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TOPIC: Mesayin's Motivative Messages 41166 Views
Re: My story 12 May 2017 17:47 #312979
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My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous) If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful." "Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'. "The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same." Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others. MY POSTS ARE NOT WRITTEN AS A MODERATOR UNLESS EXPLICITLY STATED. |
Re: My story 12 May 2017 17:56 #312980
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My thread/My story
Slogans and Sayings Relapses and falling are inevitable, the challenge is getting up. Tzaddikim are the not the ones that don't fall, they are the ones that fall constantly and get up constantly. Feel free to contact me anytime through private message or chat. Chizzuk emails by Rabbi Duvid Ashear shlita that can change your day subscribe now. Check out my powerful tefila. Depressed? Check out some of my jokes |
Re: My story 12 May 2017 19:00 #312983
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וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah I'll help you see it through... My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends |
Re: My story 12 May 2017 19:01 #312984
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Mesayin wrote on 12 May 2017 17:56:
We all know that all the great people in history suffered a bunch, then overcame their suffering and became great people. But I still can't find someone in history that both of his parents messed him up. Does any one know of such a person? If not, then I'm going to have to be the first one. Unfortunately you're not the first... Each one is a tragedy Many don't know how to get out of the rut, so they escape to drugs, for example Porn Many have made it out of the rut of victim hood, but many are stuck there and need Towing if they are willing I see you have your arm out Are you looking for a hitch  ?
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Re: My story 12 May 2017 20:00 #312989
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Mesayin wrote on 12 May 2017 15:13:
The few things I would enjoy are the following: Philosophy Psychology Humor Music  Warning: Spoiler!So I would like to try out here on the forum, and I indulge you that you please respectfully give me a piece of your mind on anything I write. Totally fine with that. If you are going to practice psychology on the forum, Please put a disclamer. Especially if you feel you are a Warning: Spoiler! |
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My email address is: growinghigher613@gmail.com
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Re: My story 13 May 2017 21:01 #312995
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my thread:
guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21">FEEL THE HUGS!!! |
Re: My story 14 May 2017 01:46 #313002
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What works for me: 1) Honesty 2) Meetings 3) 12-step 4) Listening to my Sponsor 5) Not doing what I want to do 6) Inviting the God of my understanding into my life
"I can't do it, God can help." | "Everything I want is on the other side of fear." | "Where there is deprivation there is addiction." | "Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery." | "Stop stopping, start living." My thread: Big Steps Email: iam24zman@gmail.com |
Re: My story 14 May 2017 19:14 #313054
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Markz wrote on 12 May 2017 19:01:
Mesayin wrote on 12 May 2017 17:56: We all know that all the great people in history suffered a bunch, then overcame their suffering and became great people. But I still can't find someone in history that both of his parents messed him up. Does any one know of such a person? If not, then I'm going to have to be the first one. Unfortunately you're not the first... Each one is a tragedy Many don't know how to get out of the rut, so they escape to drugs, for example Porn Many have made it out of the rut of victim hood, but many are stuck there and need Towing if they are willing I see you have your arm out Are you looking for a hitch ?I'll tell you what, when I was in deep depression mode I was deflecting all types of chizzuk, like for example beshvili nivra haolam, additionally when someone would say "Hey look at all great people in history had a rough going" I would say "yeah, at least they had one parent". But now I am bit better Mooded (if that's a word), I'm just academically asking if there is a such person in history and perhaps I can take some chizzuk from that person and of there isn't such a person, then either me or some other people here will need to be the first one. |
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My thread/My story
Slogans and Sayings Relapses and falling are inevitable, the challenge is getting up. Tzaddikim are the not the ones that don't fall, they are the ones that fall constantly and get up constantly. Feel free to contact me anytime through private message or chat. Chizzuk emails by Rabbi Duvid Ashear shlita that can change your day subscribe now. Check out my powerful tefila. Depressed? Check out some of my jokes |
Re: My story 14 May 2017 19:17 #313055
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My thread/My story
Slogans and Sayings Relapses and falling are inevitable, the challenge is getting up. Tzaddikim are the not the ones that don't fall, they are the ones that fall constantly and get up constantly. Feel free to contact me anytime through private message or chat. Chizzuk emails by Rabbi Duvid Ashear shlita that can change your day subscribe now. Check out my powerful tefila. Depressed? Check out some of my jokes |
Re: My story 14 May 2017 19:19 #313056
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My thread/My story
Slogans and Sayings Relapses and falling are inevitable, the challenge is getting up. Tzaddikim are the not the ones that don't fall, they are the ones that fall constantly and get up constantly. Feel free to contact me anytime through private message or chat. Chizzuk emails by Rabbi Duvid Ashear shlita that can change your day subscribe now. Check out my powerful tefila. Depressed? Check out some of my jokes |
Re: My story 14 May 2017 19:27 #313058
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Mesayin wrote on 14 May 2017 19:14:
Markz wrote on 12 May 2017 19:01: Mesayin wrote on 12 May 2017 17:56: We all know that all the great people in history suffered a bunch, then overcame their suffering and became great people. But I still can't find someone in history that both of his parents messed him up. Does any one know of such a person? If not, then I'm going to have to be the first one. Unfortunately you're not the first... Each one is a tragedy Many don't know how to get out of the rut, so they escape to drugs, for example Porn Many have made it out of the rut of victim hood, but many are stuck there and need Towing if they are willing I see you have your arm out Are you looking for a hitch ?I'll tell you what, when I was in deep depression mode I was deflecting all types of chizzuk, like for example beshvili nivra haolam, additionally when someone would say "Hey look at all great people in history had a rough going" I would say "yeah, at least they had one parent". But now I am bit better Mooded (if that's a word), I'm just academically asking if there is a such person in history and perhaps I can take some chizzuk from that person and of there isn't such a person, then either me or some other people here will need to be the first one. II really wanted to stay away from this discussion, but I'm gettin' pulled in. Allow me please to say one thin': famous vort from one of the rebbes where everyone was complainin' about their lot, so they all deposited their "peckels" in a room and were told they can choose whichever one they want. Needless to say, they all chose their own. My story is well known by many. I don't think that too many here have the amounts and severity of the issues that I B"H have (and I am very grateful for the part of my life where the issues are minimal and am grateful that the severe issues are what they are as well....whatever the Hell that means), and now that I have been actively workin' the program for some time, I would never use my B'hatzlachah |
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My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous) If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful." "Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'. "The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same." Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others. MY POSTS ARE NOT WRITTEN AS A MODERATOR UNLESS EXPLICITLY STATED. |
Re: My story 14 May 2017 19:33 #313059
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What works for me: 1) Honesty 2) Meetings 3) 12-step 4) Listening to my Sponsor 5) Not doing what I want to do 6) Inviting the God of my understanding into my life
"I can't do it, God can help." | "Everything I want is on the other side of fear." | "Where there is deprivation there is addiction." | "Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery." | "Stop stopping, start living." My thread: Big Steps Email: iam24zman@gmail.com |
Re: My story 14 May 2017 19:35 #313060
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cordnoy wrote on 14 May 2017 19:27:
Mesayin wrote on 14 May 2017 19:14: Markz wrote on 12 May 2017 19:01: Mesayin wrote on 12 May 2017 17:56: We all know that all the great people in history suffered a bunch, then overcame their suffering and became great people. But I still can't find someone in history that both of his parents messed him up. Does any one know of such a person? If not, then I'm going to have to be the first one. Unfortunately you're not the first... Each one is a tragedy Many don't know how to get out of the rut, so they escape to drugs, for example Porn Many have made it out of the rut of victim hood, but many are stuck there and need Towing if they are willing I see you have your arm out Are you looking for a hitch ?I'll tell you what, when I was in deep depression mode I was deflecting all types of chizzuk, like for example beshvili nivra haolam, additionally when someone would say "Hey look at all great people in history had a rough going" I would say "yeah, at least they had one parent". But now I am bit better Mooded (if that's a word), I'm just academically asking if there is a such person in history and perhaps I can take some chizzuk from that person and of there isn't such a person, then either me or some other people here will need to be the first one. II really wanted to stay away from this discussion, but I'm gettin' pulled in. Allow me please to say one thin': famous vort from one of the rebbes where everyone was complainin' about their lot, so they all deposited their "peckels" in a room and were told they can choose whichever one they want. Needless to say, they all chose their own. My story is well known by many. I don't think that too many here have the amounts and severity of the issues that I B"H have (and I am very grateful for the part of my life where the issues are minimal and am grateful that the severe issues are what they are as well....whatever the Hell that means), and now that I have been actively workin' the program for some time, I would never use my B'hatzlachah Thanks for your input but I think you may have read my posts with the wrong 'trupin', with the wrong tune. Whenever I or anybody else are in deep depression we use all types of excuses to justify whatever the heck we are doing just for the fact that it is too painful to face reality, that is exactly what I was doing. This probably doesn't come to a surprise to you but hey, maybe it does. My question is, as I wrote previously, is an ACADEMIC question, in other words "a history lesson" and perhaps I can take some chizzuk from that. If no one can come up with anything then I will just move on anyway. Please don't make me need to put musical notes in my posts. |
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My thread/My story
Slogans and Sayings Relapses and falling are inevitable, the challenge is getting up. Tzaddikim are the not the ones that don't fall, they are the ones that fall constantly and get up constantly. Feel free to contact me anytime through private message or chat. Chizzuk emails by Rabbi Duvid Ashear shlita that can change your day subscribe now. Check out my powerful tefila. Depressed? Check out some of my jokes |
Re: My story 14 May 2017 19:45 #313061
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What works for me: 1) Honesty 2) Meetings 3) 12-step 4) Listening to my Sponsor 5) Not doing what I want to do 6) Inviting the God of my understanding into my life
"I can't do it, God can help." | "Everything I want is on the other side of fear." | "Where there is deprivation there is addiction." | "Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery." | "Stop stopping, start living." My thread: Big Steps Email: iam24zman@gmail.com |
Re: My story 14 May 2017 20:01 #313062
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My thread/My story
Slogans and Sayings Relapses and falling are inevitable, the challenge is getting up. Tzaddikim are the not the ones that don't fall, they are the ones that fall constantly and get up constantly. Feel free to contact me anytime through private message or chat. Chizzuk emails by Rabbi Duvid Ashear shlita that can change your day subscribe now. Check out my powerful tefila. Depressed? Check out some of my jokes |