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Chizuk 27 Mar 2015 03:22 #251355

TriggerMeNot88 OFFLINE Senior Boarder כי פשעי אני אדע וחטאתי נגדי תמיד Posts: 61 Karma: 8	Started the 90 day run 12 days ago. I was wondering about how il feel if I make it. Then I started wondering about HOW il make it! Then I saw this sign hanging and it gave me tremendous chizuk, it read " Good morning! This is Hashem speaking. I will be taking care of your problems today, and I don't need your help. So you just sit back and relax." And then I knew how il do it.......
	"To suffer in silence is to suffer alone. To suffer alone...........well, no one should have to do that." My Threads guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/251355-Chizuk?limit=15&start=45

Re: Chizuk 27 Mar 2015 03:33 #251356

Dov OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 1960 Karma: 384	Yep. Beautiful. But if you find yourself trying to help Him again, as we usually end up doing, there are real people who you can turn to to share with. And they will be happy to help you get back to the good place you find yourself in right now. And things will be OK.
	"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."

Re: Chizuk 27 Mar 2015 15:23 #251384

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Thanks for sharing and welcome!

Hatzlacha!

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Re: Chizuk 27 Mar 2015 15:27 #251386

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Welcome!!

Cute picture

!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

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Re: Chizuk 27 Mar 2015 16:21 #251395

gibbor120 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder NEVER EVER GIVE UP! Posts: 5251 Karma: 166	Welcome! Keep posting.
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Re: Chizuk 27 Mar 2015 19:11 #251406

TriggerMeNot88 OFFLINE Senior Boarder כי פשעי אני אדע וחטאתי נגדי תמיד Posts: 61 Karma: 8	Thank you Dov for that. And thank you all for the welcome.
	"To suffer in silence is to suffer alone. To suffer alone...........well, no one should have to do that." My Threads guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/251355-Chizuk?limit=15&start=45

Re: Chizuk 27 Mar 2015 19:17 #251407

TriggerMeNot88 OFFLINE Senior Boarder כי פשעי אני אדע וחטאתי נגדי תמיד Posts: 61 Karma: 8	My picture pretty much sums up how I feel when triggered.
	"To suffer in silence is to suffer alone. To suffer alone...........well, no one should have to do that." My Threads guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/251355-Chizuk?limit=15&start=45 Last Edit: 27 Mar 2015 19:18 by TriggerMeNot88.

Re: Chizuk 27 Mar 2015 19:31 #251410

SamJoe Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 50 Karma: 6	You got a pretty intense picture yourself!!!

Re: Chizuk 29 Mar 2015 04:03 #251431

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Welcome,

I don't really get the picture.
how do you feel when you are triggered?
Seems like now youre doin' ok.
Whatsapp?

b'hatzlachah

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Re: Chizuk 29 Mar 2015 16:27 #251457

TriggerMeNot88 OFFLINE Senior Boarder כי פשעי אני אדע וחטאתי נגדי תמיד Posts: 61 Karma: 8	I feel like I'm up against something much bigger and stronger than me. But I'm a valiant knight! I will never give up! That's why I relate to the pic.
	"To suffer in silence is to suffer alone. To suffer alone...........well, no one should have to do that." My Threads guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/251355-Chizuk?limit=15&start=45 Last Edit: 29 Mar 2015 16:28 by TriggerMeNot88.

Re: Chizuk 29 Mar 2015 17:40 #251462

newaction OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 571 Karma: 54	Good for you chaver . In my case i was valiant in many things but never against my triggers. You said it right they were bigger and stronger than me.

Re: Chizuk 29 Mar 2015 19:08 #251475

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and by the way, if you are an addict (which i have no idea one way or the other; i know i am), it is much bigger and stronger than you are, and your strength as a knight will most likely not be what vanquishes the dragon.

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Re: Chizuk 29 Mar 2015 21:51 #251493

TriggerMeNot88 OFFLINE Senior Boarder כי פשעי אני אדע וחטאתי נגדי תמיד Posts: 61 Karma: 8	True. I will not vanquish the dragon. But i will learn to ride it.....one day at a time.
	"To suffer in silence is to suffer alone. To suffer alone...........well, no one should have to do that." My Threads guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/251355-Chizuk?limit=15&start=45

Re: Chizuk 29 Mar 2015 23:30 #251501

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TriggerMeNot88 wrote:

True. I will not vanquish the dragon. But i will learn to ride it.....one day at a time.

I like that, but where or how will you learn to ride it?

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Re: Chizuk 30 Mar 2015 03:02 #251519

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Sunday's.......gotta love em.....today was rough....stressful.....and screamed just relax in front of the computer for lil bit. My dragon was tellin me" What can be so bad? It's not like your gonna watch porn or anything like that, your clean for two weeks already! Just check the weather or something kosher like that. You know find something cool on YouTube."( silly dragon... YouTubes not kosher fun) So I was sitting there in front of an unfiltered computer, feeling as my heart began to race. Then I stopped, took a deep breath, thought about my beautiful and loving wife and kids. And what type of husband and father I want to be for them. And I thought about them for a while. And then I thought about all the ppl on gye. All the posts and stories Ive read. And I knew.... No I felt them rootin for me( which I know everyone of them would have). Then I slowly closed the computer and walked out of the room. And thanked Hashem for giving me a wife, children and the gye community.

"To suffer in silence is to suffer alone.
To suffer alone...........well, no one should have to do that."

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