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Re: Holy In Jerusalem 23 Mar 2025 23:24 #433284

After a nice chunk of falls after falls. I want to come back.

I am clean for a nice few days (mainly from life being hectic, not from trying). I hope to stay clean from masturbating.

SSSL's Story (Google Doc)​ [You will need to request permission, which I'm happy to give.]
Holy In Jerusalem (My Thread)

Feel free to say hi or send some chizuk over @ stopsurvivingstartliving2024@gmail.com.
My google voice number got shut down, so I won't be able to receive or send messages from there.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 24 Mar 2025 01:03 #433290

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Welcome back!!
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Re: Holy In Jerusalem 24 Mar 2025 03:35 #433298

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Welcome home

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 24 Mar 2025 18:26 #433343

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Welcome back!!
We're in this struggle together; feel free to reach out! 
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Re: Holy In Jerusalem 24 Mar 2025 18:39 #433348

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stopsurvivingstartliving wrote on 23 Mar 2025 23:24:
After a nice chunk of falls after falls. I want to come back.

I am clean for a nice few days (mainly from life being hectic, not from trying). I hope to stay clean from masturbating.

Hay welcome back! I was worried about you,

Look how much 'Thank You' you got, the oilem cares about you

A hug
Last Edit: 24 Mar 2025 21:11 by puppy.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 25 Mar 2025 04:26 #433394

Unfortunately I found a loophole and fell to porn and then masturbated.

SSSL's Story (Google Doc)​ [You will need to request permission, which I'm happy to give.]
Holy In Jerusalem (My Thread)

Feel free to say hi or send some chizuk over @ stopsurvivingstartliving2024@gmail.com.
My google voice number got shut down, so I won't be able to receive or send messages from there.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 09 Apr 2025 19:49 #434463

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Hey there Friend. Hope you are doing alright Brother. 

Please be in touch.

Kol tov
Today is yesterday's tomorrow.
The yetzarim a person has the most trouble dealing with are his most powerful God-given tools for developing his potential and achieving shleimus.
It doesn't matter how big the number is, only that today it is going up by one.

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Re: Holy In Jerusalem 23 Apr 2025 04:26 #434859

Tons of Porn today, Oy!

Tons of Zera Levatala lately, Oy!

Tateh a bissel rachmunus!

SSSL's Story (Google Doc)​ [You will need to request permission, which I'm happy to give.]
Holy In Jerusalem (My Thread)

Feel free to say hi or send some chizuk over @ stopsurvivingstartliving2024@gmail.com.
My google voice number got shut down, so I won't be able to receive or send messages from there.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 23 Apr 2025 12:49 #434875

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Mistakes happen

I don't know you, but from your posts it seems like you're a good guy trying to do the right thing.

You didn't want to do that, the ONLY reason you did it is because you have a yetzer hara, pushing you around.

Say sorry to HaShem do teshuva, forgive yourself and leave it in the past, you got very good things going for you!

Focus on what YOU actually WANT: getting close to HaShem! 

HaShem loves you very much and all he wants is for you to be close.


Hatzlacha
Kohelet 3:12 Thus I perceived that there is nothing better for them than to rejoice and do good in his life.

12:13 The sum of the matter, when all has been considered FEAR G~D and keep his commandments, for this is the whole purpose of man.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 24 Apr 2025 01:20 #434927

Not a chiddush but I wanted to put this on paper nevertheless.The other day I had something important to get done. But being stuck in the trap of lust I wasted my time away. I am not even referring to watching porn, rather a long time refreshing my pages. Waiting for replies that will get me nowhere. It was horrible. So on those days the motivation is here do not go down that rabbit hole. What how do I get that to last. Comes a different day that those important things are not there, and there goes to motivation.So is there a point of focusing on this "frishkeit" where it's another thing that comes and goes.I am in a bad rut for the past while but something motivated me to post this. I am not sure what that motivation is but maybe it's because I cracked a book for the first time in a while. As Chazal say "barasi yetzer hara barasi torah tavlin". Who knows.It's good to be back and I continue striving to,
stop surviving and start living.

SSSL's Story (Google Doc)​ [You will need to request permission, which I'm happy to give.]
Holy In Jerusalem (My Thread)

Feel free to say hi or send some chizuk over @ stopsurvivingstartliving2024@gmail.com.
My google voice number got shut down, so I won't be able to receive or send messages from there.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 24 Apr 2025 13:28 #434946

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stopsurvivingstartliving wrote on 24 Apr 2025 01:20:
Not a chiddush but I wanted to put this on paper nevertheless.The other day I had something important to get done. But being stuck in the trap of lust I wasted my time away. I am not even referring to watching porn, rather a long time refreshing my pages. Waiting for replies that will get me nowhere. It was horrible. So on those days the motivation is here do not go down that rabbit hole. What how do I get that to last. Comes a different day that those important things are not there, and there goes to motivation.So is there a point of focusing on this "frishkeit" where it's another thing that comes and goes.I am in a bad rut for the past while but something motivated me to post this. I am not sure what that motivation is but maybe it's because I cracked a book for the first time in a while. As Chazal say "barasi yetzer hara barasi torah tavlin". Who knows.It's good to be back and I continue striving to,
stop surviving and start living.

So good to have you back!
Made me happy to see you posting!
Feel free to reach out and say hi!
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Re: Holy In Jerusalem 25 Apr 2025 23:20 #435026

Had a nice and clean last 3 days, thank God!

SSSL's Story (Google Doc)​ [You will need to request permission, which I'm happy to give.]
Holy In Jerusalem (My Thread)

Feel free to say hi or send some chizuk over @ stopsurvivingstartliving2024@gmail.com.
My google voice number got shut down, so I won't be able to receive or send messages from there.

Last Edit: 25 Apr 2025 23:23 by stopsurvivingstartliving.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 02 May 2025 22:29 #435370

Though I am not clean since last post I have a few days clean behind me thank God!

Gut Shabbos!

SSSL's Story (Google Doc)​ [You will need to request permission, which I'm happy to give.]
Holy In Jerusalem (My Thread)

Feel free to say hi or send some chizuk over @ stopsurvivingstartliving2024@gmail.com.
My google voice number got shut down, so I won't be able to receive or send messages from there.

Last Edit: 02 May 2025 22:30 by stopsurvivingstartliving.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 04 May 2025 04:44 #435386

Thank God I am still clean!

SSSL's Story (Google Doc)​ [You will need to request permission, which I'm happy to give.]
Holy In Jerusalem (My Thread)

Feel free to say hi or send some chizuk over @ stopsurvivingstartliving2024@gmail.com.
My google voice number got shut down, so I won't be able to receive or send messages from there.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 18 May 2025 02:52 #435986

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Hey man, checking in, post don't give up and reach out if you want.
Hatzlacha!
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