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Re: Tryin' 10 Sep 2014 18:44 #239298

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allergic to romania?
cooked or raw?
when going forward gets tough, its merely a sign that you are going uphill, just give more gas
put your sobriety first; before your wife, before your kids, before your avodas HaTorah (except for the 3 that are יעבור ואל יהרג) Without sobriety you won't have any of those things!
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Re: Tryin' 10 Sep 2014 18:49 #239299

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Shmeichel wrote:
allergic to romania?
cooked or raw?


mmm....to answer that question, I'd have to give in to my lust behavior.

I will need to leave it hangin' in the meantime.

you can always read this thread or my others to catch up on what you missed.

I will conclude by sayin' that I wish I was allergic to Romania or better said, Romanian women, but I am not a big fan of wishin'.

thanks
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Re: Tryin' 10 Sep 2014 20:16 #239318

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Dude I don't see how all this Romanian talk can possibly be beneficial to you. You don't hear me talking about Chicago girls all day just because I once had a Chicago GF... Why obsess over Romania. It's ridiculous.
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?

Re: Tryin' 10 Sep 2014 20:34 #239322

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TehillimZugger wrote:
Dude I don't see how all this Romanian talk can possibly be beneficial to you. You don't hear me talking about Chicago girls all day just because I once had a Chicago GF... Why obsess over Romania. It's ridiculous.


good point; thanks; much appreciated
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Re: Tryin' 10 Sep 2014 21:49 #239327

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I guess you could cross off the country on "Cordnoy's Places to Visit" list
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Re: Tryin' 10 Sep 2014 22:10 #239330

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What's wrong with the country?

...Oh you mean THAT country
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

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"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
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Re: Tryin' 11 Sep 2014 04:14 #239361

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Gevura, when I hear you mention the country it makes me think of birdies...
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?

Re: Tryin' 11 Sep 2014 04:20 #239363

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Then I guess you should cross off the country on "TZ's Places to Visit" list.
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל


"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
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Re: Tryin' 12 Sep 2014 17:32 #239443

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doin' well
feelin' of slight sadness/loneliness developin' though
sit by a Simcha and look around the table...my real friends (that means you guys) aren't there with me.
Wife doesn't know...can't really talk to her about it.

nu nu...don't think so much

two years ago, was it any better?
livin' the other life
I don't know
don't really remember my feelin's then; perhaps there weren't any, I was so preoccupied.

Thanks for listenin'
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Re: Tryin' 12 Sep 2014 18:05 #239444

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Thanks for sharing.

Can very much relate.

גוט שבת

Re: Tryin' 12 Sep 2014 19:24 #239450

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dearest cordony
i have exactly this dellema with myself
is it good or important to tell my wife, now after 2 years of being o.k.
on one side she might say:
now i know that all that we suffered with... was all because of you
you are disgusting
i knew that i shouldn't of married you, i always felt something is wrong
i (she) am a failure, by not giving you enough satisfaction
or on the other hand she might say:
really? how did you stop? you are a real tzaddik(not real though)
you decided to only love me, wow, now i really love you
now that you came over that, you are really strong (lets hope)

so שב ואל תעשה עדיף is always a winner
when going forward gets tough, its merely a sign that you are going uphill, just give more gas
put your sobriety first; before your wife, before your kids, before your avodas HaTorah (except for the 3 that are יעבור ואל יהרג) Without sobriety you won't have any of those things!

Re: Tryin' 12 Sep 2014 21:26 #239462

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thanks so much to all of you.

the dilemma of tellin' wife is a back n' forth one.

this time it came about in a different manner than usual.

it wasn't as a marriage bond thing, but just for my sake; for my loneliness. Dov has said several times that many things we lust addicts do are really for ourselves. We would tell our wives, for they are the safest, for they won't disclose to others.

oh well

think about all the good stuff
and there is plenty...even without too much thinkin'

ill conclude with this:
I hardly ever say good shabbos on this site (check it out; you probably won't find too many); you know why? cuz it's like sayin' i'm done with you fellows for the day, and you know something....I'm not!
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Re: Tryin' 13 Sep 2014 23:19 #239485

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Thank you cordnoy for sharing!

I have the feeling of not being able to share my feelings with anyone quite oft. The truth is, by me (and I don't mean anything here, just purely to share), that I could probably tell someone like my wife or some family member, it's just below my dignity to do so, they might look at me a little funny, not with the complete tolerance and acceptance of my GYE friends.

There I go again, ME.......
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Re: Tryin' 14 Sep 2014 19:27 #239527

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The fellows here tryin' to change the loneliness thing.

What a great group!

Thanks.
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Re: Tryin' 14 Sep 2014 20:42 #239531

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cordnoy wrote:


What a great group!



I agree.
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