Hey guys! What do you recommend for me when i am around and have access to other peoples unfiltered devices...?

OivedElokim wrote on 22 Feb 2017 04:03:

Install the free gye app for them I'm sure they'll appreciate it

Or better yet, i recommend you do the following things to see what reaction you get - maybe they'll love you more

1. Change the device login password
2. Change the home screen to cordnoys out at sea avatar
3. Delete all the games then install the Monstah Truck Drag Race game
4. Change the device voice to male

Why do I say all this baloney?
Because I want to see if you can guess the answer and it's not to fix any device you're discussing

For the record: I have a hearty healthy sex drive. I'm the admin for the devices my kids play on, and for me they are not filtered. I could take them to tag for a price which I did for 1 device.

But let me let you in on a secret. Those guys at TAG are all working with unfiltered devices. I think some lustaholics wouldnt mind to work there part time

I edited my post if that helps you :-)

Cryptic. But maybe not everyone's as smart as a pickup truck.

Truthfully, I would be afraid of the other people being able to see what I was looking at when they log on and start typing letters, and an shmutz site comes up as a suggestion.  

Have you tried the TaPhiSiC method?  You would always be able to make a condition regarding using other people's computers. You can include that as part of your oath.  

Hey, I have the same issue!
I got rid of my internet capable device a while ago , the problem is the rest of my familys iphones.
i asked them to filter or lock their phones but for various reasons they refuse to do so.
i"m open to suggestions. 

GuardMyEyes26 wrote on 26 Feb 2017 05:32:

You're open to suggestions what to tell them? Or what to do about the situation

And hey, by the way welcome to gye and don't forget to check the vid in the spoiler below ;-)

Im not in a position to tell them.
I need to fix this on my own.

i need to learn to control myself. i tried several times to hint to them but theres nothing doing. i would have to tell them straight out that i have this problem and i cant do that.

Welcome. You're in the right place.

The problem isn't in the devices. The problem is in us.

Please take time to read through the GYE handbook.  No two people are the same, everyone has a slightly different set of circumstances, but we all share this problem and since we share the problem we can share the solution too. The book is written in a general way so it can apply to everyone. I found it helpful to really think about what the book was saying and how it applied to me and my own life.

This is a very common problem nowadays, you're far from the only one to deal with it. The word addict gets thrown around quite a lot, but most people who struggle with this issue are not addicts, just normal people with a normal yetzer hora. Which is good. Some people have come to realise that they really are addicts because their situation got gradually worse and worse despite working on it. When I say worse I mean, in frequency, severity or just feeling worse after every slip. If that is the case we may need more than GYE, which most people find to be therapy or SA or both. But I wouldn't jump to that conclusion about you. Many people have overcome this challenge right here on GYE using the tools in the handbook.

So stick around. Keep posting, keep reading and keep on trucking.