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Re: G's 24 Aug 2018 03:47 #334955

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Victories
1) #Day11 - enough said
2) came on time for night seder
3) stayed positive 
4)got up for 7:30 Shachris

Gratitudes
1)I got to be involved in building of a future shul today
2) Hashem helped me through day 11
3)I had a great supper tonight
4) I dont have to go into the office tommorow

Glitch
-I am still on the computer at 11:47pm...

Re: G's 29 Aug 2018 02:34 #335108

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Victories:
-#Day16
-Caught up with alot of friends
-did alot of work
-got up by 830
-spoke to YBS

Gratitudes:
-BH Im healthy
-Ive grown tremendously over the past five years
-I have all my neccessities and more

Glitch:
I could have been more productive with some work

Goals:
to not to take pleasure from looking at ppl in the streets tommorow
to be mesameach the chassan at tommorow nights wedding
to be work diligently at work tommorow

Re: G's 29 Aug 2018 06:59 #335113

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Goals.....to post here tomorrow.

Ggggggreat job sir!
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Re: G's 29 Aug 2018 08:01 #335117

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Gratitude:
  1. For a great boss.
  2. For mine and my family's health.
  3. For some great people here.

Good stuff (victories) (this should be overcomin' specific challenges):
  1. Reliving stress in a healthy manner.
  2. Surrendering a specific intrusive thought.
  3. Being productive at work.

Glitch
  1. Being in isolation.
  2. Watching too much videos.

Goals (usually specific tasks; items that we can look back on and see that we've actually made progress; something actionable):
  1. Get up by 6:30am.
  2. Daven Shachris properly.
  3. Keep connected on at least a weekly basis.
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Re: G's 31 Aug 2018 13:51 #335198

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cordnoy wrote on 29 Aug 2018 06:59:
Goals.....to post here tomorrow.

Ggggggreat job sir!

Tomorrow, tomorrow......it's only a day away....

Gratitude:
1. for daughter goin' to school
2. for daughter goin' to school
3. for bonus
4. for stayin' above the fray
5. for 11,000 posts and remainin' sane (although that's debatable)

Good stuff (victories) (this should be overcomin' specific challenges):
1. Actually bein' there for 80% of shacharis, and stayin' till the very end
2. Deletin' pic that showed up from 2015 (although I looked if there were any more hidin')

Glitch
Lookin' twice at pic (my goodness, the memories, and even now, it stays with you)
Raisin' my voice

Goals (usually specific tasks; items that we can look back on and see that we've actually made progress; something actionable):
1. On time to Mincha today
2. Use a bentcher
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Re: G's 31 Aug 2018 17:18 #335199

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lionking wrote on 29 Aug 2018 08:01:
Gratitude:
  1. For a great boss.
  2. For mine and my family's health.
  3. For some great people here.

Good stuff (victories) (this should be overcomin' specific challenges):
  1. Reliving stress in a healthy manner.
  2. Surrendering a specific intrusive thought.
  3. Being productive at work.

Glitch
  1. Being in isolation.
  2. Watching too much videos. B"H haven't watched the last few days.

Goals (usually specific tasks; items that we can look back on and see that we've actually made progress; something actionable):
  1. Get up by 6:30am. B"H starting to get there. Between 6:30 - 6:45.
  2. Daven Shachris properly. Still trying
  3. Keep connected on at least a weekly basis. Need to keep this ongoing.


Git Shabbos!
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Re: G's 05 Sep 2018 03:29 #335292

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cordnoy wrote on 31 Aug 2018 13:51:

cordnoy wrote on 29 Aug 2018 06:59:
Goals.....to post here tomorrow.

Ggggggreat job sir!

Tomorrow, tomorrow......it's only a day away....

Gratitude:
1. for daughter goin' to school
2. for daughter goin' to school
3. for bonus
4. for stayin' above the fray
5. for 11,000 posts and remainin' sane (although that's debatable)


How many went to school?
i'm all about that (substantial) bass, no trouble ....

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Re: G's 05 Sep 2018 04:15 #335294

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Gratitude:
1. Im healthy and my family too.
2. I have a great job.
3. Im part of GYE. And im clean

Good stuff (victories) (this should be overcomin' specific challenges):
1. Someone spilled a cup of water on my hat, and i told him, that nothing happaned, its only water, even i wasent happy, but i wanted to make that person happy too.
2. Build my entire Sukkah, even i was soakingwet from sweat, i kept on saying, Lshem Mitzvas Sika, and it should be Kapuras Avoinas..
3. I listened very patiently to my kids after a tough day at job...

Glitch
Its still bothering me when i see something on the street which i shouldnt, i try to be Me. Perfect....

Goals (usually specific tasks; items that we can look back on and see that we've actually made progress; something actionable):
1. Focus on my words the ENTIRE  Shmoina esra.
2. Give daily tsadakah
3. Do a Chesed every day
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כי עיקר מציאות האדם בעה"ז הוא רק לקיים מצות ולעמד בניסיון,  והנאות העולם אין ראוי שיהו לו אלא לעזר ולסיוע בלבד לשיהיה לו נחת רוח ויישוב הדעת למען יוכל לפנות לבו אל העבודה הזאת מסילת ישרים

Re: G's 05 Sep 2018 09:58 #335302

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Trouble wrote on 05 Sep 2018 03:29:

cordnoy wrote on 31 Aug 2018 13:51:

cordnoy wrote on 29 Aug 2018 06:59:
Goals.....to post here tomorrow.

Ggggggreat job sir!

Tomorrow, tomorrow......it's only a day away....

Gratitude:
1. for daughter goin' to school
2. for daughter goin' to school
3. for bonus
4. for stayin' above the fray
5. for 11,000 posts and remainin' sane (although that's debatable)



How many went to school?

Actually several, but I was referrin' to one in particular, and I was doubly thankful.
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Re: G's 16 May 2019 04:03 #341203

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Gratitude:
1. for daughter smilin'
2. for son pushin' himself
3. for bank account
4. for meds
5. for not gettin' caught

Good stuff (victories) (this should be overcomin' specific challenges):
Was mevater and pretended that all is well between me and that guy; he felt real swell

Glitch
The entire day

Goals (usually specific tasks; items that we can look back on and see that we've actually made progress; something actionable):
1. 3 minyanim tomorrow
2. Stayin' away from that other account and searches
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
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Re: G's 16 May 2019 04:12 #341205

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cordnoy wrote on 16 May 2019 04:03:
2. Stayin' away from that other account and searches

Hey, didn't know you had another account on gye. Do you ever moderate your own other account messages?!
My email address is: growinghigher613@gmail.com

Re: G's 17 May 2019 01:11 #341241

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cordnoy wrote on 16 May 2019 04:03:
Gratitude:
1. for daughter smilin'
2. for son pushin' himself
3. for bank account
4. for meds
5. for not gettin' caught

Good stuff (victories) (this should be overcomin' specific challenges):
Was mevater and pretended that all is well between me and that guy; he felt real swell

Glitch
The entire day

Goals (usually specific tasks; items that we can look back on and see that we've actually made progress; something actionable):
1. 3 minyanim tomorrow
2. Stayin' away from that other account and searches

Gratitude:
1. for daughters' attitude
2. for older sons' situation 
3. for unexpected envelope
4. for the unstressor
5. for job

Good stuff (victories) (this should be overcomin' specific challenges):
For remainin' calm, upbeat and future-focused when dealin' with some moderatin' yuchy sruff

Glitch
The entire day - x2

Goals (usually specific tasks; items that we can look back on and see that we've actually made progress; something actionable):
1. 3 minyanim tomorrow - thank God this was completed; felt good.
2. Stayin' away from that other account and searches - failed miserably, from the moment I awoke.

New goal: complete learnin' quotas over the weekend
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: Mikvah Night - Page 1, Page 2, Page 3, Last Page

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Re: G's 05 Jan 2021 17:42 #360626

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cordnoy wrote on 05 Sep 2018 09:58:

Trouble wrote on 05 Sep 2018 03:29:

cordnoy wrote on 31 Aug 2018 13:51:

cordnoy wrote on 29 Aug 2018 06:59:
Goals.....to post here tomorrow.

Ggggggreat job sir!

Tomorrow, tomorrow......it's only a day away....

Gratitude:
1. for daughter goin' to school
2. for daughter goin' to school
3. for bonus
4. for stayin' above the fray
5. for 11,000 posts and remainin' sane (although that's debatable)




How many went to school?

Actually several, but I was referrin' to one in particular, and I was doubly thankful.

Throwback to the days when it seemed like a reach to be thankful for kids going to school. As usual, cords was way ahead of his times...
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Re: G's 05 Jan 2021 18:06 #360629

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Gratitude:
1. for having work to do
2. for being well rested 
3. for son doing homework
4. for wife being pleasant
5. for having gotten up more or less on time

Good stuff (victories) (this should be overcomin' specific challenges):
1. Have not searched for porn in some time
2. Have behaved in the bedroom lately
3. Have let go of posts here that would usually bug me (maybe I'm maturing in my old age)

Glitch
1. Been antsy at nights; have masturbated several times recently

Goals (usually specific tasks; items that we can look back on and see that we've actually made progress; something actionable):
1. Davening at the early minyan tomorrow
2. Staying current with the daf
3. No masturbation tonight (seems obvious; no making fun!)
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www.guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/236329-Bigmoishs-path-to-tahara

"We have met the enemy and he is us" - Pogo
"Expectation is the mother of frustration" - gibbor120
"Today, damn it! Today!" - cordnoy
"Desiring is not a sin at all, but just a sign that you are not dead yet" - Dov
"We are our own worst observer" - eslaasos's therapist
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Re: G's 05 Jan 2021 20:58 #360638

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Bigmoish wrote on 05 Jan 2021 18:06:

3. Have let go of posts here that would usually bug me (maybe I'm maturing in my old age)



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