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Hi 13 Oct 2016 16:38 #296322

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Hello,

I always turn to the internet (porn sites, live cams, ect) for my problems or just to pass time. I tried numerous times to quit but without luck. I just came across this site recently and decided to give it a try. 

Re: Hi 13 Oct 2016 17:07 #296326

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Re: Hi 13 Oct 2016 17:39 #296328

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Hello and welcome! First off you are not alone. I've suffered with the same issues for many years. What solutions have you tried. The handbook can be a great place place to start. Read around on the site and see what has worked for others. 

Re: Hi 13 Oct 2016 17:43 #296329

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Did not use any tactics to stop. My partner loves porn as well but not addicted as i am, any recommendation?

Re: Hi 13 Oct 2016 18:38 #296334

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Welcome,
Sorry if this is unintelligent, but who is your partner(wife,girlfriend,...)?

Re: Hi 13 Oct 2016 19:23 #296335

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How would that make a different as far as the solution goes? 
I am not trying to be rude, its my first day on this site!

Re: Hi 13 Oct 2016 19:29 #296337

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I guess not much. /check out the tools on GYE i imagine there'll be somthing that can solve your problem. Also, look around the forums, maybe you'll bump into a thread that you can relate to

Re: Hi 13 Oct 2016 19:40 #296339

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Thanks much, will do.
Browsing this site makes me want to watch more porn and masturbate, is that normal??

Re: Hi 13 Oct 2016 19:47 #296341

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Welcome. In an ideal situation, this forum would be able to help anyone who is seeking it. It is however, slanted towards Orthodox jews and definitely has a strong emphasis on that society and lifestyle. That being the case, you may not find this forum very helpful (though I wish you much success), especially if it apparently exacerbates your problem as well.
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Re: Hi 13 Oct 2016 19:53 #296343

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I am ultra Orthodox, I learn every morning for several hours and daven every day. And yes I am here because I realize I need help, I do apologize again if I say something I should not. Like I said it is my first day on this site!! 

Re: Hi 13 Oct 2016 19:55 #296344

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I apologize for the misunderstanding.
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"We have met the enemy and he is us" - Pogo
"Expectation is the mother of frustration" - gibbor120
"Today, damn it! Today!" - cordnoy
"Desiring is not a sin at all, but just a sign that you are not dead yet" - Dov
"We are our own worst observer" - eslaasos's therapist
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Re: Hi 13 Oct 2016 19:58 #296345

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No worries at all, like I said I need guidance and REALLY want help!!

Re: Hi 13 Oct 2016 20:01 #296346

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Try the FAQ's and the Handbook. Links are in my signature.
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www.guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/236329-Bigmoishs-path-to-tahara

"We have met the enemy and he is us" - Pogo
"Expectation is the mother of frustration" - gibbor120
"Today, damn it! Today!" - cordnoy
"Desiring is not a sin at all, but just a sign that you are not dead yet" - Dov
"We are our own worst observer" - eslaasos's therapist
WDHW!!!

Re: Hi 13 Oct 2016 20:01 #296347

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I think moish....
No, I'm not Moish and don't know what he was thinking.  Maybe call him and ask...

I think I was misunderstanding your post. If you have a male parter regardless of your 'religious affiliation', maybe take your time as you say you need time, and come back tomorrow and let us know your situation

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Re: Hi 13 Oct 2016 20:08 #296348

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@Bigmoish, thanks I will do that.

@Markz, Please clarify. Did not get  it, thanks.
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