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Re: We're gonna do this! 31 Jan 2016 05:08 #276017

That's amazing! Apparently you learned how to distract yourself and let the urge subside. Keep up the good work!
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Re: We're gonna do this! 31 Jan 2016 22:15 #276091

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Day 46. Bh today was from my first normal day in a long time. I was on Dovs phone Confrence today and he really did a good job explaining step 3. I'm gonna try to implement it. Hatzlocha

Re: We're gonna do this! 01 Feb 2016 21:57 #276229

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Day 47. Bh I had an awesome day today learnt shtark, davened well, and socialized. I hope this continues. My biggest fear is what If I c"v have a fall again?? Am I gonna have to go through all that hell again??! But I'm not worrying because I'm letting hashem control my life and when I give over control to him he gives me the power to be sober just for today!. Keep on trucking!!

Re: We're gonna do this! 01 Feb 2016 22:12 #276232

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iwant2begood wrote on 01 Feb 2016 21:57:
Day 47. Bh I had an awesome day today learnt shtark, davened well, and socialized. I hope this continues. My biggest fear is what If I c"v have a fall again?? Am I gonna have to go through all that hell again??! But I'm not worrying because I'm letting hashem control my life and when I give over control to him he gives me the power to be sober just for today!. Keep on trucking!!


I'm curious if you can elaborate please: you give control to Him, and He gives you the power. How does that work please? I am not questionin'.....I am merely askin'. Thank you.

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Re: We're gonna do this! 02 Feb 2016 12:14 #276305

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When I give over my control to hashem I don't need to fight anymore with the yetzer hora he does the fighting for me as long that I let him control

Re: We're gonna do this! 02 Feb 2016 12:44 #276311

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iwant2begood wrote on 02 Feb 2016 12:14:
When I give over my control to hashem I don't need to fight anymore with the yetzer hora he does the fighting for me as long that I let him control


Great.
Bh.
So, who has the power?
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Re: We're gonna do this! 03 Feb 2016 10:59 #276422

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Hashem of course!

Re: We're gonna do this! 03 Feb 2016 22:22 #276536

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Day 49. Bh I'm feeling gr8. I thank hashem for showing me gye and such a wonderful family!!

Re: We're gonna do this! 04 Feb 2016 13:49 #276599

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Day 50! Wow can't believe I made it to here!! I ask hashem to help me continue staying clean. Thnx friends for helping me get to here!!

Re: We're gonna do this! 04 Feb 2016 14:00 #276600

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[quote="iwant2begood" post=276599 date="]Day 50! Wow can't believe I made it to here!! I ask hashem to help me continue staying clean. Thnx friends for helping me get to here!![/quote]
AMAZING!

Im happy for you!!

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Re: We're gonna do this! 05 Feb 2016 01:46 #276719

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You're great! Keep it up!
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Re: We're gonna do this! 06 Feb 2016 20:28 #276850

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Day 52. Gut Voch! Shabbos was quite of a challenge since I ate in a hotel . There were a lot of attractive women there but I'm proud of my self that even if I by mistake  looked I tried  not to take a 2nd look ( or a third!) I think the tool that works for me is that I try not to be curios . Even if I think I saw something  i dont double check and I try to take 1 day at a time

Re: We're gonna do this! 07 Feb 2016 01:50 #276871

I just started and u have given me chizuk

Re: We're gonna do this! 07 Feb 2016 01:55 #276873

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Re: We're gonna do this! 07 Feb 2016 05:33 #276899

iwant2begood wrote on Unknown:
Day 52. Gut Voch! Shabbos was quite of a challenge since I ate in a hotel . There were a lot of attractive women there but I'm proud of my self that even if I by mistake  looked I tried  not to take a 2nd look ( or a third!) I think the tool that works for me is that I try not to be curios . Even if I think I saw something  i dont double check and I try to take 1 day at a time

Fantastic! Chizuk in Shmiras Einayim goes a long way in beating this Y"H. You should be proud!
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1 day may be too long for me, but I take it OWAAT = One wave at a time, cause the lust comes and goes like a wave which rises and crashes.
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