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Re: I was already so good and now...bang! 08 Dec 2016 17:42 #299466

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Aliyahman3 wrote:
No - I was just giving an example. I don't mean a random one I just mean one that we're scared of. Like we don't pick the Rebbi that one of us is super close to and knows everything about us- because there's no shame in telling him for the most part. We want it to be a Rebbi that will make us think twice or three times before we would act out. 

Brother - are you looking to resolve excessive lusting, or prefer a scary white knuckling rebbi? 
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Re: I was already so good and now...bang! 08 Dec 2016 18:08 #299468

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? What's unclear? I'm not understanding your question

Re: I was already so good and now...bang! 08 Dec 2016 18:20 #299471

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Please click on the spoiler button below and read the nice Trucking Story, and tell me what type of Rebbi you think is better to shamefully go to - yeah I know that's not necessarily the typical Rebbi story, but the point is going to someone that knows you can get you to good places in life I think 
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Re: I was already so good and now...bang! 08 Dec 2016 18:56 #299472

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I was going to comment that the plan seems to be really using Rebbeim. Some Rebbeim can provide a lot of help in this inyan and some can't. But to deliberately go over to a Rebbi when there is no intention of conversing or when you aren't trying to actually get help seems wrong. What happens if the Rebbi gets into a conversion with one of the chevra? Now what? "Oh, I'm sorry Rebbi, I was just using you as a shame motivation, can't talk, bye!" It just seems terribly disrespectful. As always, we are the ones who got ourselves into this issue, why is the gut reaction to rely upon ourselves to come up with a solution? My journey to recovery really started when I reached out to a professional. It took very long, but it was in God's time. I'm not implying that you need professional help, you aren't exactly the first Yeshiva guy to watch porn, but maybe actually utilize your Rebbeim for their purpose. (Although with caution, as a beard and Torah knowledge doesn't mean they are versed in this subject).
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Re: I was already so good and now...bang! 08 Dec 2016 19:35 #299475

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Shlomo24 wrote on 08 Dec 2016 16:10:

cordnoy wrote on 08 Dec 2016 13:58:

Yada, Yada, Yada.

Work it!

As RiRi says: "There's something 'bout that work, work, work, work, work, work."
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Re: I was already so good and now...bang! 08 Dec 2016 19:45 #299478

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Shlomo24 wrote on 08 Dec 2016 16:10:

cordnoy wrote on 08 Dec 2016 13:58:

Yada, Yada, Yada.

Work it!

As RiRi says: "There's something 'bout that work, work, work, work, work, work."

Can you work from home?
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Re: I was already so good and now...bang! 08 Dec 2016 19:53 #299482

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Shlomo24 wrote on 08 Dec 2016 16:10:

cordnoy wrote on 08 Dec 2016 13:58:

Yada, Yada, Yada.

Work it!

As RiRi says: "There's something 'bout that work, work, work, work, work, work."

Can you work from home?
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
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Re: I was already so good and now...bang! 08 Dec 2016 20:09 #299484

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cordnoy wrote on 08 Dec 2016 19:53:

Shlomo24 wrote on 08 Dec 2016 16:10:

cordnoy wrote on 08 Dec 2016 13:58:

Yada, Yada, Yada.

Work it!

As RiRi says: "There's something 'bout that work, work, work, work, work, work."

Can you work from home?

I plead the 5th.
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Re: I was already so good and now...bang! 08 Dec 2016 20:32 #299487

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I hear I guess I'm not being clear. Never mind. 

Re: I was already so good and now...bang! 08 Dec 2016 20:43 #299488

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Shlomo24 wrote on 08 Dec 2016 20:09:

cordnoy wrote on 08 Dec 2016 19:53:

Shlomo24 wrote on 08 Dec 2016 16:10:

cordnoy wrote on 08 Dec 2016 13:58:

Yada, Yada, Yada.

Work it!

As RiRi says: "There's something 'bout that work, work, work, work, work, work."

Can you work from home?

I plead the 5th.

Seems like we're in harmony.
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Re: I was already so good and now...bang! 09 Dec 2016 01:42 #299508

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cordnoy wrote on 08 Dec 2016 20:43:

Shlomo24 wrote on 08 Dec 2016 20:09:

cordnoy wrote on 08 Dec 2016 19:53:

Shlomo24 wrote on 08 Dec 2016 16:10:

cordnoy wrote on 08 Dec 2016 13:58:

Yada, Yada, Yada.

Work it!

As RiRi says: "There's something 'bout that work, work, work, work, work, work."

Can you work from home?

I plead the 5th.

Seems like we're in harmony.

HA! Excellent.
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Re: I was already so good and now...bang! 09 Dec 2016 02:12 #299510

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I think I hear a Bas Kol
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וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל


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Re: I was already so good and now...bang! 09 Dec 2016 04:56 #299519

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Time to switch.

Bang, bang....
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Re: I was already so good and now...bang! 09 Dec 2016 08:39 #299526

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cordnoy wrote on 08 Dec 2016 13:58:

Shlomo24 wrote on 08 Dec 2016 13:21:
Inspiration without action is like French Fries  without ketchup. It just don't work for me.

Fish without chrein,
herring without crackers,
Baseball game without peanuts,
 learning without a rebbe,
 exercise without a headband,
 football without cheerleaders,
 Chinese auction with no prizes,
 band with no bass (no treble),
 sex with no partner,
 coffee without milk,

Do you get shlomo's drift?

Work it!

Herring with crackers?

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Re: I was already so good and now...bang! 09 Dec 2016 18:27 #299560

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The best thing from SA is biltong. Everyone knows that.
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