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Re: Solutions for Tonight 04 Feb 2016 19:31 #276654

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unanumun wrote:

"I thought your only problem was at nights and with masturbation? Is this a new thing you just fell into?If I understand correctly, your wife was assur the last few weeks and I suspect that somehow that is connected to the chatting. Perhaps it would be worthwhile to look for a plan that can hold up even when your wife is a nidda?just saying"

We was looking for a plan and we decided to go for a pilegesh, so life's cool. Problem is - the one we found was a therapist, and we need just a regular [dirty word removed]

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Last Edit: 04 Feb 2016 19:35 by Markz.

Re: Solutions for Tonight 04 Feb 2016 21:37 #276674

waydown OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 670 Karma: 7	Correct if I am on the ball and have the willpower my only problem is masterbation at nights. If I am not working on myself then I can resort back to my old ways prior to joining GYE. Basiclly being part of GYE (and simply looging in daily) remedies almost all my lust besides for masterbation. I resorted back because I wasn't on GYE.

Re: Solutions for Tonight 04 Feb 2016 22:35 #276680

eslaasos Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 954 Karma: 81	Welcome back, and hatzlacha. You were starting a chavrusa at some point that you were hpping would help. How did that go?
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Re: Solutions for Tonight 05 Feb 2016 13:32 #276788

waydown OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 670 Karma: 7	Last night I feel asleep without masterbating because I used the fact that IYH soon my wife will be muter so why not wait. I woke once or twice more and used the same tactic. Then after waking up a 3rd time and twisting and turning I did masterbate. So it defintley helps it just shouldn't be my only startegy.

Re: Solutions for Tonight 05 Feb 2016 13:35 #276789

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8228 Karma: 426	It does help that you didn't masturbate 3 times in the night
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Re: Solutions for Tonight 07 Feb 2016 19:07 #276965

waydown OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 670 Karma: 7	Still struggling with the nights especially in middle of the night when my mind is not there. Its funny how even if I fall asleep I wake up and desire it again. There is some kind of dibbuk in me that won't leave me alone.

Re: Solutions for Tonight 07 Feb 2016 19:32 #276972

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8228 Karma: 426	So why not go to a Kabbalist to extricate the poor languishing dibbuk - no wonder you can't sleep at night
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Re: Solutions for Tonight 07 Feb 2016 19:55 #276980

wantoimprove Current streak: 8 days OFFLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 61 Karma: 4	In all due respect I don't think it's a dibbuk. I think Hashem created you with very strong physical desires. That doesn't mean Hashem wants you to give in to those desires. Knowing that this is an inherent part of you might be a help to win this battle. If it's all "because of the dibbuk" it might be harder to conquer the beast. Get more stragedies and keep fighting!!!!!

Re: Solutions for Tonight 08 Feb 2016 21:29 #277100

waydown OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 670 Karma: 7	Still working on the nights. I will say that my Sundays at home are so much more peaceful when I am not busy e-mailing women. Instead I can actually soend undvidied time with my wife & children even with putting in a bit of work.

Re: Solutions for Tonight 09 Feb 2016 17:53 #277236

waydown OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 670 Karma: 7	Clean last nite thanks to just a lakc of tavia. I hope I can keep it going

Re: Solutions for Tonight 09 Feb 2016 23:51 #277281

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8228 Karma: 426	OMG waydown what happened to your tavia? are you ok? are you in ICU?
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Re: Solutions for Tonight 11 Feb 2016 16:03 #277509

waydown OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 670 Karma: 7	Markz, I had a cold and low fever so the tavia was not there. My problem is when the cold goes away like last night

Re: Solutions for Tonight 11 Feb 2016 16:11 #277512

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So, do you want to share what happened last night?

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Re: Solutions for Tonight 11 Feb 2016 21:29 #277543

waydown OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 670 Karma: 7	Moish , Basiclly the good old problem. Not being able to fall asleep, twisting and turning till i swallow my lust pill called masturbation.