Forum

Welcome, Guest

I will make it to 90

(0 viewing)

Scientific studies show that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind. Start your own Log of your journey to 90 days! Post here to update us on your status and to give each other chizuk to stay strong!

Reply Topic

New Topic

Page:
1
2
3
4
5
6

TOPIC: I will make it to 90 6868 Views

Re: I will make it to 90 03 Jul 2014 22:01 #234593

Pidaini OFFLINE Platinum Boarder פדני מעושק אדם-מיצר הרע העושק את הבריות-רש"י Posts: 2189 Karma: 107	lavi wrote: ha ha ha, love it- the new band. Is that the new band that Abie sings about in journeys 4?
	Yankel \| My Ladder \| Talking to Hashem I'm just a dude, another guy on this bus. Have a great day, unless, of course, you made other plans. ~ obbormottel "Nothing changes as long as everything stays the same" ~ Dov

Re: I will make it to 90 06 Jul 2014 06:48 #234690

abieham Current streak: 20 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 119 Karma: 6	Hi guys its nice to be back. I was in Lakewood this week and didn't have any internet access so that's why I didn't get too involved in the chakira from before. Im doing fine today Motzei Shabbos but on Friday I saw very immodest cashiers at a bagel store and I cant get them off my mind. I have prayed to Hashem and even prayed for them but I cant stop thinking. Thanks

Re: I will make it to 90 06 Jul 2014 06:49 #234691

abieham
Current streak: 20 days
OFFLINE
Expert Boarder
Posts: 119
Karma: 6

abieham wrote:

Hi guys its nice to be back. I was in Lakewood this week and didn't have any internet access so that's why I didn't get too involved in the chakira from before. Im doing fine today Motzei Shabbos but on Friday I saw very immodest cashiers at a bagel store and I cant get them off my mind. I have prayed to Hashem and even prayed for them but I cant stop thinking (about them). Thanks

Re: I will make it to 90 06 Jul 2014 09:21 #234702

lavi OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 584 Karma: 22	dear abie nice to hear from you. um, what happened to you, unfortunately happens to us all. what i did last time this occured, i downloaded one of the horror images in the profile option. but don't do this unless you can handle it
	i love you all

Re: I will make it to 90 06 Jul 2014 11:12 #234712

shivisi Current streak: 193 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 393 Karma: 19	lavi wrote: i downloaded one of the horror images in the profile option. You downloaded WHAAAAAAT???
	Last Edit: 06 Jul 2014 11:13 by shivisi.

Re: I will make it to 90 06 Jul 2014 17:00 #234716

Machshovo Tova
OFFLINE
Platinum Boarder
Posts: 1230
Karma: 26

abieham wrote:

... Im doing fine today Motzei Shabbos but on Friday I saw very immodest cashiers at a bagel store and I cant get them off my mind. I have prayed to Hashem and even prayed for them but I cant stop thinking. Thanks

Maybe that's why a bagel comes with a hole in the middle - so that if we have a problem when looking at the bagel, we can divert our gaze and look at other things.

Hatzlacha

MT

Last Edit: 06 Jul 2014 17:01 by Machshovo Tova.

Re: I will make it to 90 06 Jul 2014 17:46 #234719

cordnoy
OFFLINE
Moderator
Posts: 12063
Karma: 653

gut gezogt, but let's stop here with the food meshalim; otherwise, it will take us/me into dangerous territory.

My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: Mikvah Night - Page 1, Page 2, Page 3, Last Page

https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/210029-Tryin

Warning: Spoiler!

My job: Punchin' bag of GYE - "NeshamaInCharge"
Quote from the chevra: "Is Cordnoy truly a Treasure Island pirate from the Southern Seas?"

MY POSTS ARE NOT WRITTEN AS A MODERATOR UNLESS EXPLICITLY STATED.

Re: I will make it to 90 06 Jul 2014 18:51 #234720

abieham Current streak: 20 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 119 Karma: 6	Im sorry to say that right after I went on this site and posted i failed. I will try to be better. I realized that i need a partner desperately. If anyone wants to be my partner email ilovehashem1818@gmail.com. PLease email me i am 18 years old i would take someone in their 20s please email me
	Last Edit: 06 Jul 2014 19:39 by abieham.

Re: I will make it to 90 06 Jul 2014 20:26 #234724

cordnoy
OFFLINE
Moderator
Posts: 12063
Karma: 653

Have you tried the Fortify site yet?

Have you spoken to anyone about your issues?

b'hatzlachah

My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: Mikvah Night - Page 1, Page 2, Page 3, Last Page

https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/210029-Tryin

Warning: Spoiler!

Re: I will make it to 90 07 Jul 2014 06:30 #234752

abieham
Current streak: 20 days
OFFLINE
Expert Boarder
Posts: 119
Karma: 6

Hi guys its me today was a great day but I just was by myself with the same way i failed last night available. (the password holder isnt home and neither is anyone else.) As suggested by cordnoy i should write a long post why i dont want to slip now.
1. I will never find the perfect picture no matter how long i look. I will never be satisfied with what i have.
2. I will immediately feel bad about myself and wallow in my misery tomorrow.
3. Its so not worth it especially since i have to get up early tomorrow morning.
4. Now is the best way to make hashem proud of me. I went on the app and even typed in something inappropriate but i didnt get to even see the whole picture and i immediately shut the phone off.
5. I will make myself feel like nothing
6. The day will be an accomplishing day---read lots on GYE( bTW the stories on the old site are so good.)
7. I want to make you guys proud.

Good night

Re: I will make it to 90 07 Jul 2014 07:36 #234754

Pidaini
OFFLINE
Platinum Boarder
פדני מעושק אדם-מיצר הרע העושק את הבריות-רש"י
Posts: 2189
Karma: 107

How'd it go?

That's a great list, even quite revealing.

Look at 1, for example, the fact that I am not satisfied with what I have is actually what drives me to lust in the first place, and only continues through the searching. Acceptance is one of the MASSIVE attitude changes that I have to make so that I don't start the searching in the first place.

Also 4, it's a great thing that I didn't finish, but what can I do so that I don't start in the first place?

and last but not least....Are you proud of yourself?

KOT!!! KOP!!! (and open up!!!

Yankel | My Ladder | Talking to Hashem
I'm just a dude, another guy on this bus.

Have a great day, unless, of course, you made other plans. ~ obbormottel
"Nothing changes as long as everything stays the same" ~ Dov

Re: I will make it to 90 07 Jul 2014 17:04 #234771

ewards Current streak: 6 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder HEY Posts: 87 Karma: 3	abieham i am proud or you this is tuesday for me hang in there
	can not figure how to get a smiley ??????

Re: I will make it to 90 07 Jul 2014 17:08 #234773

ewards Current streak: 6 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder HEY Posts: 87 Karma: 3	abieham I read some where a saying that helps me when i remember it ( once is not enough and and 100 times is not enough we are never satisfied ) thats not exactly the quote but means same thing
	can not figure how to get a smiley ??????

Re: I will make it to 90 07 Jul 2014 17:44 #234775

gevura shebyesod
Current streak: 1199 days
NOW ONLINE
Platinum Boarder
Posts: 4167
Karma: 504

"Once is too much and a thousand times is not enough"

It's from AA.

!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant

My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: I will make it to 90 08 Jul 2014 01:29 #234813

ewards Current streak: 6 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder HEY Posts: 87 Karma: 3	Man it is certainly true thanks and I like your wheels
	can not figure how to get a smiley ??????