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Re: Solutions for Tonight 02 Oct 2015 22:11 #265084

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I don't follow baseball אעפ״כ I knew this was coming.

Yeah mr waiter it's not such fun hulking up and down the aisles selling popcorn and ice T (/coffee) when you wanna watch the game, and you may also get hit by the ball - everyone is hurraying - you think it's cause they happy you got hit, no some poor bloke just scored a homerun by accident
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Re: Solutions for Tonight 04 Oct 2015 14:21 #265138

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Well whether you guys are yankee or redsocks fans, I'll need your hand today to. BH last nite was great no slips. But once again I gotto lock myslef in a room and pound away at work soon for 3 and half hours straight. Yes a tense kind of situation. And its erev yom tov & hushana raba. Of course my lust feels like it could seep in any second. So I am grabbing onto GYE again. Thank you all for your help friday.

And of course a gut kivital to you all!

Re: Solutions for Tonight 04 Oct 2015 14:29 #265140

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waydown wrote:
Well whether you guys are yankee or redsocks fans, I'll need your hand today to. BH last nite was great no slips. But once again I gotto lock myslef in a room and pound away at work soon for 3 and half hours straight. Yes a tense kind of situation. And its erev yom tov & hushana raba. Of course my lust feels like it could seep in any second. So I am grabbing onto GYE again. Thank you all for your help friday.

And of course a gut kivital to you all!


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Re: Solutions for Tonight 04 Oct 2015 14:30 #265141

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Today's solution?

Posssstttt !!!

All you need is approval from one of the guys.

You wanna take drugs?
Wanna clobber someone?
Want to injure yourself?
Want to go to some dirty website?

Just post it here first
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Re: Solutions for Tonight 04 Oct 2015 15:20 #265143

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Markz,

I wanna go to some dirty website. Do I have your approval?

Well now its time to pound away at work.

Re: Solutions for Tonight 04 Oct 2015 16:49 #265146

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waydown wrote:
Markz,

I wanna go to some dirty website. Do I have your approval?

Well now its time to pound away at work.


You have my approval....but only for your wants, as I would have them as well. Will I act upon it? Hell no!
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If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


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Re: Solutions for Tonight 04 Oct 2015 17:23 #265147

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cordnoy wrote:
waydown wrote:
Markz,

I wanna go to some dirty website. Do I have your approval?

Well now its time to pound away at work.


You have my approval....but only for your wants, as I would have them as well. Will I act upon it? Hell no!


Waydown it sounds to me like that was your intent. I want to but I won't
And this is the reason I asked you to post earlier. Cos the YH lives in a vacuum and when you posted how did that feel?
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Re: Solutions for Tonight 04 Oct 2015 18:58 #265149

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yes thanks guys for ur help

Re: Solutions for Tonight 04 Oct 2015 20:11 #265151

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two hours left a bit more of work. I am very stressed out and dying to go places I shouldn't. I will try to hold out simply because

1) I don't want to let my GYE chevra down
2) This should be #1. I don't want to let my wife & kids down even though I think they will never know.
3) Its hashana raba and I want good chasima. (sorry for throwing in judiasm)
4) Its only about another hour. If I made it till now is one hour so hard?

Re: Solutions for Tonight 04 Oct 2015 21:18 #265156

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Made throught the day. have frliech and holy yom tov to you all!

Re: Solutions for Tonight 04 Oct 2015 21:35 #265159

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If I'd be locked in a room myself, that would be a tough challenge!
חזק חזק ונתחזק!!
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I got an email one of the guys was makin a comment about humor. So I want to set it straight.

דברה תורה כנגד יצהר. How do we deal with the YH?
כי בשמחה תצאו!!!

How do we encourage our YH to stick to this great website? By makin it fun

Yeah, go be serious. Tell the YH "oy ye yoy ye yoy du sheigetz baal aveira, baal taiva..."
See where that gets you. Your 18 wheeler might leave fat skid marks somewhere... I don't wanna think what may happen with ye.

Ever since I accidentally joined this astounding website I have not had a depressin' moment - my addiction has been emptied from my tank and the YH hasn't had any opportunity to depress me thru sins, and one of the tools is a spoonful of .

There was never a moment where we joked about lustin. We were talking to our YH that wants to do those things mentioned above, and it was also meant in all seriousness
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!


It gets borin' sometimes truckin' for miles - and this is how we keep ourselves awake when we run out of tea an' cofee.
Any other ideas to stay awake? Keep postin'
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Last Edit: 04 Oct 2015 21:48 by Markz.

Re: Solutions for Tonight 04 Oct 2015 21:42 #265160

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markz wrote:
If I'd be locked in a room myself, that would be a tough challenge!
חזק חזק ונתחזק!!
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I got an email one of the guys was makin a comment about humor. So I want to set it straight.

דברה תורה כנגד יצהר. How do we deal with the YH?
כי בשמחה תצאו!!!

How do we encourage our YH to stick to this great website? By makin it fun

Yeah, go be serious. Tell the YH "oy ye yoy ye yoy du sheigetz baal aveira, baal taiva..."
See where that gets you. Your 18 wheeler might leave fat skid marks somewhere... I don't wanna think what may happen with ye.

Ever since I accidentally joined this astounding website I have not had a depressin' moment - my addiction has been emptied from my tank and the YH hasn't had any opportunity to depress me thru sins, and one of the tools is a spoonful of .

It gets borin' sometimes truckin' for miles - and this is how we keep ourselves awake when we run out of tea an' cofee.
Any other ideas to stay awake? Keep postin'


Looks like that post was deleted. I think he had a point but it's beyond me to know where to draw the line, and if we ever went over it. I'm curious if the poster deleted it or if a moderator did. But you know what they say about curiosity, so I don't want to be catty about it.
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Re: Solutions for Tonight 07 Oct 2015 02:00 #265183

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markz wrote:
If I'd be locked in a room myself, that would be a tough challenge!
חזק חזק ונתחזק!!
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I got an email one of the guys was makin a comment about humor. So I want to set it straight.

דברה תורה כנגד יצהר. How do we deal with the YH?
כי בשמחה תצאו!!!

How do we encourage our YH to stick to this great website? By makin it fun

Yeah, go be serious. Tell the YH "oy ye yoy ye yoy du sheigetz baal aveira, baal taiva..."
See where that gets you. Your 18 wheeler might leave fat skid marks somewhere... I don't wanna think what may happen with ye.

Ever since I accidentally joined this astounding website I have not had a depressin' moment - my addiction has been emptied from my tank and the YH hasn't had any opportunity to depress me thru sins, and one of the tools is a spoonful of .

There was never a moment where we joked about lustin. We were talking to our YH that wants to do those things mentioned above, and it was also meant in all seriousness
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!


It gets borin' sometimes truckin' for miles - and this is how we keep ourselves awake when we run out of tea an' cofee.
Any other ideas to stay awake? Keep postin'


Another southerner, or is he imitatin' or makin' fun of me?
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads:
GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous)

If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

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Re: Solutions for Tonight 07 Oct 2015 02:00 #265184

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eslaasos wrote:
markz wrote:
If I'd be locked in a room myself, that would be a tough challenge!
חזק חזק ונתחזק!!
--------------
I got an email one of the guys was makin a comment about humor. So I want to set it straight.

דברה תורה כנגד יצהר. How do we deal with the YH?
כי בשמחה תצאו!!!

How do we encourage our YH to stick to this great website? By makin it fun

Yeah, go be serious. Tell the YH "oy ye yoy ye yoy du sheigetz baal aveira, baal taiva..."
See where that gets you. Your 18 wheeler might leave fat skid marks somewhere... I don't wanna think what may happen with ye.

Ever since I accidentally joined this astounding website I have not had a depressin' moment - my addiction has been emptied from my tank and the YH hasn't had any opportunity to depress me thru sins, and one of the tools is a spoonful of .

It gets borin' sometimes truckin' for miles - and this is how we keep ourselves awake when we run out of tea an' cofee.
Any other ideas to stay awake? Keep postin'


Looks like that post was deleted. I think he had a point but it's beyond me to know where to draw the line, and if we ever went over it. I'm curious if the poster deleted it or if a moderator did. But you know what they say about curiosity, so I don't want to be catty about it.


I think he did.
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads:
GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous)

If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

MY POSTS ARE NOT WRITTEN AS A MODERATOR UNLESS EXPLICITLY STATED.

Re: Solutions for Tonight 07 Oct 2015 02:12 #265187

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eslaasos wrote:
markz wrote:
If I'd be locked in a room myself, that would be a tough challenge!
חזק חזק ונתחזק!!
--------------
I got an email one of the guys was makin a comment about humor. So I want to set it straight.

דברה תורה כנגד יצהר. How do we deal with the YH?
כי בשמחה תצאו!!!

How do we encourage our YH to stick to this great website? By makin it fun

Yeah, go be serious. Tell the YH "oy ye yoy ye yoy du sheigetz baal aveira, baal taiva..."
See where that gets you. Your 18 wheeler might leave fat skid marks somewhere... I don't wanna think what may happen with ye.

Ever since I accidentally joined this astounding website I have not had a depressin' moment - my addiction has been emptied from my tank and the YH hasn't had any opportunity to depress me thru sins, and one of the tools is a spoonful of .

It gets borin' sometimes truckin' for miles - and this is how we keep ourselves awake when we run out of tea an' cofee.
Any other ideas to stay awake? Keep postin'


Looks like that post was deleted. I think he had a point but it's beyond me to know where to draw the line, and if we ever went over it. I'm curious if the poster deleted it or if a moderator did. But you know what they say about curiosity, so I don't want to be catty about it.

I deleted my post,
Because I was unsure if I'm right, & also I don't want to criticize when I know that the kavuna at least was definitely good,
and when we are in a struggle it's hard to be so מדקדק on not crossing lines,
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