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Scientific studies show that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind. Start your own Log of your journey to 90 days! Post here to update us on your status and to give each other chizuk to stay strong!

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Re: Kedusha's Progress 07 May 2015 23:22 #254139

kedusha Current streak: 717 days OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 3167 Karma: 46	Thank you, Gibbor! IY"H by you, b'Karov!
	Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'! Last Edit: 07 May 2015 23:23 by kedusha.

Re: Kedusha's Progress 08 May 2015 04:43 #254167

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That is really wonderful to hear. Mazel Tov! You should go from strength to strength! It's cool to read some of you very early posts, when you were only a few days in and Guard had to manually update the 90 day chart for you.

Much Hatzlacha!

My Threads:
Glad to be here
Don't slip it hurts
Lions & Tigers & Internet, Oh My!

--"ולא המדרש עיקר, אלא המעשה"
--"To promise not to do a thing is the surest way in the world to make a body want to go and do that very thing." Mark Twain
--"If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking (or lusting), you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic (or sexaholic)." AA Big Book P. 45. Parenthesis added.
--You hit rock bottom when you decide to stop digging.

Re: Kedusha's Progress 08 May 2015 15:11 #254186

kedusha Current streak: 717 days OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 3167 Karma: 46	Thank you, Serenity. I agree that, the early posts on the forum (not only mine) are of significant historical interest. May we all be Matzliach, one day at a time. Have a good Shabbos!
	Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'! Last Edit: 08 May 2015 15:15 by kedusha.

Re: Kedusha's Progress 11 May 2015 15:33 #254338

jack OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 502 Karma: 10	how derelict of me for answering so late - you are really a role model for us all jack

Re: Kedusha's Progress 15 May 2015 14:17 #254803

kedusha Current streak: 717 days OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 3167 Karma: 46	Jack, It's always great to hear from you! Have a wonderful Shabbos! Kedusha
	Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!

Re: Kedusha's Progress 15 May 2015 15:15 #254811

yiraishamaim OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1031 Karma: 101	Hi Kedusha You are clearly a motivating factor here on the forum. I am interested to know if you found hatzlocho in other areas of your life as your days of sobriety accumulated.

Re: Kedusha's Progress 22 May 2015 14:47 #255295

kedusha Current streak: 717 days OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 3167 Karma: 46	Yes, absolutely. B'ezras Hashem, it's like the difference between night and day.
	Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!

Re: Kedusha's Progress 22 May 2015 19:26 #255323

yiraishamaim OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1031 Karma: 101	So happy for you!!! May your Hatzlocho only continue to grow and for all of us here on the forum. Gut Yom Tov!

Re: Kedusha's Progress 22 Jul 2015 23:13 #260136

hman OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 8 Karma: 1	Mazel tov. Hope in 6 years to post the same message.

Re: Kedusha's Progress 23 Jul 2015 03:00 #260159

kedusha Current streak: 717 days OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 3167 Karma: 46	Thank you, Hman! I hope we'll hear good news from you, and much sooner than 6 years from now!
	Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!

Re: Kedusha's Progress 10 Aug 2015 22:17 #261363

lomed OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 307 Karma: 47	Hi Kedusha, Never realized that you exist till now. Relative to you I am a new comer here. If i may ask you post in short your Journey, and if you still struggle today? What got you to sobriety and what is keeping you sober? I am sure that you have many tips to offer. It is hard to go through your 30 page thread. thank you
	I currently attend live SA meetings. Feel free to reach out to me.

Re: Kedusha's Progress 10 Aug 2015 22:51 #261364

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lomed wrote:

Hi Kedusha,

Never realized that you exist till now. Relative to you I am a new comer here. If i may ask you post in short your Journey, and if you still struggle today? What got you to sobriety and what is keeping you sober?

I am sure that you have many tips to offer. It is hard to go through your 30 page thread.

thank you

Start at page 1.
One page at a time.
There are many long threads here with many insightful comments, suggestions and posts.
This one is one of the best.

My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: Mikvah Night - Page 1, Page 2, Page 3, Last Page

https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/210029-Tryin

Warning: Spoiler!

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Re: Kedusha's Progress 11 Aug 2015 03:36 #261421

kedusha
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Hi Lomed,

Take your time to go through this thread and other threads - no rush!

The bottom line is that I decided that, be"H, I would do whatever it takes to stay clean, one day at a time. Whether it's reading through the GYE Handbook, implementing the three-second-rule, participating in one of the phone conferences, posting on the forum, having an occasional live meeting with other GYE members, or using only properly filtered internet, I've done whatever it takes to stay clean, one day at a time, and I'm prepared, be"H, to continue to do whatever it takes.

Hope this helps. Hatzlacha to you!

Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!

Last Edit: 11 Aug 2015 03:38 by kedusha.

Re: Kedusha's Progress 11 Aug 2015 04:41 #261432

yiraishamaim OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1031 Karma: 101	Got it - old school. No illustrious chidushuim. Follow the old tried and true but me steadfast in the commitment.

Re: Kedusha's Progress 11 Aug 2015 15:09 #261453

kedusha Current streak: 717 days OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 3167 Karma: 46	Sometimes having no Chiddushim is the biggest Chiddush. I'm reminded of a quote that is attributed to the Ibn Ezra: "Ein Beis Midrash b'li Chiddush. Ein Chiddush? Yeish Chiddush!"
	Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'! Last Edit: 11 Aug 2015 15:10 by kedusha.