Safek Fall - lekula in my humble opinion.

Hi There NGU,
I hebrew we say Nofal or better yet NO Fall!!
You are still in the game. Keep up the great work with a smile on your face.
We are so lucky to be part of this great group.
I think that although in here we are anonymous even from each other for the most part, we will probably be in an exclusive club in the next world where our shame here will be pride for all that we have accomplished together Lshem Shamayim.

cordnoy


Not bad! Do you paskin in other areas as well?

I'm in a special position to paskin today, because . With this special limited privilege, I say still clean.

"To thy own self be true"!

Hatzlacha!

Happy Birthday serenity.

A birthday is a special time when we get a little sentimental and take stock of ourselves.

Thank you Hashem for giving us this living inspiration who is referred to on our GYE forum as serenity.

May serenity continue to be an inspiration to us and may he be blessed with Hatzlocho in all inyanim.

I would like to kindly ask all the guys reading this to say the above statement out loud.

{This request is a little out of the ordinary but I just wanted to do this}

Done. Although I took the liberty of changing it to nusach ashkenaz
Happy birthday serenity. Have a gebenchter year.
Shlomo

YES!!!! TOTALLY AGREE

Hey everyone,

Thanks for the Chizuk, I really needed it. Thank G-d im going strong now and im going to kee pgoiwing and NEVER GIVE UP.

happy birthday Serenity!!!

Thanks Still going!!!!!

Thank you for the Bday wishes! Bracha ViHatslacha !

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SERENITY!!
May you live to 120 Bkedusha Ubetahara!

Hey Everyone,

I Had a fall today, i was doing rentals at one of my building and i was scoping out an apartment. I had to go to the bathroom so naturally i was there for a while and i was bored the next thing i know its over. Hence this was when my phone has been unblocked due to a glitch for around a week. Though its funny when I have blocks i don't even try to get around them its only when they are more accessible, that's when i and most normal people tend to fall. I do want to tell you a little back story of the past 2 years. before i got married i was clean for 8 months +, then i was clean for additional 2 months after. What happened was that we were having a hard time having sex. At first we thought it was just us because we were two virgins so we kept trying but I wasn't even succeeding. So we went to a gyno and they said everything was fine, juts keep trying, so we did but still with no success. Then my wife got sick and needed surgery and was not at full strength for like 3 months. So basically ive been married for 11 months and not once have i had complete sex with my wife. it has been really frustrating and it really threw off my rythym when it came to not falling. In the beginning we would try and fail and i wouldn't act out for 2 months, but it wears out on you. though I'm not acting out on a regular basis, throughout this year it was like 7-15 times, and i keep trying to get back into rhythm like I've had before and my wife has been going to a PT and soon i think we will solve this issue. also, you think it will help once we figure out the whole sex thing. Don't get me wrong it wont put it away, i still need to work on myself but i hope or think it might help a little. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks,

Never give up

Firstly, didn't you write on another thread to someone that he MUST GET A FILTER?
Regardin' your question, you should be speakin' to a professional; not anonymous lust addicts.

b'hatzlachah on all

Thanks for sharing with us. Ditto to Cords.

"We discovered that we could stop, that not feeding the hunger didn't kill us, that sex was indeed optional! " SA

Yes, and I only was supposed to take care of it, but i was busy. Not saying that was an excuse. Funny thing ,i posted that after it was fixed and i felt much better, a sense of relief(i know i sound like an hypocrite). The whole sex thing was not psychological it was something physical with my wife. she has been going to physical therapy for a bit and has been making progress. Hopefully that will be resolved because we really would like to get pregnant.

Thanks for the help Cordnoy!!!

i did want to ask when we control ourselves and choose not to feed the hunger, how can i keep it form getting bottled up and channel it elsewhere in a healthy manner.

Any advice would be great.