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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 09 Jan 2017 13:12 #302604

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Yes, but this thread is supposed to be for people who feel like they're about to fall. There's no responsibility to post just because you have a thread. It just categorizes it for the rest of the group.

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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 21 Mar 2017 01:14 #308689

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hi guys! i just almost fell need tons of chizzuk asap!
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 21 Mar 2017 01:22 #308690

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Mike 

maybe theres some chizuk you could give us?

Hey you haven't updated your thread recently

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How's things been doing there?
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 21 Mar 2017 03:19 #308696

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mikestruggling wrote on 21 Mar 2017 01:14:
hi guys! i just almost fell need tons of chizzuk asap!

Just saw your message. Hope you are ok. Best would be to call someone when a strong challenge arises. We are here to help you get through a tough moment. Whatever happened don't give up. You can succeed b'ezras Hashem.
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 04 Apr 2017 03:19 #310046

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I'm really in need of support tonight.. relapsed and trying not to let things get worse 

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 04 Apr 2017 03:26 #310049

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EzraP wrote on 04 Apr 2017 03:19:
I'm really in need of support tonight.. relapsed and trying not to let things get worse 

Read thru this thread.

There will be a test on it in the mornin'.
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 19 Apr 2017 05:44 #310787

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I'm scared of falling. 

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 19 Apr 2017 08:06 #310794

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AHH ME TOOO!!!!

Where you? What you doing? 
"Vegeta, what does the scouter say about his sobriety level?"
"... It's over NINE-ZEROOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!"

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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 19 Apr 2017 08:59 #310809

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Singularity wrote on 19 Apr 2017 08:06:
AHH ME TOOO!!!!

Where you? What you doing? 

You ok?
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 19 Apr 2017 09:59 #310812

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MosheS wrote on 19 Apr 2017 05:44:
I'm scared of falling. 

Think of sobriety time as money in the bank.
Every clean day you get another silver dollar.
We are investing in ourselves and our futures and our sanity - so really there is no value you can put on it.
But here's what happens.
The more money you have deposited in the bank, the more invested you become in yourself and not wanting to let yourself down.
And then if you do fall, you remember what it was like to have all those silver dollars in the bank... and you want them and so many more of them.
Being scared of falling is natural when you look at it like this.
But be practical also, and focus on the gains you are making..

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 19 Apr 2017 13:20 #310819

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shua73 wrote on 19 Apr 2017 08:59:

Singularity wrote on 19 Apr 2017 08:06:
AHH ME TOOO!!!!

Where you? What you doing? 

You ok?

BH.

Trying to empathise..
"Vegeta, what does the scouter say about his sobriety level?"
"... It's over NINE-ZEROOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!"

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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 20 Apr 2017 00:51 #310888

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Thanks guys.

bh I made it clean. Was feeling very vulnerable. Went for a walk without any electronics. Just me myself and I. 

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 20 Apr 2017 07:49 #310899

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MosheS wrote on 20 Apr 2017 00:51:
Thanks guys.

bh I made it clean. Was feeling very vulnerable. Went for a walk without any electronics. Just me myself and I. 

Good on you!
"Vegeta, what does the scouter say about his sobriety level?"
"... It's over NINE-ZEROOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!"

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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Jun 2017 14:26 #314829

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I have really been struggling the past couple of days. I have had trouble sleeping and I am really tired. In addition my wife has been unavailable for a number of weeks following a miscarriage. I dont find myself struggling with desire to look at inappropriate material very often but these conditions are making it very difficult.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Jun 2017 17:47 #314846

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Very understandable. Exhaustion, and the trying situation of the wife being unavailable are recipes for challenge. Couple that with a little anxiety and the nisayon grows. What works for me at such a matzav is vigorous exercise, speaking to someone who has dealt with this before, finding things that can distract me, and davening. You can pull through b'ezras Hashem
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