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hello 23 May 2022 19:13 #381111

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I'm new here.
I converted with my family when I was 12 years old, went to public school. I've been struggling since about Freshman year of high school and I didn't really think twice of it till recently. This past yom kippur i tried to make a change but I really want to commit now
would love to talk further especially with recovered people

Re: hello 23 May 2022 19:23 #381112

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welcome on board. what is your approximate age now?
vehkam7@gmail.com

guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/375452-Work-in-progress

The Battle of the Generation by Hillel S. has been a huge help for me.  Message me to find out how you can receive a free copy.



some of the experiences I write about may make it easier to identify me.  This is ok.  I trust that if anyone discovers my identity they will keep it to themselves.  If you do realize that you  know me, I am completely comfortable and welcome you acknowledging me and my struggle in person.

Re: hello 23 May 2022 19:57 #381116

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Vehkam wrote on 23 May 2022 19:23:
welcome on board. what is your approximate age now?

Is that important to know?

He could be 16, or 60. 

He took a brave step joining the Jewish Club and GYE, and ASHI we welcome you with open hands 
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Re: hello 24 May 2022 03:56 #381139

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Welcome!

coming onto gye and seeking help is in of itself an amazing feat. 

Snoop around the gye site. There are many articles, audio and tools that are at your convenience. 

Keep up the good work, stick around and keep the chevra updated on your journey! 

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: hello 24 May 2022 11:38 #381144

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Im post high school, looking into learning torah full time for a bit. I was raised Jewish being that my dad is, but i went to public school where i did what everyone else did and got sucked into that culture. B"H i never got into drugs or alcohol but this is something i struggled with

Re: hello 24 May 2022 12:21 #381145

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Welcome! Please check out these great free resources: 
ebook- The Battle of the Generation 
Audio series- The Fight
They're very good to start with.
See below in my signature for the links.

​Hatzlocha!
In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation 
https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: 
https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/

If you're only ready to try something small, check out an easier way to do self-talk here:
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain—Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Re: hello 24 May 2022 15:15 #381148

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It is amazing that you are taking serious steps to address this now.  Please consider the resources that Captain suggested.  I find the book The Battle of the Generation to be excellent at guiding me to the right perspective.  I try to read one chapter every day before I go to sleep.

 Please continue to post and connect here in the forums.  as we strengthen ourselves we inspire each other.  

As you get comfortable here you may find that having a mentor or partner will be helpful as well.  
vehkam7@gmail.com

guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/375452-Work-in-progress

The Battle of the Generation by Hillel S. has been a huge help for me.  Message me to find out how you can receive a free copy.



some of the experiences I write about may make it easier to identify me.  This is ok.  I trust that if anyone discovers my identity they will keep it to themselves.  If you do realize that you  know me, I am completely comfortable and welcome you acknowledging me and my struggle in person.
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