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Re: My story 27 Oct 2015 18:43 #267002

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A heart warming song for us tshuva doers, form the great marvelous middos machine.
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Relapses and falling are inevitable, the challenge is getting up.

Tzaddikim are the not the ones that don't fall, they are the ones that fall constantly and get up constantly.

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Re: My story 27 Oct 2015 18:57 #267004

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Well since I'm not on my computer on motze shabbos, I will post here my thing (on Tuesday)

markz wrote:
Next week you can post jokes about polishers

dms1234 wrote:
Bigmoish wrote:

A Polish guy (sorry if anyone is Polish, just thought I should stay away from blondes)... ...
What? You think your wife will see?

Well if Harav guard could write about blondes...



the.guard wrote:
SHE WAS SO BLONDE...

... she tripped over a cordless phone.
... she spent 20 minutes looking at the orange juice box
because it said "concentrate"
... she put lipstick on her forehead because she wanted to
make up her mind.
... she got stabbed in a shoot-out.
... she told me to meet her at the corner of "WALK" and
"DON'T WALK".
... she tried to put M&M's in alphabetical order.
... she sent me a fax with a stamp on it
... she tried to drown a fish.
... she thought a quarterback was a refund.
... she got locked in a grocery store and starved to death.
... if you gave her a penny for intelligence, you'd get
change back.
... they had to burn the school down to get her out of 3d
grade.
... under "education" on her job application, she put
"Hooked On Phonics".
... she took a ruler to bed to see how long she slept.
... at the bottom of the application where it says "sign
here" she put "Sagittarius".
... she asked for a price check at the Dollar Store.
... it takes her two hours to watch 60 Minutes.
... if she spoke her mind, she'd probably be speechless.
... she thought she needed a token to get on Soul Train
... she sold the car for gas money.
... when she saw the "NC-17" (under 17 not admitted), she
went home and got 16 friends.
... when she heard that 90% of all crimes occur around the
home, she moved.
... when she took you to the airport and saw a sign that
said "Airport Left" she turned around and went home.


...then I guess we can too.

Unless you want report the.guard of course.
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Tzaddikim are the not the ones that don't fall, they are the ones that fall constantly and get up constantly.

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Last Edit: 27 Oct 2015 19:01 by Mesayin.

Re: My story 27 Oct 2015 19:50 #267017

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I see you changed your avatar image - people notice (your previous one was cute, so is this)
markz wrote:
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Re: My story 27 Oct 2015 22:13 #267031

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markz wrote:
I see you changed your avatar image - people notice (your previous one was cute, so is this)
Yikes! I'm trying to change it again (cause this avatar might reveal who I am being that I use it somewhere else) but it's not working!
My thread/My story

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Relapses and falling are inevitable, the challenge is getting up.

Tzaddikim are the not the ones that don't fall, they are the ones that fall constantly and get up constantly.

Feel free to contact me anytime through private message or chat.

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Re: My story 27 Oct 2015 22:20 #267034

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Mesayin

Three days and 6 Hr to go to the wall of Honor!!!!!
KOT!!!
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Re: My story 28 Oct 2015 18:47 #267096

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There are some frightening stuff going on in the holy land Hashem yerachem, there are a lot of people saying that it is time near the end of the golus, Hashem should help us b'kuroiv b'yumeinu umein!

We at GYE carry a big load for klal yisroel, we are meriting a bunch of zechusim with our strength and bringing moshiach closer, we are the on the front lines.

Therefore let us all grab hold of ourselves and push on till moshiach comes.

Here are a couple of lectures about the time of moshiach, it's worth the time to listen to:

Rabbi Yossi Mizrachi
Rabbi zechariah Wallerstein

Chazak V'emutz
My thread/My story

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Relapses and falling are inevitable, the challenge is getting up.

Tzaddikim are the not the ones that don't fall, they are the ones that fall constantly and get up constantly.

Feel free to contact me anytime through private message or chat.

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Last Edit: 28 Oct 2015 18:47 by Mesayin.

Re: My story 29 Oct 2015 01:13 #267138

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Hey Mesayin.. thanks for all your posts, jokes, and links to speeches... they've been great. Sorry for responding to your first post so late, but as they say better later than never. I was very impressed by your story and related to a lot of it. The movies, the "innocent" mistakes, and the shalom biyes (haven't gotten advice from a chassid to say a brachah, but you filled that role!)

I don't know your family situation well of course, but mine is pretty bad... My father is a narcissist, which means he has no or very little recognition of what the people around him want or think. He views everyone around him as pawns for his convenience or as means to help him reach his many goals of fame. He blows up when things don't go his way and gets depressed when his ego is hurt. He yells at people, is best friends with them a little later, but only to be furious with right after. I could go keep going but there must be some limit to how long a post can be.

My behavior isn't directly caused by this and it stems from more personal issues, but it definitely is effected by it and makes it harder to recover in a dis-functional environment demanding me to feel lost and depressed.

Once again thanks and keep posting
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Re: My story 29 Oct 2015 16:05 #267224

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Hi Chiam.

I think you may be underestimating how much your family life affected/affects you. It doesn't just make it harder now. Your whole personality is shaped by your family situation. Your "personal issues" are likely a direct result of your family situation.

That doesn't mean that you can't do anything about it. It does help many of us let go of the guilt and the "it's all my fault" complex that doesn't really get us anywhere.

As far as a limit to the length of a post, check out the dov quotes in my signature .

Re: My story 29 Oct 2015 18:47 #267258

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gibbor120 wrote:


I think you may be underestimating how much your family life affected/affects you. It doesn't just make it harder now. Your whole personality is shaped by your family situation. Your "personal issues" are likely a direct result of your family situation.


I can relate to that, when I was young I thought that parents fighting is normal just like kids in school fight, I thought that being constantly yelled at is normal, until I got older and found out what 'normal' really is.
My thread/My story

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Relapses and falling are inevitable, the challenge is getting up.

Tzaddikim are the not the ones that don't fall, they are the ones that fall constantly and get up constantly.

Feel free to contact me anytime through private message or chat.

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Re: My story 29 Oct 2015 19:26 #267271

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Ok I've got a problem.

I have developed a addiction to video games, as I wrote in my original post that I've been playing computer games since I was two years old.

Well today is slow day at work and decided to look for the new games that come on Amazon and watch all the trailers and all the details, one issue is that it's taking me away from my work but another reason, which is the reason I'm posting it on GYE, is that a lot of trailers and game details have some triggers for me.

Any advise?
My thread/My story

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Relapses and falling are inevitable, the challenge is getting up.

Tzaddikim are the not the ones that don't fall, they are the ones that fall constantly and get up constantly.

Feel free to contact me anytime through private message or chat.

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Re: My story 29 Oct 2015 19:33 #267274

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There's a reason that monstuh trucks don't have trailers.
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...





My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: My story 29 Oct 2015 19:40 #267275

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Decide not to look for the new games on Amazon and decide not to watch the trailers.

You can use the tools here for any addiction/obsession. The principles are the same.

Re: My story 30 Oct 2015 13:37 #267379

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A common thread for many of us here is the need to escape.
While P and fantasy might be the most obviously problematic, I find myself needing to work on not escaping in other ways as well.
This involves not only recognizing the restlessness that begs escape, but also improving my real life, making it sweet so I don't feel the need to fly away from it.
One simple way to do this is to constantly count my many blessings.

Re: My story 30 Oct 2015 19:12 #267396

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Re: My story 01 Nov 2015 19:54 #267479

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Mazal Tov!
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