Shlomo24 wrote on 04 Aug 2017 18:53:
lomed wrote on 04 Aug 2017 18:38:
I dont have any experience with the Tafsic method, as when i came here i was past many promises and self punishments, and i felt that this wont take me anywhere. However. I do see that it has helped you make a big decrease in your acting out. So this for sure demonstrates that you really dont want to act out anymore. So congrats on your progress. I want to congrat you for coming here to discuss this matter, which proves again that you are not satisfied with this and want more freedom from your acting out. I would reach out to other members that use or used the tafsic method and see perhaps you can make it more Fool proof. other than that you may want to look in to other tools to help you gain more freedom. I wish you hatzlacha on your journey.
Have a wonderful shabbos.
You said exactly what I wanted to say and in a much nicer way.
I agree
When Lomed wrote its Foolproof
I would have written that it's like alcohol
100% proof of foolishness
I don't care if I lose points for this, but I'm just stating a fact
According to the forum, Taphsic is a bandaid that has no glue to it.
It may have its place, but why feature it on the top categories?
Can we not relegate it to the reality check level that it belongs?
If off the forum there's someone that knows of a high success stat, please prove it
Until then I'll continue to write as I did although apparently Harav Hagaon HHM didn't approve
my post, which is totally fine