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Need support 19 Jun 2017 17:55 #315639

Tunrand
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For so long, as long as I can remember I suppose, I've been a slave to this. I am a Baal teshuva and so I grew up with this terrible addiction from the begging. In the last five years I've made what feels like endless efforts to beat this addiction but over and over, have failed. I love my wife, my children, my Creator and my fellow yidden, and I want more than anything to take my place among them as the person I know I truly am; and I know that my entire spiritual figure depends on this tikkun habris.

I have ave filters on my phone, computer etc... but somehow always seem to find complicated ways around them. I can fight it when I am strong, learning, davening, working and happy. But when I have a nefilah in simcha from any of the above, it only takes one late night to ruin everything again.

I dont know know where to go from here but I hope I can find help here.

Re: Need support 19 Jun 2017 18:06 #315642

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8259 Karma: 428	There's only 1 way to go from here, and that's forward ;-) - Check my sig below I was listening to Dov today, he's amazing for example this lecture Whenever you're ready give him a bu Markzzz
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Re: Need support 19 Jun 2017 20:30 #315651

dms1234 Current streak: 767 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1106 Karma: 49	Welcome! I am also a Baal Teshuva and also an addict. Feel free to reach out!
	I am happy to speak on the phone. Please email me at dms1234ongye@gmail.com My name is Daniel, I go to face to face meetings and I work the 12 steps with a sponsor.

Re: Need support 20 Jun 2017 18:14 #315722

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Re: Need support 20 Jun 2017 19:47 #315732

mayanhamisgaber Current streak: 44 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1198 Karma: 71	Sounds hard I feel your pain Definitely call Dov and Probably a sponsor will help for those tough times Recovery should be with Hatzlacha
	very important thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21">FEEL THE HUGS!!!

Re: Need support 20 Jun 2017 21:29 #315747

dms1234 Current streak: 767 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1106 Karma: 49	I like where mayanHamisagaber is going with this one but tell me tunrand what clear strategies were you thinking of?
	I am happy to speak on the phone. Please email me at dms1234ongye@gmail.com My name is Daniel, I go to face to face meetings and I work the 12 steps with a sponsor.

Re: Need support 22 Jun 2017 15:07 #315891

gibbor120 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder NEVER EVER GIVE UP! Posts: 5251 Karma: 166	Welcome! You have come to the right place. Your story is common. Check out the handbook, and dov quotes. Keep posting.
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Re: Need support 22 Jun 2017 15:21 #315892

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We feel your pain, but I have a question for you.
I relate to you because I'm working in the tech field, so I could bypass any filter what so ever I tried everything (all the filters out there) but nothing helped me because i always found a way around it. as you said, that only happens when you have a neffilah.

So my question to you is what filters do you have? because if you are not a pro in the tech field and you have the right filters on your phone and devices you will not be able to bypass them.