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Re: Chizuk 14 Jun 2015 04:58 #256769

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Mazel Tov!! KUTGW!!
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Re: Chizuk 14 Jun 2015 06:00 #256773

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TriggerMeNot88 wrote:
My feelings on reaching 90(haven't gone this long since I married, I think)

I feel strong, for I have conquered my wants until now.
I feel content and honored, for I have my wife and children.
I feel empowered, for I have acquired the tools I need to live a truly torah'dik(sane) life, and learning how to use them more every day.
And yet I am nothing for I have begun to have no will.....


Feels friggin awesome!!!!!


Just thrilled for you!

Your success and the description you posted is a real motivator.

Re: Chizuk 25 Jun 2015 03:37 #257694

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My wife is assur for the first time in over a year so it's been a lil rough. Have to white knuckle it. Had a real scare this past shabbos. Went to sleep right after I ate. Which was mistake. Woke up holding by a place I haven't been in over 3 months, I got so scared.... But B"H I jumped out of bed just in time. My heart was literally racing.
I'm ok now, started running a lot, it really helps.
"To suffer in silence is to suffer alone.
To suffer alone...........well, no one should have to do that."

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guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/251355-Chizuk?limit=15&start=45

Re: Chizuk 25 Jun 2015 10:21 #257710

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TMN88

you are doing so wonderfully well

102 days - it takes a while just to count that high

KEEP SHTARK!
Last Edit: 25 Jun 2015 10:23 by yiraishamaim.

Re: Chizuk 25 Jun 2015 13:20 #257724

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Thanks for your share.
Much Hatzlacha!

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Lions & Tigers & Internet, Oh My!

--"ולא המדרש עיקר, אלא המעשה"
--"To promise not to do a thing is the surest way in the world to make a body want to go and do that very thing." Mark Twain
--"If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking (or lusting), you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic (or sexaholic)." AA Big Book P. 45. Parenthesis added.
--You hit rock bottom when you decide to stop digging.

Re: Chizuk 02 Jul 2015 00:27 #258408

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I need some advice.
My neighbor who is a friend of mine lives upstairs and his bedroom is right on top of mine. It's not unusual for noise to make its way into our room. And this can really trigger me and makes my night a lil rough. He's the type that if I tell him straight out hel get really embarrassed. Any ideas on how to go about it?
"To suffer in silence is to suffer alone.
To suffer alone...........well, no one should have to do that."

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guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/251355-Chizuk?limit=15&start=45

Re: Chizuk 06 Jul 2015 14:00 #258768

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Noise machine, fan, air conditioner... talk loudly so he can hear you, maybe he'll put 2 and 2 together and realize you can hear him too. I don't know. Good question.

Re: Chizuk 06 Jul 2015 16:02 #258784

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You can say, is there anyway you can put carpet with padding in the room above ours, sometimes we can hear you walking at night and it disturbs the baby

You can get the ceiling sound proofed but that's expensive
Much Hatzlacha!

My Threads:
Glad to be here
Don't slip it hurts
Lions & Tigers & Internet, Oh My!

--"ולא המדרש עיקר, אלא המעשה"
--"To promise not to do a thing is the surest way in the world to make a body want to go and do that very thing." Mark Twain
--"If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking (or lusting), you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic (or sexaholic)." AA Big Book P. 45. Parenthesis added.
--You hit rock bottom when you decide to stop digging.

Re: Chizuk 07 Jul 2015 02:08 #258848

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I will try some of those ideas. Thanks.
"To suffer in silence is to suffer alone.
To suffer alone...........well, no one should have to do that."

My Threads
guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/251355-Chizuk?limit=15&start=45

Re: Chizuk 23 Jul 2015 03:11 #260160

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just signed on, on my computer for the first time since i signd up in march. (until now it was on my ipod touch) and just saw everyones chat messages they tried starting with me.......sorry everyone, i never saw your messages until now. the chat doesnt work on an ipod touch i guess.
"To suffer in silence is to suffer alone.
To suffer alone...........well, no one should have to do that."

My Threads
guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/251355-Chizuk?limit=15&start=45
Last Edit: 23 Jul 2015 03:11 by TriggerMeNot88.

Re: Chizuk 29 Jul 2015 20:45 #260533

MAZEL TOV!

I can't tell you how much this thread means to me. Because even though I know its a struggle and everyone is just being honest, until now it's been a little depressing with everyone saying its not so simple you need to be constantly aware (which of course is true) but now I see you have done it with such conviction I'm determined to do this too. Im clean since Shabbos.

Thank you!!

Re: Chizuk 29 Jul 2015 23:47 #260547

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I need to be constantly unaware
Much Hatzlacha!

My Threads:
Glad to be here
Don't slip it hurts
Lions & Tigers & Internet, Oh My!

--"ולא המדרש עיקר, אלא המעשה"
--"To promise not to do a thing is the surest way in the world to make a body want to go and do that very thing." Mark Twain
--"If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking (or lusting), you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic (or sexaholic)." AA Big Book P. 45. Parenthesis added.
--You hit rock bottom when you decide to stop digging.

Re: Chizuk 12 Aug 2015 00:44 #261518

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TriggerMeNot88 wrote:
My feelings on reaching 90(haven't gone this long since I married, I think)

I feel strong, for I have conquered my wants until now.
I feel content and honored, for I have my wife and children.
I feel empowered, for I have acquired the tools I need to live a truly torah'dik(sane) life, and learning how to use them more every day.
And yet I am nothing for I have begun to have no will.....


Feels friggin awesome!!!!!


That was a great post 2 months ago.

How are things today, chaver?
"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."

Re: Chizuk 29 Jan 2017 18:16 #304537

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not good....
"To suffer in silence is to suffer alone.
To suffer alone...........well, no one should have to do that."

My Threads
guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/251355-Chizuk?limit=15&start=45

Re: Chizuk 29 Jan 2017 18:21 #304539

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Welcome back!

That little plastic dragon bothering you again?
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל


"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant


My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends
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