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My Story 24 Mar 2016 16:19 #282444

Endeavouring
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Hi,
So I had struggled with these problems for a couple of years, but fortunately my falls gradually became less frequent. By the beginning of this past autumn I had completely rid myself of lustful habits and I went clean for half a year.
Around a couple of weeks ago, I sadly fell back into my old ways and so I find myself here. I think the cause of my recent fall is that I had tons of free time with absolutely nothing to do.
With the help of Hashem and this website I hope to break free for good this time and never return to such habits again. It's not going to be a cakewalk but I've done it before so I believe anything is possible.

Re: My Story 24 Mar 2016 18:20 #282447

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8259 Karma: 428	Welcome! Forgive most of the guys for not putting out the welcome mat for you! They are busy cake-walking or something similar! Keep on Drinking One Truck at a Time!!!
	My Story---------Dov Quotes *FREE LUST TRUCK TOWING* *Click HERE to checkout;* • 100 Day Success Stories: cordnoy, Dov, Gevura and more... • Awesome Threads Saved for You • Cast Your Vote ➣ GYE Plenty Solutions ➣ The Mark of Torah - Lust Chizuk ➣ Nice Trucking Story

Re: My Story 24 Mar 2016 21:07 #282453

Sasha 2 Current streak: 19 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 199 Karma: 10	Welcome welcome! You seem like you have the right determination to succeed. Hatzlacha!
	Feel free to email me anytime sanonym380380@gmail.com

Re: My Story 25 Mar 2016 01:58 #282461

shmulyz19 OFFLINE Banned I am lucky to be alive each day. Thank you HaShem Posts: 160 Karma: -1	markz wrote on 24 Mar 2016 18:20: Keep on Drinking One Truck at a Time!!! Mark, what happened to KOT & ODAAT??
	I am not a therapist offering advice. I am merely a concerned poster and Friend.. You can do it. KOT. Please chat me anytime. I'm all ears. Thank You Thank you... Shmuly

Re: My Story 25 Mar 2016 03:22 #282470

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8259 Karma: 428	shmulyz18 wrote: markz wrote: Keep on Drinking One Truck at a Time!!! Mark, what happened to KOT & ODAAT?? I'm sure you know what venuhepoch hoo means
	My Story---------Dov Quotes *FREE LUST TRUCK TOWING* *Click HERE to checkout;* • 100 Day Success Stories: cordnoy, Dov, Gevura and more... • Awesome Threads Saved for You • Cast Your Vote ➣ GYE Plenty Solutions ➣ The Mark of Torah - Lust Chizuk ➣ Nice Trucking Story Last Edit: 25 Mar 2016 03:26 by Markz.

Re: My Story 25 Mar 2016 06:03 #282479

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Welcome.

B'hatzlachah

My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: Mikvah Night - Page 1, Page 2, Page 3, Last Page

https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/210029-Tryin

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Re: My Story 25 Mar 2016 19:49 #282515

shmulyz19 OFFLINE Banned I am lucky to be alive each day. Thank you HaShem Posts: 160 Karma: -1	yes mark of course I do, how was your Purim?
	I am not a therapist offering advice. I am merely a concerned poster and Friend.. You can do it. KOT. Please chat me anytime. I'm all ears. Thank You Thank you... Shmuly

Re: My Story 27 Mar 2016 12:48 #282636

mr.clean Current streak: 5 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 177 Karma: 10	Why exactly do u think u have a "list issue"? At what point do u say I am a male with normal male taivos? Maybe some self control work but From what you described its hard to see an "issue"?
	A mistake is only a mistake if you don't learn from it.

Re: My Story 27 Mar 2016 17:27 #282651

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mr.clean wrote on 27 Mar 2016 12:48:

Why exactly do u think u have a "list issue"? At what point do u say I am a male with normal male taivos? Maybe some self control work but From what you described its hard to see an "issue"?

Just because someone is a male with normal male taivos does not mean that he doesn't struggle with lustful temptations. The pandemic of looking at lustful images and wasting seed etc. has unfortunately affected many, both those with a regular natural sexuality and those without.
Having normal male taivos is not an excuse to violate the second half of Bamidbar 15:39. Rambam wrote that one must not even derive pleasure from looking at the finger of a woman. So clearly, the fact that I gave into my flesh is an issue in itself, as it was a grave sin.
It was grave enough for Chazal to say that one's hand "ought to be chopped off" for it, so it's enough for me to consider it a problem and use this website's help.
But fair question.