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Re: Trueme 07 Jul 2025 14:29 #438523

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trueme wrote on 04 Jul 2025 20:30:
Ugh. Back to zero. I acted stupidly and gave in to an urge so quickly. dumb. I saw something helpful about using mindfulness and identifying the feeling of an urge, naming it, sourcing it. Anyone relate to this helping them?

Meenwhile, I also have to learn (more) because like the רמב"ם says, only in a לב thats פנוי מן החכמה and not immersed in the מי הדעת can מחשבות that are indecent enter...

I feel like a disgusting garbage bag. And a weak one too. Ugh!

Re: mindfullness. Lotta great mindfullness tools in flight to freedom. Give some of the recordings a shot actually. I'm a fan.

Re: Torah. I think literally every single person has tried that solution. I think most of us would agree that the first step is to just work the GYE tools and get some clean time in. Fleeing lust to torah doesn't tend to work well. Building a clean life centered around the torah does. Those are two very different beings.

Are you in touch (like, pick up the phone or meet in person level in touch) with anyone?
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