Caim wrote:
Today B"H was very good I was able to push away a temptation with the thought that I was okay before I had the temptation and would be okay without feeding in to the temptation, and I said a little prayer for Hashem to help me pass this urge the best way.
I also work in a place where there are other female workers. I always feel uncomfortable next to them, since whenever I talk to them impure thoughts about them pop in to my head. It bothers me why whenever I talk to women do I need to think about these thoughts. It is as if my brain is wired to think this way. If anyone has any idea for me please post them.
I think you answered your question
It is as if my brain is wired to think this way
Mine was too, and as mentioned in my story, the 90 day chart rewired my brain, so focus on your other aspects of recovery for today, keep at it, and you will be pleasanty surprised, like I was
I had the same problems at my work. But recently it came to a point where when meeting a woman at work, and yes she's good looking, my brain isn't pounding me with lustful thoughts
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She's a human being, good looking, with talent, so what?
I'm not taking another wife
Warning: Spoiler!I have enough stress as it is with one
Thank you very much for your time clarify things for me. I hope things will clear up for me the longer I am on a clean streak. B"H I am now seven days clean and I am still praying to Hashem to help me out further to stay clean, and help take away my lust for me.