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On the Way to 90-Days

Giving it another shot

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Scientific studies show that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind. Start your own Log of your journey to 90 days! Post here to update us on your status and to give each other chizuk to stay strong!

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Re: Giving it another shot 25 Feb 2021 00:44 #364197

anothershot Current streak: 7 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 113 Karma: 7	2! Thank you Hashem! hatzlacha to all! anothershot
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!

Re: Giving it another shot 26 Feb 2021 03:19 #364273

anothershot Current streak: 7 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 113 Karma: 7	3! Ah freilichen purim! Anothershot
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!

Re: Giving it another shot 28 Feb 2021 01:24 #364302

anothershot Current streak: 7 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 113 Karma: 7	5! Ah gut vuch! Hatzlacha to all! Anothershot
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!

Re: Giving it another shot 01 Mar 2021 04:49 #364409

anothershot Current streak: 7 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 113 Karma: 7	6! ODAAT Hatzlacha to all! Anothershot
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!

Re: Giving it another shot 02 Mar 2021 01:04 #364487

anothershot Current streak: 7 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 113 Karma: 7	I'm really embarrassed & want to run away from GYE right now... I fell late last night & then twice today. But I promised myself no matter what happens and where I am holding I will make every effort to post daily. I am starting over now... Fresh start.... It's so hard to feel good about it right now but I will get there. Hatzlacha to all! Anothershot
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!

Re: Giving it another shot 02 Mar 2021 02:03 #364491

Grant400
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anothershot wrote on 02 Mar 2021 01:04:

I'm really embarrassed & want to run away from GYE right now... I fell late last night & then twice today.

But I promised myself no matter what happens and where I am holding I will make every effort to post daily.

I am starting over now... Fresh start.... It's so hard to feel good about it right now but I will get there.

Hatzlacha to all!
Anothershot

Kudos on not running away. Too many people gained a tremendous amount, and after a fall or two realized that there isn't magic here and it's still hard work, ran for the hills.

You might feel like you fell, and now you must start over. That couldn't be farther from the truth. Read through every thread of someone who is deep past 90 days, they are all interspersed with falls and laced with despair and frustration. Only laced, yet the primary morale isn't of failure, it's of perseverance and learning from the mistakes. For real. Not just saying it, but actually understanding where we went wrong and figuring out how to remedy the situation and create a solution for the future.

One who uses the mistakes and instead of being discouraged by them, utilizes them as educational moments will go far. One who understands that falls are inevitable and are in fact a part of the journey can use them as stepping stones to reach his final goal.

You are a mighty warrior, and I'm proud to be at your side. Don't be embarrassed, be proud!

Grant

I can be reached at: Grant.400@yahoo.com

Last Edit: 02 Mar 2021 02:03 by Grant400.

Re: Giving it another shot 03 Mar 2021 00:34 #364594

anothershot
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1!
Today was really strange for me. The urges were strong but I've had worse. The difference was that I wasn't as committed & motivated as I was other times.
The previous times that I had really strong urges I was protecting a streak but today I didn't have anything going and that made it really tough.
The yh must have told me a thousand times today to just fall again and restart tomorrow.
I'm not sure how I survived the onslaught but I did.
I definitely gained an appreciation today for even just 1 clean day!

Hatzlacha to all!
Anothershot

My threads:
Giving it another shot

One step at a time

Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi

I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!

Re: Giving it another shot 03 Mar 2021 01:31 #364603

Shaul5781 Current streak: 108 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 13 Karma: 2	Amazing!! Good Job!!

Re: Giving it another shot 04 Mar 2021 20:11 #364737

Strong as iron Current streak: 3 days NOW ONLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 9 Karma: 2	I am new here just 7 days but feel really awful fell already 3 times but I hope to one day reach 7 days clean

Re: Giving it another shot 04 Mar 2021 20:20 #364739

Zedj Current streak: 143 days NOW ONLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 386 Karma: 23	Welcome! Can you share some more on what you tried on the past, your struggle and your goals? By all means please don't just disappear, there are so many tools that you can make use on GYE. Keep us posted on your journey so you can be a source of chizuk for others and also so that yourhave some accountability. I can't wait to celebrate your milestones!

Re: Giving it another shot 04 Mar 2021 20:21 #364741

Zedj Current streak: 143 days NOW ONLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 386 Karma: 23	Perhaps you can start your own thread?

Re: Giving it another shot 07 Mar 2021 06:00 #364859

anothershot Current streak: 7 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 113 Karma: 7	2! Last week was a real setback for me but I am starting fresh now with renewed energy and commitment! I will Bl"n write a new CBA tomorrow. Hatzlacha to all! Anothershot
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!

Re: Giving it another shot 09 Mar 2021 04:48 #365063

anothershot Current streak: 7 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 113 Karma: 7	4! I wrote my new CBA yesterday! Hatzlacha to all! Anothershot
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!

Re: Giving it another shot 09 Mar 2021 23:56 #365138

בינוני Current streak: 11 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 117 Karma: 9	Mazel tov on the success! Wondering what is "CBA"?
	My thread: Let's get this party started Who the heck is Benoni? Procrastination is something best put off until tomorrow. -Gerald Vaughan

Re: Giving it another shot 10 Mar 2021 00:56 #365142

anothershot Current streak: 7 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 113 Karma: 7	Cost benefit analysis. Basically all the pros & cons of watching porn & masturbating. Warning: Spoiler! The cons won!
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!