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TOPIC: A reMARKable noteBOOK 10617 Views
A reMARKable noteBOOK 05 May 2016 01:59 #286679
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Without much ado here goes - following the sagacious advice of Skeptic to read the Handbook, and Cordnoy that also encouraged me to invest in the White Book, now let the reading begin. Thank you guys!!!
All it takes is 5+ Minutes a day, and noting any important info or notes  Warning: Spoiler! |
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➣ The Mark of Torah - Lust Chizuk ➣ Nice Trucking Story |
, as has happened to too many other Truckers... Nu Nu, Iy"H you'll all join me too 
Re: My re'MARK'able noteBOOK 05 May 2016 02:00 #286680
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My Story---------Dov Quotes
➣ The Mark of Torah - Lust Chizuk ➣ Nice Trucking Story |
Re: My re'MARK'able noteBOOK 05 May 2016 02:04 #286681
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My Story---------Dov Quotes
➣ The Mark of Torah - Lust Chizuk ➣ Nice Trucking Story |
Re: A reMARKable noteBOOK 05 May 2016 02:59 #286688
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GYE HANDBOOK
Page 12: Reporting Software
GYE dropdown only shows "Filters", whereas Accountability is hard to find under the filter website Comment: I think "Filters" Should be changed to "Safeguards", and also Accountability better explained How many of you know that a regular smartphone / iphone can have the regular browser totally locked, and use a dedicated 'webchaver / Accountability' Browser? Is that info found anywhere on GYE? I'm not the only one that plays games with filters, others do too, and therefore 'Accountability' should be offered clearly separately Moreover, I personally do not use any filtering, but rely entirely on my faithful 'Accountability' partner I gleaned from the handbook, that people who don't “acting out” (viewing inappropriate material and/or hoto’as zera livatala) can suffice with filtering IMHO, this is great for their kids (I'm being sarcastic) who know how to bypass filtering Even if the father can rely on filter for himself, but for his family he should have Accountability Software, to ensure a safe environment My 2 cents Edit: The following is from page 19 . Even if we have a filter installed, it is important to have accountability software. When lust attacks, an addict can usually find a way around his filter, but if he knows that his partner will see all the sites he is trying to access, it will be a far stronger deterrent. If you are having a hard time finding a partner or you’re too embarrassed, use our Knas Based Accountability program at www.gye.org.il/kba (minimum $100 Knas for every bad report).
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My Story---------Dov Quotes
➣ The Mark of Torah - Lust Chizuk ➣ Nice Trucking Story |
Re: A reMARKable noteBOOK 05 May 2016 15:27 #286772
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My Story---------Dov Quotes
➣ The Mark of Torah - Lust Chizuk ➣ Nice Trucking Story |
Re: A reMARKable noteBOOK 05 May 2016 16:25 #286788
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markz wrote on 05 May 2016 02:59:
GYE HANDBOOK Page 12: Reporting Software
GYE dropdown only shows "Filters", whereas Accountability is hard to find under the filter website Comment: I think "Filters" Should be changed to "Safeguards", and also Accountability better explained How many of you know that a regular smartphone / iphone can have the regular browser totally locked, and use a dedicated 'webchaver / Accountability' Browser? Is that info found anywhere on GYE? I'm not the only one that plays games with filters, others do too, and therefore 'Accountability' should be offered clearly separately Moreover, I personally do not use any filtering, but rely entirely on my faithful 'Accountability' partner I gleaned from the handbook, that people who don't “acting out” (viewing inappropriate material and/or hoto’as zera livatala) can suffice with filtering IMHO, this is great for their kids (I'm being sarcastic) who know how to bypass filtering Even if the father can rely on filter for himself, but for his family he should have Accountability Software, to ensure a safe environment My 2 cents When you do that on the iPhone there is still a problem because you can access a browser through many apps, so what you have to do is also add restrictions on browsing- either white list or youth. |
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Re: A reMARKable noteBOOK 05 May 2016 16:59 #286794
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My Story---------Dov Quotes
➣ The Mark of Torah - Lust Chizuk ➣ Nice Trucking Story |
Re: A reMARKable noteBOOK 06 May 2016 02:20 #286873
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My Story---------Dov Quotes
➣ The Mark of Torah - Lust Chizuk ➣ Nice Trucking Story |
Re: A reMARKable noteBOOK 06 May 2016 04:27 #286898
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Re: A reMARKable noteBOOK 06 May 2016 15:11 #286960
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Re: A reMARKable noteBOOK 06 May 2016 15:46 #286966
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Re: A reMARKable noteBOOK 06 May 2016 16:01 #286969
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My Story---------Dov Quotes
➣ The Mark of Torah - Lust Chizuk ➣ Nice Trucking Story |
Re: A reMARKable noteBOOK 06 May 2016 17:35 #286983
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Re: A reMARKable noteBOOK 06 May 2016 18:13 #286989
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If you're an LGBTQ or LGBTQ-questioning person and looking for someone who can understand you, feel free to reach out. I promise no judgement and to try and listen the best I can.
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Re: A reMARKable noteBOOK 06 May 2016 18:53 #287000
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My Story---------Dov Quotes
➣ The Mark of Torah - Lust Chizuk ➣ Nice Trucking Story |
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