Like מלך ארי said posting בכלל gives chizuk to many people and בפרט giving people chizuk via chat, email, phone ,or whatever can be a gamechanger as I've  experienced as  many others here did .

Thank you for your service

Please continue posting. Every individual adds tremendously to the entire GYE experience. Sharing your challenges helps give courage for others to do the same. Sharing success shows others that "it can be done". Without realizing it, those who post, end up advising so many people with concepts that to them may seem simple, yet for someone else is a chiddush he needed to hear. And in the metaphysical sense, the greater the tzibbur is, the more hashroas haShechina, and the more hatzlocha b'ezras Hashem.

B"H im clean today, and im clean now for a very long time, no clue how many days, but i know its for a long time, and BH for that.

Before i became a GYE memeber last year, a week befor pesach, which is now 1 1/2 years, i was in a Matzev of no control whats so ever, and it didnt bother me at all, i knew im wrong, but i was sooooo cold, freezing cold to everything and anything so it just didnt touch me, and just the opposite, i loved to act out, i did it as often i could, i looked out for the minute i can act out, but since im on GYE, i probably act out maybe 6 or 7 times, dont know exactly, but its  between 5 and 10 times, which is a huge milstone for me, i acted out since im 8 years, none stop, and here i am, clean for the longest time, and even when i fell the last 1 1/2 year, i call it a fall, and not acting out.. falling and acting out is totally different things....

To all of my brothers out there, let me tell you, if there is a will there is a way, i was there, and i know what im talking about, but even when you really  want to get out of this mud, there has to be with a "mehalach", my approach was 2 things, Taphsic and partner, after 6 months, i was able to get rid of the Taphsic, now im staying clean, by taking one day at a time, every morning, first thing after Modeh Ani, im telling to myself, that today only, i want to stay clean, and hashem is soo good to me, and i must give back to him, and that will be my Mesiras Nefesh of today, i will give him over all my Reiyas on the street, ill look only on the floor, and thats what keeps me going the entire day, in one word, i cant be a Kufi Tova for hashem when he is soooo good to me.. another thing is tefila, i ask Hashem at every shmona esre that i CANT do it alone by my self, he must help me, with out him, im like a fly, im nothing... and he helps me.... i see it on a daily basis...

so guys, i know its very tough, but at the end you will feel a million dollars, it pays to suffer in the beginning, just start... there has to be a beginning.

so, thank you hashem for giving me the opportunity to give you back, and in the same time helping me to stay clean, and thank you hashem for guiding me to this wonderful group GYE, you, all memebers are part of my success THANK YOU ALL

Gota tell you, im the luckiest person on earth.... 
Hashem loves me, and he is watching me, i shouldn't fall, and im clean, and im very thankful to Hashem, i from my side, Hashem from his side, we are working on it together not to fall, im doing my Histadlus, and Hashem is on my right side watching over me.... Thank You!! Thank You!!..
Rosh Hashana will be a totally different ball game, it will be a clean one, not dirty eyes, no dirty thoughts.. Thank You...

Should i reset my day clock? i have no clue at which day i am, its definitely not the day on my 90 Day sheet, but definitely not Day #1? any suggestions?

Let’s Stay Strong! Let’s Stay Clean! And let’s be positive and happy, Yes! We can and we will do it! And Together.... 
איש את רעהו יעזורו ולאחיו יאמר חזק

Yes, here i am, and i made it, i deliverd to Hashem a beautiful day, my day went great, clean, holy, great feeling, and ill thank hashem loud, Thank You, with out your help im powerless, with out your support at GYE i wouldnt be here.... Thank you.... and ill try to give tou back much more full clean days... im proud about myself...

B"H i had a great clean night... and im hoping for the other night to come the same.
​Today is another day, and i will focus on TODAY only, i wont look back, what happened happened, and i cant change it, and i wont look forward, because it dosen't matter now what it will be tomorrow, so today, is the day, and i will give it back to Hashem hopefully the same way i got it, but a bit more cleaner and much more shiny, and i pray to Hashem he should stand on my side, and help me on every second, that i shouldnt fall in any shape or form..
​I find a nice short tefila, and ill share  it with you all...

B"H i had a great clean night... and im hoping for the other night to come the same.
​Today is another day, and i will focus on TODAY only, i wont look back, what happened happened, and i cant change it, and i wont look forward, because it dosen't matter now what it will be tomorrow, so today, is the day, and i will give it back to Hashem hopefully the same way i got it, but a bit more cleaner and much more shiny, and i pray to Hashem he should stand on my side, and help me on every second, that i shouldnt fall in any shape or form..

Thank You Hashem, i am clean, had a bit issue at night, just for a moment, in my dream, but i did stop in when it was in the really beginning stages, occurrence took probably 30 seconds only, and i did had the guts to stop it right there, which make me excited, that it came to a point where i can control myself while im sleeping, it was like "No No, dont do it, dont be a fool, you will regret it, dont do it" and i did stop. im really happy for myself.
and i need to thank hashem for that, its him and only him, he routed me to GYE, and because of GYE im where i am now, and he is watching me every second i shouldnt fall, even while im asleep...
Thank You Thank you!!!

"Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts"

One Day At A Time, dont look backwards and dont look forward, only what's happening now.... so you will succeed.. and remember to do lots of Tefilah.... it helps..

Let’s Stay Strong! Let’s Stay Clean! And let’s be positive and happy, Yes! We can and we will do it! And Together

A clean and Day to all of you....

To all GYE chaveirim, 

Im BH clean, and i hope to stay clean my entire life... its the best thing ever, i love my real life, and not a double life, i have much more time to my wife and children, my heart is at them and not at porn garbage... its the best thing i could do for myself and to my family, thank you hashem and thank you all.... you are my support, and should you only do the same...

You and your family should have a healthy and sweet new year, you should have a clean year, an easy one, hashem should be always on your side, you should always be stronger then the Yatzer Hura, you should have Parnasa easy, lots of money, and we should hear the Shofer from Musiah in Jerusalem this year....
You should all have a כתיבה וחתימה טובה בספרן של צדיקים

Hellow brothers...
I need your input, you help me all the way till today, and i need now your help... I had a vey awful ending yom tov, despite being clean for the longest time, in terms of my hands, eyes and thoughts, im putting in lots of effort not to look and not to think about stuff we are not allowed to, and after all, i had a wet dream simchas torah, i fully acted out in my sleep, i never ever had such a thing, it was the first time experience in my life, even back in my bed days, i never had such a thing, but now it happaned, i got up very disappointed, why it happaned, so i had a choice to be depressed and drop everything and go back down the hill, or to forget about it, and just look forward, and to go to shul to dance with the torah, and i did the last one, but i was thinking why it happaned? I mean, im clean for so long, so what happened now? After giving it a lot of thought i came to the conclusion that hashem wanted to teach me, that "i" am doing nothing to prevent anything like that, and has nothing to do because im watching on myself, its all about hashem, and he showed me, that even i put in all my affort to stay clean it wont help, i still need help from hashem, and only he can help me to stay clean...

So my million dollar question is, do i reset my count of clean days or not.... what would you do in such an instance.....

I had a very interesting story this choil hamoed, i went to upstate to visit my father in law, i had my entire family in the car, and i had a choice to take the BQE and not to pass manhattan, which is very bed to us as addicts/survivors, but its much more expensive due to the tolls and more millage, or i could go through manhattan which is less expensive but not healthy to my and my boys kosher eyes, so i ask Hashem, that i will take the more expensive way, but i would like to get back my money that same day, and ill get a clear hint from heaven that this is the right approach, and that hashem likes me.. guess what, as soon i got to my father in law, i opened the door of the house, my father in law took out $200 and tells me, this is for you, for the travel expenses, gas and toll, plus change..... i almost cried for joy, that hashem showed me that he loves me.....

So... to all of you, dont forget to ask hashem to help you and all of us to stay clean, Tefilah helps, dont underestimate it... hashem is waiting for our tefilas

"Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts"

One Day At A Time, dont look backwards and dont look forward, only what's happening now.... so you will succeed.. and remember to do lots of Tefilah.... it helps..

Let’s Stay Strong! Let’s Stay Clean! And let’s be positive and happy, Yes! We can and we will do it! And Together

A clean and Day to all of you....

Absolutely not a fall, you are not responsible for what your body does when you’re asleep. 

Hashem loves you, and so do we

KOMT!!

An uninvited wet dream is a cause for celebration. When one was not lusting heavily during the day and then out of the blue has a wet dream, it is completely not his fault. It means your subconscious has realized that you have firmly shown that you will iyh not act out consciously. So the subconscious - known to us as the nefesh ha-b'hamis - gets its release only when he is in charge - when you are asleep. So of course you do not reset your count. You make a l'chaim and keep on going. Hatzlocha.

Hashem Help Me wrote on 08 Oct 2018 11:28:

You've said this several times and I'd like to believe it. It's nice and had a positive spin.

DoI you have a source for this?

Additionally, how is it compatible with the words of ourI sages that one who sees keri y"k night should be worried theI entire year (about death)?

cordnoy wrote on 08 Oct 2018 13:00:

The "cause for celebration" I believe was said in the context of not having willingly masturbated for a while, and as a result of that the body reacting at night instead.

I dont know how to square it with the Chaza"l that you mentioned, but I'm sure that Hashem is rejoicing with him.

cordnoy wrote on 08 Oct 2018 13:00:

tthis is the last amud in Yuma ayin sham

תני תנא קמיה דרב נחמן  הרואה קרי ביוה"כ עונותיו מחולין לו  והתניא  עונותיו סדורין  מאי סדורין סדורין לימחל 
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