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New Resolve to Break-Free, help a Yid out :) 06 Dec 2015 16:13 #270556

Hanuka sameach holy yidden.

So this is my cycle.
For the first 4/5 days a week I am fine. I try my best at Shmirat Einyaim, daven to H for help etc. On day 6 I start to lose my grip a little. It is usually around day 7 each week that I fall. And the cycle starts again.

I have tried internet filter (VCF) but it couldn't install (they said its a common problem in Israel.)
What should I do when the urge hits on day 7?
Anyone have anything particularly powerful that they use to defeat the Yetzer?
I feel like if I overcome it for 10/15 minutes when it is strongest I will win.

Re: New Resolve to Break-Free, help a Yid out :) 06 Dec 2015 16:23 #270557

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mitzvot1992 wrote:
Hanuka sameach holy yidden.

So this is my cycle.
For the first 4/5 days a week I am fine. I try my best at Shmirat Einyaim, daven to H for help etc. On day 6 I start to lose my grip a little. It is usually around day 7 each week that I fall. And the cycle starts again.

I have tried internet filter (VCF) but it couldn't install (they said its a common problem in Israel.)
What should I do when the urge hits on day 7?
Anyone have anything particularly powerful that they use to defeat the Yetzer?
I feel like if I overcome it for 10/15 minutes when it is strongest I will win.
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Re: New Resolve to Break-Free, help a Yid out :) 06 Dec 2015 16:23 #270558

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Re: New Resolve to Break-Free, help a Yid out :) 06 Dec 2015 17:09 #270562

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Re: New Resolve to Break-Free, help a Yid out :) 06 Dec 2015 17:33 #270564

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Re: New Resolve to Break-Free, help a Yid out :) 07 Dec 2015 04:47 #270628

mitzvot1992 wrote:
Hanuka sameach holy yidden.

So this is my cycle.
For the first 4/5 days a week I am fine. I try my best at Shmirat Einyaim, daven to H for help etc. On day 6 I start to lose my grip a little. It is usually around day 7 each week that I fall. And the cycle starts again.

I have tried internet filter (VCF) but it couldn't install (they said its a common problem in Israel.)
What should I do when the urge hits on day 7?
Anyone have anything particularly powerful that they use to defeat the Yetzer?
I feel like if I overcome it for 10/15 minutes when it is strongest I will win.


I don't know that I can offer you any tools to defeat the Yetzer, as I'm in the same boat and just starting my journey here. But it may be worth knowing you are not alone with this struggle. I can actually relate to this very much as I can usually go at least a week without acting out, but as the days go by it becomes harder and I don't know how to deal with it. But I will say that just discovering this forum and seeing many others who can relate to my personal struggles has been very validating and makes me feel like there's hope!
Hatzlachah!
Feel free to email me at BenTorah.BaalHabayis@gmail.com

1 day may be too long for me, but I take it OWAAT = One wave at a time, cause the lust comes and goes like a wave which rises and crashes.
Last Edit: 07 Dec 2015 04:47 by BenTorah.BaalHabayis.
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