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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 06 Mar 2016 23:41 #280507

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What's doin'?
We are here.

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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 06 Mar 2016 23:46 #280509

Aryeh821 Current streak: 591 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 289 Karma: 8	Feeling the urges again I really don't want to fall
	Soberity is a journey NOT a destination

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Mar 2016 00:03 #280513

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What have you done in the past?
What can you do now?

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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Mar 2016 00:07 #280515

Aryeh821 Current streak: 591 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 289 Karma: 8	I haven't really done anything in the past the main problem right now is that I need to take a shower and I know if I go into that washroom I'm done any suggestions?
	Soberity is a journey NOT a destination

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Mar 2016 00:12 #280517

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Stay smelly.
Pray.
Do what you always do.
Commit to a one minute shower.
Read the handbook.

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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Mar 2016 00:38 #280522

Aryeh821 Current streak: 591 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 289 Karma: 8	B"H i made it out safe ,sound and unsmelly
	Soberity is a journey NOT a destination Last Edit: 07 Mar 2016 00:51 by Aryeh821.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Mar 2016 02:50 #280530

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8258 Karma: 428	Aryeh I was gonna recommend you read the JHF section, but now I see this is also
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Mar 2016 03:45 #280542

BenTorah.BaalHabayis OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 321 Karma: 12	Aryeh821 wrote on 07 Mar 2016 00:38: B"H i made it out safe ,sound and unsmelly Glad to hear! I was going to recommend you take a cold (I don't mean luke warm, I mean COLD) shower. It's not pleasant but almost ensures nothing will happen!
	Feel free to email me at BenTorah.BaalHabayis@gmail.com 1 day may be too long for me, but I take it OWAAT = One wave at a time, cause the lust comes and goes like a wave which rises and crashes.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Mar 2016 04:15 #280548

Aryeh821 Current streak: 591 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 289 Karma: 8	markz wrote: Aryeh I was gonna recommend you read the JHF section, but now I see this is also What's JHF
	Soberity is a journey NOT a destination

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Mar 2016 04:19 #280549

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8258 Karma: 428	JHF where most of my post count comes from thank Gd
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 09 Mar 2016 20:49 #280852

Blind Beggar OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Not a sexaholic, just trying to be good. Posts: 780 Karma: 12	Glad to hear it. If I would have seen this in real time I would have told you to commit to posting here immediately after your shower. Bracketing showers or other risky activities by posting or calling a friend before and committing to contact him afterwards is a good way to stay clean.
	The Blind Beggar is a character in Rebbe Nachman's story of the Seven Beggars. If I view a woman as an object, I am powerless over lust, but I don't have to look. I can guard my eyes. I want to guard my eyes. I do guard my eyes. Why do I say these four lines?

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 09 Mar 2016 21:04 #280856

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8258 Karma: 428	Time to start a gye shower call number - replaces singing in dem shower, and hey BB great to see you back!!
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 24 Mar 2016 23:36 #282458

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BB, yoel here (1daat). It's so good to "see" you. I've got a bit of a streak going, and then I started to work on some writing I have to do, and then it comes in full force with the anxiety and the voices telling me it will take away all that stress. Instead I come here, and there you are.
Whew, Megilla in half an hour, and I haven't yet davened Mincha. So I'm going to daven Mincha and then go to Purim party, and maybe that will shake this out of me. Just talking to you helps so much. Thank you for still being here. Much love. Chag sameach.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 25 Mar 2016 02:01 #282462

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8258 Karma: 428	1daat where's our been?? I love how you old timers happen to chance upon guard your eyes when you're drunk Question is what happens when you're are sober? Wait are you sober or do you need a handbook or somethin' else? A listening ear?
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 25 Mar 2016 20:46 #282529

shmulyz19 OFFLINE Banned I am lucky to be alive each day. Thank you HaShem Posts: 160 Karma: -1	Anyone here? I need some help. My mom was diagnosed with cancer, and she doesn't have much time left. she went in for a mammogram and was diagnosed with stage 3. I really want to act out. please help.
	I am not a therapist offering advice. I am merely a concerned poster and Friend.. You can do it. KOT. Please chat me anytime. I'm all ears. Thank You Thank you... Shmuly Last Edit: 25 Mar 2016 20:51 by shmulyz19. Reason: added info