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Re: This time will be better 14 Apr 2022 13:35 #379980

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Good morning! 1 day clean behind me B”H.
I’m asking Hashem to help me stay clean 

you had some good questions but I feel like answering them can be machshil others so I wont
feel free to contact me with chizzuk or to stam shmuz @ joestyh@gmail.com 

Re: This time will be better 14 Apr 2022 17:52 #379983

Do you have anyone in your life that you trust and feel comfortable talking about what the nature of your relationship with this person who sent you videos is? We of course are missing a lot of context here, but from what you shared it seems this is something important to address. You're clearly someone who cares deeply about growth and avodas Hashem, and the person who sent those images is not looking out for your best interest! Please forgive me for overstepping

Re: This time will be better 15 Apr 2022 00:39 #379994

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It’s not someone who I have a relationship with it’s a random person who I found their number… but that person grossed me out and I have set very strict gedarim for WhatsApp for myself 
feel free to contact me with chizzuk or to stam shmuz @ joestyh@gmail.com 

Re: This time will be better 15 Apr 2022 01:14 #379996

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Definitely delete and block. Keep in mind when you do that that you are proactively doing something to prevent future nisyonos. That is a high level mitzva and something you should be proud of.
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The Battle of the Generation by Hillel S. has been a huge help for me.  Message me to find out how you can receive a free copy.



some of the experiences I write about may make it easier to identify me.  This is ok.  I trust that if anyone discovers my identity they will keep it to themselves.  If you do realize that you  know me, I am completely comfortable and welcome you acknowledging me and my struggle in person.

Re: This time will be better 15 Apr 2022 03:43 #379998

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joetyh wrote on 15 Apr 2022 00:39:
It’s not someone who I have a relationship with it’s a random person who I found their number… but that person grossed me out and I have set very strict gedarim for WhatsApp for myself 

You’re invited to join my club and there are a lot of people in itWe don’t have such strict gedarim for WhatsApp, we have a simple geder which is not to install it. 

Cheap and easy :-)

Tonight is the time to get rid of chametz. Think about it. 
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Re: This time will be better 15 Apr 2022 22:55 #380016

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Markz wrote on 15 Apr 2022 03:43:

joetyh wrote on 15 Apr 2022 00:39:
It’s not someone who I have a relationship with it’s a random person who I found their number… but that person grossed me out and I have set very strict gedarim for WhatsApp for myself 

You’re invited to join my club and there are a lot of people in itWe don’t have such strict gedarim for WhatsApp, we have a simple geder which is not to install it. 

Cheap and easy :-)

Tonight is the time to get rid of chametz. Think about it. 
Chag sameach

I can’t make that move….
feel free to contact me with chizzuk or to stam shmuz @ joestyh@gmail.com 

Re: This time will be better 18 Apr 2022 01:04 #380018

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5 days clean behind me B”H 
gutt moed 
feel free to contact me with chizzuk or to stam shmuz @ joestyh@gmail.com 

Re: This time will be better 19 Apr 2022 16:57 #380039

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1 day clean behind me…..
feel free to contact me with chizzuk or to stam shmuz @ joestyh@gmail.com 

Re: This time will be better 20 Apr 2022 06:22 #380053

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Ok so here’s the story. I sort of fell out a little had a bunch of falls in the past week and change.
I regret all the decisions I have made and I am done with this porn stuff.
I am in a lot of pain because i was in such a good place when I got back from yeshiva and this no structure bein hazmanim plus a lot of stress really pushed me down
I am learning from this mess up that I’m not safe ever!!!! 
I am going to move on and continue being clean!!!!
Hashem I love you!!!!
please help me be closer to you!!!!!
feel free to contact me with chizzuk or to stam shmuz @ joestyh@gmail.com 

Re: This time will be better 20 Apr 2022 19:15 #380056

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joetyh wrote on 20 Apr 2022 06:22:
Ok so here’s the story. I sort of fell out a little had a bunch of falls in the past week and change.
I regret all the decisions I have made and I am done with this porn stuff.
I am in a lot of pain because i was in such a good place when I got back from yeshiva and this no structure bein hazmanim plus a lot of stress really pushed me down
I am learning from this mess up that I’m not safe ever!!!! 
I am going to move on and continue being clean!!!!
Hashem I love you!!!!
please help me be closer to you!!!!!

Hey.  Don’t get down on yourself. We try to do everything right but you have to accept that we sometimes fall.  

best advice I can give you is to count the wins don’t count the falls.  Now go grab yourself some wins and you will come in to next zman reenergized and focused to have the best zman of your life. 
vehkam7@gmail.com

guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/375452-Work-in-progress

The Battle of the Generation by Hillel S. has been a huge help for me.  Message me to find out how you can receive a free copy.



some of the experiences I write about may make it easier to identify me.  This is ok.  I trust that if anyone discovers my identity they will keep it to themselves.  If you do realize that you  know me, I am completely comfortable and welcome you acknowledging me and my struggle in person.

Re: This time will be better 28 Oct 2022 06:01 #386907

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JOE WHERE YOU AT!!!!!!!?????? we love you were you disappear to?
I'm sick of the Un-scientific approach of today's medical and social environment. 
we will never heal and become a better society unless we realize that all people are addicts. Any thing we do that we aren't interested in is "addiction" and medicine doesn't fix addictions. 

Pain causes addiction and medicine cant fix pain. 

Unless we heal our pain, and become truama conscious so as not to cause others pain, we will never be living in a functioning human society.
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