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Re: Tryin' 14 Mar 2016 17:07 #281273

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We are on for 1:15 today.
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Re: Tryin' 15 Mar 2016 00:08 #281308

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Thanks for the call today, 
Came on late,  a fellow gye'r called in a rough patch. 
I enjoy hearing the 4th step samplings. 

Re: Tryin' 15 Mar 2016 03:50 #281321

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Yesod wrote on 15 Mar 2016 00:08:
Thanks for the call today, 
Came on late,  a fellow gye'r called in a rough patch. 
I enjoy hearing the 4th step samplings. 

My pleasure.
We will be back to 1:20 tomorrow.
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Re: Tryin' 15 Mar 2016 05:55 #281332

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cordnoy, when i see you post here i get all excited that you have some nice long insightful post but then i come to find that your just confirming your call! oh well.....

Re: Tryin' 16 Mar 2016 17:05 #281502

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sorry; no time for a long post; I saved that for the email group.

there will be a call in 15 minutes.
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Re: Tryin' 17 Mar 2016 17:16 #281628

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the weekend is upon us.....how would you like to start it?
thinkin' ahead.....

by the way, i need to add 3 or 4 people to my resentment sheet - that stinks!
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Re: Tryin' 18 Mar 2016 00:22 #281667

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You need to?, sounds like you are saying you are required to. 


You can put me on 
 

Re: Tryin' 18 Mar 2016 01:53 #281673

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Yesod wrote on 18 Mar 2016 00:22:
You need to?, sounds like you are saying you are required to. 


You can put me on 

 

One of them that I put on....he came over to my chavrusah and I to say over a peshat....I just ignored him.
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Re: Tryin' 18 Mar 2016 03:30 #281682

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Those roving scholars get on my nerves. 

What goes through my head, 

Dude,  Just sit down and learn, and if it so exciting you wanna share it with the world, share it with you wife, your chiddushim will enamor her,  she'll fall in love with you all over again, her little rosh yeshiva.

Now id like to get back to what i was doing. .

So... chavrusa, what were you saying about Trump

Re: Tryin' 18 Mar 2016 12:51 #281706

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hear you.
my problem is that as we work the program, the list should shrink, not increase, and I'm afraid (add to fear list) that i will blow it with someone over shabbos.
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Re: Tryin' 18 Mar 2016 13:06 #281710

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cordnoy wrote on 12 Aug 2014 19:08:
There was a lot of positive feedback on the highway signs; the oilam wanted more.

Here is the initial post, and below are the additions.

I would like to encourage you to KOT (keep on truckin'); I'm just not sure which highway you're on.
There are many roads here; most of them lead to the same direction.


route1.jpg

is the Godly way. Hashem is here; Hashem is there; He will protect me from any second stare.


route12.jpg

Then there is the "12 - steppers" and those who like parables dealin' with steak and sushi. Are you an addict? This might be for you? But then again; do you like raw fish; well-done ribs? Perhaps not then.


90.jpg

There are those who say the JDI approach (Just Do It); Get to 90 days and you'll be ok.


lifeordeath.png

This is my personal favorite. Which direction you wanna go?

So bottom line; let us know more and each one of us will tell you what worked for us and what didn't.

First things first though....Get on da damn truck!

b'hatzlachah

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No 'falls,' 'slips,' or 'accidents' on da road!
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This one doesn't need a caption; we just need the rig up in front.
dms1234.jpg


Who relates to this?
godsway.jpg


ya' think anyone is so haughty about his opinions? not on this site!
myway.jpg


Scare tactic!
heavenhell.jpg


Bottom line; get on da freakin' road!
truckshighway.jpg

nice!
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Re: Tryin' 18 Mar 2016 15:24 #281733

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cordnoy wrote on 18 Mar 2016 12:51:
hear you.
my problem is that as we work the program, the list should shrink, not increase, and I'm afraid (add to fear list) that i will blow it with someone over shabbos.

If I may try to alleviate that fear, I would suggest that successfully working the program does not mean new situations won't arise or that when they do you are angelically able to not feel it, it means that when they do you are better equipped to handle it.
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Re: Tryin' 18 Mar 2016 16:18 #281736

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I agree to that, and that is exactly why it is botherin' me, for I am not dealin' with it correctly.
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Re: Tryin' 18 Mar 2016 19:52 #281755

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eslaasos wrote on 18 Mar 2016 15:24:

cordnoy wrote on 18 Mar 2016 12:51:
hear you.
my problem is that as we work the program, the list should shrink, not increase, and I'm afraid (add to fear list) that i will blow it with someone over shabbos.

If I may try to alleviate that fear, I would suggest that successfully working the program does not mean new situations won't arise or that when they do you are angelically able to not feel it, it means that when they do you are better equipped to handle it.

esslassos hits the nail on the head here. It's like a sports competition- when you finally get in the ring, on the court, in the pool... wherever your competing, that's when your training kicks in. It's not the time to start training. The time to prepare was many months in advance, and according to what one prepared is how they will have familiarity and ability to use the tools.

For me, I don't get stronger or less compelled to act out. I have the same lustful urges as I did before I started working on my sobriety this time around, but I DO have people stored in my cell phone that I can call in a rut, guys on the forum and a  few different phone conferences that I attend each week. I don't know if I will ever get to the point where I forever stop feeling the urge to act out, view porn, do something destructive to my wellbeing- But I do know that if I continue to talk to guys in the same predicament I invariably come to learn more tools and how to deal with it. 
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Re: Tryin' 20 Mar 2016 02:21 #281802

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cordnoy wrote:
the weekend is upon us.....how would you like to start it?
thinkin' ahead.....

by the way, i need to add 3 or 4 people to my resentment sheet - that stinks!

I'm a introverted guy outside of gye. Someone like you that's highly sociable is gonna have 20000 friends and 2 or sometimes 6 re-sentimental guys, so I don't know if it's such a stinking situation
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