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Another bochur 16 Nov 2018 02:19 #337292

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I a bochur 21 and starting shidduchim soon. I usually only have a problem bein hazmanim like I’ve gone for a year without falling multiple times. But then come bein hazmanim and I get taken over by the yetzer hard. Tonight I went home for an off shabbos and my evil side came up with a whole plan how I was going to fall and I tried and tried to fight it but new I was running out of willpower but then when I actualy tried the loophole I thought of in my phone it didn’t work! Hashem protected me!

Re: Another bochur 16 Nov 2018 03:24 #337295

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Diradays wrote on 16 Nov 2018 02:19:
I a bochur 21 and starting shidduchim soon. I usually only have a problem bein hazmanim like I’ve gone for a year without falling multiple times. But then come bein hazmanim and I get taken over by the yetzer hard. Tonight I went home for an off shabbos and my evil side came up with a whole plan how I was going to fall and I tried and tried to fight it but new I was running out of willpower but then when I actualy tried the loophole I thought of in my phone it didn’t work! Hashem protected me!

God protect us!!

What has the world come to????

Which Yeshiva still gives Bein Hazmanims?
And Off Shabbos???

That Shabbos switch company is going to come out with an "Off Shabbos" switch

ABSOLUTELY LUDICROUS!

Tell your Rosh Yeshiva in my name, Ok????

And which Yeshiva allows their bachurim to own a smartphone???

Anyone that owns a smartphone should not be allowed in!!!

Im going to stand outside your Yeshiva with a Picket sign demanding that your Yeshiva expel all Anti-Vaxxers, Anti-Vekkers, Anti-Dumb phones...

YOU WATCH!!!

Ok ok ok calm down - I'm just kidding

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Re: Another bochur 16 Nov 2018 04:00 #337296

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The Truth is I’m safer with my smartphone than with my basic phone I had when I thought I was more frum which had an open browser unlike an iPhone which is filtered. 

Re: Another bochur 16 Nov 2018 09:22 #337302

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Diradays wrote on 16 Nov 2018 02:19:
I a bochur 21 and starting shidduchim soon. I usually only have a problem bein hazmanim like I’ve gone for a year without falling multiple times. But then come bein hazmanim and I get taken over by the yetzer hard. Tonight I went home for an off shabbos and my evil side came up with a whole plan how I was going to fall and I tried and tried to fight it but new I was running out of willpower but then when I actualy tried the loophole I thought of in my phone it didn’t work! Hashem protected me!

How about checking in here once a day bein hazmanim just to say hello.

Re: Another bochur 17 Nov 2018 23:57 #337309

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Not an easy off shabbos. Good thing I’m going back tonight...

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Diradays wrote on 17 Nov 2018 23:57:
Not an easy off shabbos. Good thing I’m going back tonight...

I'm sorry to hear it was hard. 

You only managed to chazer 25 blatt?
That is quite depressing...
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Re: Another bochur 18 Nov 2018 04:54 #337324

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Welcome to GYE. Iyh you will get the help you need here. What you describe is very common. Bochurim staying completely clean until bein hazmanim… Stay connected with the oilam here. Hatzlocha.
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Re: Another bochur 18 Nov 2018 06:33 #337326

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Diradays wrote on 17 Nov 2018 23:57:
Not an easy off shabbos. Good thing I’m going back tonight...

Maybe there is something that can be done to make it easier for the next ben hazmanim?

Re: Another bochur 18 Nov 2018 19:24 #337333

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i guess I’ll start thinking of stuff before the next time I leave for shabbos
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