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Re: I will make it b"h 16 Jan 2017 14:26 #303263

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MayanHamisgaber wrote on 16 Jan 2017 14:16:
thanks for the update 

i might add do to the above that though my wife might have something to do with a narcissistic parent she has and we still do talk about it when she gets overwhelmed by it (usually with a good cry) but she knows that i love her and we support each other alot i think that we have a 1+1=2
relationship.

B'hatzlacha

May you be zoche to get your math right

1+1=1
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Re: I will make it b"h 16 Jan 2017 14:53 #303271

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Markz wrote on 16 Jan 2017 14:26:

MayanHamisgaber wrote on 16 Jan 2017 14:16:
thanks for the update 

i might add do to the above that though my wife might have something to do with a narcissistic parent she has and we still do talk about it when she gets overwhelmed by it (usually with a good cry) but she knows that i love her and we support each other alot i think that we have a 1+1=2
relationship.

B'hatzlacha

May you be zoche to get your math right

1+1=1

amen.

is that the narcissism talking?  ;-)
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Re: I will make it b"h 16 Jan 2017 14:58 #303272

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I suffer from codependence. Sometimes when i help someone else i go overboard and take over. It comes along with very unhealthy feelings. Where can i read up more about this?
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Re: I will make it b"h 16 Jan 2017 17:13 #303288

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I find it incredible. This website i thought was specifically for sexual issues and lo and behold its a place where one can iyh straighten out their lives.
Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com

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Re: I will make it b"h 16 Jan 2017 17:34 #303295

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I just want to point out that codependency is not inherently a problem. Most people are codependent on some level, but when it starts taking over someone's life is when there are issues. Probably every Jewish mother is codependent to some extent.
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Re: I will make it b"h 16 Jan 2017 20:44 #303310

testing
my thread:guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh">I will make it b"h


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Re: I will make it b"h 16 Jan 2017 20:50 #303311

day 28

had a really good day nothing to right home about cept that was alone int he house for awhile and didn't even try to get around the filter

thanks all for the thoughts and markz you should know that i got a+/100% on math in high school while sleeping through most classes but you are right 1+1=1 should be the equation but i think that 3 years is to quick to be able to get that ....

by the way does anyone know how to prove that .99999999999999999...... equals 1 ?

B'hatzlacha
my thread:guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh">I will make it b"h


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Re: I will make it b"h 16 Jan 2017 22:00 #303318

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MayanHamisgaber wrote on 16 Jan 2017 20:50:
day 28

had a really good day nothing to right home about cept that was alone int he house for awhile and didn't even try to get around the filter

thanks all for the thoughts and markz you should know that i got a+/100% on math in high school while sleeping through most classes but you are right 1+1=1 should be the equation but i think that 3 years is to quick to be able to get that ....

by the way does anyone know how to prove that .99999999999999999...... equals 1 ?

B'hatzlacha

Yeah, use a Pentium processor
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And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...


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Re: I will make it b"h 17 Jan 2017 08:11 #303342

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Hashem Help Me wrote on 16 Jan 2017 17:13:
I find it incredible. This website i thought was specifically for sexual issues and lo and behold its a place where one can iyh straighten out their lives.

And such are the 12 steps, too...



Want a real proof, mayan? I like maths.

x = 0.999...
10x = 9.999...
10x - x = 9.999... - 0.999... = 9
9x = 9
x = 1

1 = 0.999

But in reality, 0.999 can never really equal 1. It's all in our minds
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Re: I will make it b"h 17 Jan 2017 12:13 #303355

so true this was one of my fathers favorites...

do you have others?
my thread:guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh">I will make it b"h


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Re: I will make it b"h 17 Jan 2017 20:07 #303424

day 29 

notin to report shiur went well learning going well life is great b"h

B'ahtzlacha
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Re: I will make it b"h 17 Jan 2017 21:12 #303427

Gevura Shebyesod wrote on 16 Jan 2017 22:00:

MayanHamisgaber wrote on 16 Jan 2017 20:50:
day 28

had a really good day nothing to right home about cept that was alone int he house for awhile and didn't even try to get around the filter

thanks all for the thoughts and markz you should know that i got a+/100% on math in high school while sleeping through most classes but you are right 1+1=1 should be the equation but i think that 3 years is to quick to be able to get that ....

by the way does anyone know how to prove that .99999999999999999...... equals 1 ?

B'hatzlacha

Yeah, use a Pentium processor


what is that?
my thread:guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh">I will make it b"h


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Re: I will make it b"h 17 Jan 2017 22:24 #303431

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en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pentium_FDIV_bug">en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pentium_FDIV_bug
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And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...


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Re: I will make it b"h 17 Jan 2017 22:26 #303432

already saw it thanks
my thread:guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh">I will make it b"h


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Re: I will make it b"h 18 Jan 2017 07:42 #303465

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MayanHamisgaber wrote on 17 Jan 2017 20:07:
day 29 

notin to report shiur went well learning going well life is great b"h

B'ahtzlacha

Ah, the good days. Celebrate with a cold lemonade
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