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Re: Chooseurnames 90 day trip 23 Dec 2024 13:51 #427728

chosemyshem
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Checking in just to share a W from last night.

My wife went to party and left me babysitting for hours at night. That situation is somewhat dangerous for me. Forget about porn for a minute. When I don't have my normal structure and schedule, I often sit down to "learn - but just check the news first" and boom at best the whole evening is wasted on nothing.

Last night I planned ahead, put my devices away (once I finished weighing in on the GYE machlokes hayom), and did my regular night seder from home. Wasn't the most productive seder, but infinitely better than sitting and killing time online.

Felt good. I probably wouldn'tve fallen with porn last night. My tailspin from last week has been b"h straightening out slowly. But I for sure would've killed the whole evening on narishkeit, and I'm happy that didn't happen. I'm also happy I stayed far away from a situation that could have become a struggle very quickly. #TYHAGYE

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Re: Chooseurnames 90 day trip 23 Dec 2024 14:03 #427729

redfaced
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chosemyshem wrote on 23 Dec 2024 13:51:

Hero!
Here's a hug.
And another on.....
Actually the other one will wait until tonight

May you slide down the banister of happiness and get many splinters of success up your career

Feel free to send me an owl, a howler, or even a Crumple-Horned Snorkack to Iamredfaced@gmail.com

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Re: Chooseurnames 90 day trip 23 Dec 2024 14:12 #427731

youknowwho OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 543 Karma: 64	redfaced wrote on 23 Dec 2024 14:03: chosemyshem wrote on 23 Dec 2024 13:51: Checking in just to share a W from last night. Here's a hug. And another on..... Actually the other one will wait until tonight Now that's what I call cheating.

Re: Chooseurnames 90 day trip 23 Dec 2024 14:13 #427733

Muttel Current streak: 233 days NOW ONLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 526 Karma: 24	Is Igor involved?
	We're in this struggle together; feel free to reach out! Muttel15@gmail.com Feel free to call/text! (908) 251-9590 (google) Check out my thread here: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/413043-My-ENTIRE-story#413043

Re: Chooseurnames 90 day trip 23 Dec 2024 14:17 #427735

youknowwho OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 543 Karma: 64	Muttel wrote on 23 Dec 2024 14:13: Is Igor involved? I sure hope not!

Re: Chooseurnames 90 day trip 23 Dec 2024 14:59 #427737

redfaced Current streak: 581 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1177 Karma: 57	Muttel wrote on 23 Dec 2024 14:13: Is Igor involved? Hey, Who invited you?!?!
	May you slide down the banister of happiness and get many splinters of success up your career Feel free to send me an owl, a howler, or even a Crumple-Horned Snorkack to Iamredfaced@gmail.com The Red Face