next 90 days? I propose we each have to buy ourselves an ice cream (or each other but that's kind of the same thing) So??? Do we have a deal?

Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 14 Apr 2016 03:55 #284557

shua73 Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 263 Karma: 7	sure
	smile You can't make everyone happy, you are not pizza.

Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 14 Apr 2016 16:35 #284594

elaalavinu Current streak: 14 days OFFLINE Banned Posts: 71 Karma: 2	i m in
	There's never been a better time to start.

Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 14 Apr 2016 23:34 #284632

shua73 Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 263 Karma: 7	ok thats the 2nd one now what day are you at?
	smile You can't make everyone happy, you are not pizza.

Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 15 Apr 2016 07:40 #284686

shua73 Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 263 Karma: 7	i don't get this avatar thing whatever, i'll just stay being morpheus
	smile You can't make everyone happy, you are not pizza.

Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 18 Apr 2016 00:27 #284891

elaalavinu Current streak: 14 days OFFLINE Banned Posts: 71 Karma: 2	hi shua73 whats up im still clean hopefully for a while
	There's never been a better time to start.

Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 18 Apr 2016 00:32 #284892

inastruggle Current streak: 25 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder the picture is shimshon hagibor. not st. mary.... Posts: 1263 Karma: 35	still clean here too