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Re: mischaretani's climb to 90 30 Sep 2014 03:21 #240529

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Mazel Tov!!!! May you continue to go m'chayil el chayil!!!

Re: mischaretani's climb to 90 01 Oct 2014 17:23 #240627

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Welcome aboard! without the chevra here, the daily reinforcements from GYE and the support of my Eshes Chayil, I wouldn't be more Tahor for the longest period in my life-in excess of 400 days, Ken Yirbu!

Re: mischaretani's climb to 90 06 Oct 2014 22:10 #240977

Wow! I'll keep on chasing you, but hopefully I will never catch up
I just realized that in another 17 days I will be at 180!

Re: mischaretani's climb to 90 07 Oct 2014 00:32 #240984

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Thank you for your inspiration!

Re: mischaretani's climb to 90 23 Oct 2014 21:52 #241848

B"H Today is 180! I have been counting days so far, and I only just realized when I saw the GYE notification email that 180 days is half a year! In just another 180 days I will IY"H (please) be clean for an entire year!

With respect to the 12 steps, I noticed the following ירושלמי מס' ברכות פרק ד:
רבי תנחום בר איסקלוסטיקא מצלי: ויהי רצון מלפניך ה' אלהי ואלהי אבותי, שתשבור ותשבית עלו של יצר הרע מלבנו, שכך בראתנו לעשות רצונך ואנו חייבים לעשות רצונך, אתה חפץ ואנו חפצים, ומי מעכב שאור שבעיסה, גלוי וידוע לפניך שאין בנו כח לעמד בו אלא יהי רצון מלפניך ה' אלהי ואלהי אבותי שתשביתהו מעלינו ותכניעהו ונעשה רצונך כרצוננו בלבב שלם

The bolded part speaks wonders

Re: mischaretani's climb to 90 24 Oct 2014 04:01 #241897

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nifla! shkoiach!
see Gvuras Yitzchak Inyaney Bein Hamitzarim where he explains this Yerushalmi that this tefila is particularly applicable to ikvasa demishicha where the yetzer hora will use all his strength to get us and the regular eitza of torah tavlin won't be enough for these nisyonos so ain lanu lehisha'ein ela al avinu shebashamayim i.e. davening and surrendering to Hashem!

Re: mischaretani's climb to 90 24 Oct 2014 04:52 #241905

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kilochalu; did you once write that before? I seem to remember you or someone else quotin' that.
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Re: mischaretani's climb to 90 24 Oct 2014 05:14 #241916

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Wow I envy you your a real inspiration to me I just started my first day and was feeling my first start up of a lust attack and I opend the forum and was reading the 90 day climb I drew inspiration from thanks
Hashem these lustful thoughts are not mine I don't need them or want them please take them from me so I can live a happy and healthy life

Gotta roll with the punches or the punches will roll all over you

yesterday was
tomorrow will be
the only thing you can change is the moment you see

keep smiling and keep busy

"lust is fire to dynamite don't get close" from someone don't remember who

The worst thing i did to myself was lie to myself for 2 whole years

I try not to hate it takes way to much energy

Re: mischaretani's climb to 90 24 Oct 2014 05:17 #241917

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cordnoy wrote:
kilochalu; did you once write that before? I seem to remember you or someone else quotin' that.

yeah
how many posts would there be here if everything was only said once

Re: mischaretani's climb to 90 24 Oct 2014 05:28 #241918

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I wasn't complainin'
I was just sayin' that I remembered that
kol hakavod
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Re: mischaretani's climb to 90 25 Nov 2014 00:42 #244024

B"H Today is 212! And B"H we had a baby recently!
Last night was mikva night after a 6+ week wait. I never thought I could make it 6+ weeks, but somehow I did, and it didn't feel like it was forever. But my wife hasn't been cleared by the doctor to resume relations yet, and this morning she was staining a little bit. I'll find out soon from our rav if she is still tahor, but if she's not, please Hashem help me make it until the next mikva night.

Re: mischaretani's climb to 90 25 Nov 2014 01:18 #244027

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KUTGW! Just don't count the days. You say "it didn't feel like it was forever". I bet you were not "counting", you were just "living". Keep it up!

Re: mischaretani's climb to 90 25 Nov 2014 02:28 #244042

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Mazel tov!

You can and you will!
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Last Edit: 25 Nov 2014 03:26 by cordnoy.

Re: mischaretani's climb to 90 25 Nov 2014 03:00 #244045

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Mazel Tov!! KUTGW!!
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Re: mischaretani's climb to 90 25 Nov 2014 03:15 #244049

Mazel tov and lotsa nachas! Just keep focusing on the baby - may it give you all the pleasure you need (the "real" pleasure).

Hatzlacha

MT
Last Edit: 25 Nov 2014 03:16 by Machshovo Tova.
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