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Any tips? 29 May 2017 21:39 #314437

Rick OFFLINE Junior Boarder Help Posts: 23 Karma: 1	Hi, I'm working on getting clean (again) in a new yeshiva, I feel like it will be a lot easier if I knew someone in my yeshiva who also has a problem with masturbation but I feel weird asking around if anyone has this problem. any tips?
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Re: Any tips? 29 May 2017 21:49 #314438

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Try hangin' an anonymous sign on the bulletin board.

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Re: Any tips? 29 May 2017 22:04 #314439

Rick OFFLINE Junior Boarder Help Posts: 23 Karma: 1	How do I write it? And how can I keep it hanging on the board, my yeshiva is small, and everyone knows each other, so none is ganna wanna try to get ahould of me out of shame, and people will be asking around, triyng to figure out who wrote the note, I dont think thats ganna work
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Re: Any tips? 29 May 2017 22:20 #314441

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Rick wrote on 29 May 2017 22:04:

How do I write it? And how can I keep it hanging on the board, my yeshiva is small, and everyone knows each other, so none is ganna wanna try to get ahould of me out of shame, and people will be asking around, triyng to figure out who wrote the note, I dont think thats ganna work

Perhaps leave a magazine in the dinin' room and see who tucks it into their pants. If that doesn't work.... II give up.

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Re: Any tips? 29 May 2017 22:26 #314444

Rick OFFLINE Junior Boarder Help Posts: 23 Karma: 1	Whats the best way to ask someone if they are having problems as well, and how do I identify who to ask?
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Re: Any tips? 29 May 2017 22:46 #314446

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Rick wrote on 29 May 2017 22:26:

Whats the best way to ask someone if they are having problems as well, and how do I identify who to ask?

Let's forget this idea and move on.

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Re: Any tips? 29 May 2017 22:57 #314448

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cordnoy wrote on 29 May 2017 22:46:

Rick wrote on 29 May 2017 22:26:

Whats the best way to ask someone if they are having problems as well, and how do I identify who to ask?

Let's forget this idea and move on.

Rick would you put up a sign?

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Whoever wants to join will have to first have a chat with our dear admin Yaakov

Serious idea. What's your thoughts?

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Re: Any tips? 29 May 2017 23:03 #314449

Rick OFFLINE Junior Boarder Help Posts: 23 Karma: 1	Thanx I'll try that
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Re: Any tips? 29 May 2017 23:10 #314451

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Rick wrote on 29 May 2017 23:03:

Thanx I'll try that

Ok.

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Re: Any tips? 30 May 2017 09:35 #314480

Rick OFFLINE Junior Boarder Help Posts: 23 Karma: 1	As of now, I'm just trying to push through day by day
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Re: Any tips? 30 May 2017 09:37 #314483

GrowStrong Current streak: 2153 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder OMAAT Posts: 888 Karma: 89	Rick wrote on 30 May 2017 09:35: As of now, I'm just trying to push through day by day Also known as holding your breath. How long do you think you can hold your breath for until you will need an oxygen tank to breath.

Re: Any tips? 30 May 2017 10:28 #314489

getthere Current streak: 978 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 102 Karma: 6	Don't push too hard, you get out of breath quicker. But seriously have a look on the forum and see what works for you.

Re: Any tips? 30 May 2017 10:57 #314494

Markz NOW ONLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8259 Karma: 428	GrowStrong wrote on 30 May 2017 09:37: Rick wrote on 30 May 2017 09:35: As of now, I'm just trying to push through day by day Also known as holding your breath. How long do you think you can hold your breath for until you will need an oxygen tank to breath. Holding his breath waiting to hear which of his friends are joining his group - עיין לעיל
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Re: Any tips? 02 Jun 2017 15:51 #314565

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Markz wrote on 29 May 2017 22:57:

cordnoy wrote on 29 May 2017 22:46:

Rick wrote on 29 May 2017 22:26:

Whats the best way to ask someone if they are having problems as well, and how do I identify who to ask?

Let's forget this idea and move on.

Hey Rick I didn't see the sign up yet ;-(
Did you chat with Yaacov to let him know what it's about, so he'll know where to direct any friends?

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Re: Any tips? 04 Jun 2017 01:44 #314588

Rick OFFLINE Junior Boarder Help Posts: 23 Karma: 1	The yeshiva I'm in doesn't allow smart phones (like most yeshivas) I got a heter from the rosh yeshiva after I explained that I need gye, I have an idea of how I can ask everyone I'm my yeshiva who are hiding their phones so that it only reaches those who need it but I can only do it on Monday, but thank you so much for the idea again
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