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I keep relapsing... 15 Mar 2016 19:02 #281388

Philwantstoquit Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 4 Karma: 0	I went 90-120 days clean, then I fell once - then I went for a few weeks and fell again, then twice in couple weeks. I tried the Taphsic method and now I'm out money. I tried 90 day chart - internet filters are jokes. I don't know what to do. Any advice? I feel bad...I know how terrible of an averah it is and I keep doing it.

Re: I keep relapsing... 15 Mar 2016 19:23 #281391

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8259 Karma: 428	I'm with you brother - and I made a laughing stock of filters, and didn't even wanna try taphsics, so how about you try the real thing like I did
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Re: I keep relapsing... 15 Mar 2016 19:55 #281397

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Re: I keep relapsing... 15 Mar 2016 20:24 #281401

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markz wrote on 15 Mar 2016 19:23:

I'm with you brother - and I made a laughing stock of filters, and didn't even wanna try taphsics, so how about you try the real thing like I did

But in your four points as to how you recovered, two of them at least are just that, although with a slightly different name?

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Re: I keep relapsing... 15 Mar 2016 20:39 #281403

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cordnoy wrote:

markz wrote:

I'm with you brother - and I made a laughing stock of filters, and didn't even wanna try taphsics, so how about you try the real thing like I did

But in your four points as to how you recovered, two of them at least are just that, although with a slightly different name?

Gabai? Please explain the words of the heilige leader, cos I have a waft of alcohol coming my way and I don't chap

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Re: I keep relapsing... 15 Mar 2016 20:45 #281404

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markz wrote on 15 Mar 2016 20:39:

cordnoy wrote:

markz wrote:

I'm with you brother - and I made a laughing stock of filters, and didn't even wanna try taphsics, so how about you try the real thing like I did

But in your four points as to how you recovered, two of them at least are just that, although with a slightly different name?

Gabai? Please explain the words of the heilige leader, cos I have a waft of alcohol coming my way and I don't chap

Forum, restrictions, get a life, therapy.

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Re: I keep relapsing... 15 Mar 2016 20:55 #281405

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8259 Karma: 428	Thanks where's the gabai? He's not allowed to drink!!! And that's what I meant. Restrictions alone won't help everyone - and someone like Phil would do well, if he's interested, to try any of the other 3 things (combination is what works for me), and some other tools are avail too, and of course join the great daily call!!!
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Re: I keep relapsing... 15 Mar 2016 21:00 #281406

shlomo24 Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 2213 Karma: 135	markz wrote on 15 Mar 2016 19:23: I'm with you brother - and I made a laughing stock of filters, and didn't even wanna try taphsics, so how about you try the real thing like I did Filters can be "the real thing" for many
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Re: I keep relapsing... 15 Mar 2016 21:04 #281407

shlomo24 Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 2213 Karma: 135	Welcome phil. There are many tools on this site. Hopefully you can find ones that work for you. Hatzlacha.
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Re: I keep relapsing... 15 Mar 2016 21:20 #281410

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8259 Karma: 428	Yeah Shlomo Filters ARE a real thing Warning: Spoiler! a great game for me, cos I always win fyi I usually take into account the original poster when writing a comment, and I was only sharing my experience wanna play a game? tag - you're it
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Re: I keep relapsing... 15 Mar 2016 21:33 #281412

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I will take my issue elsewhere.

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Re: I keep relapsing... 15 Mar 2016 21:36 #281413

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8259 Karma: 428	Please could you explain what's goin on - I'm missing something
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Re: I keep relapsing... 15 Mar 2016 21:49 #281414

Watson OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1280 Karma: 85	Welcome Phil, I can very much relate to the frustration of not being able to get and stay sober. I tried hundreds of methods to stop but none of them worked. What have you tried already?
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Re: I keep relapsing... 16 Mar 2016 19:18 #281517

david26fr OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 191 Karma: 8	Did you analyze what was the triggers of your recent falls ? There is always a trigger behind a fall : a picture, nervosity, deception... for examples