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Re: Hashem, please open up the road for me!!! 29 Jun 2015 15:15 #258049

Hey Yiras, I still appreciate you sharing some good advice with me in a private email. I think about what you told me all the time.
Whenever I see your sobriety number, i know that I can do it to just by simply following what you and others like you have done.
Thank you!

Re: Hashem, please open up the road for me!!! 30 Jun 2015 14:06 #258130

I am at a conference today with no women.
Thank you HKBH for keeping me safe today.
I am powerless and cannot behave without your help.

Re: Hashem, please open up the road for me!!! 30 Jun 2015 14:31 #258136

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I am at a conference today with no women.
Thank you HKBH for keeping me safe today.
I am powerless and cannot behave without your help.

Thank Hashem also that "no women" at the conference helps for you.
For me, It doesn't matter who will be there. Maybe a phone conference would be ok.... then again, maybe not.
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Re: Hashem, please open up the road for me!!! 30 Jun 2015 14:41 #258139

Thank you. If you are busy at a conference and there are no women, what is triggering your lust?

Re: Hashem, please open up the road for me!!! 30 Jun 2015 14:55 #258143

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Thank you. If you are busy at a conference and there are no women, what is triggering your lust?


For me, ...it's the men!

I was just saying another thing that you can add, when you are counting your blessings.
BIG SHOT!
Free Choice?!
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STORY TIME :)

Dr. Seuss - You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own, and you know what you know. And you are the guy who'll decide where to go.

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Re: Hashem, please open up the road for me!!! 30 Jun 2015 14:59 #258144

stillgoing wrote:
pischoshelmachat
Thank you. If you are busy at a conference and there are no women, what is triggering your lust?


For me, ...it's the men!

I was just saying another thing that you can add, when you are counting your blessings.


You are correct. I am very lucky that I don't have ssa. But then of course HKBH knows I am not able to be tested in that area for I will flunk. You are clearly stronger than I so hkbh chose to test you.
Am I jealous? NO WAY. HKBH, I just want to be sober. Please don't test me.

Re: Hashem, please open up the road for me!!! 30 Jun 2015 15:10 #258147

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Your words of chizuk touch my heart. I don't feel strong. I feel very weak, but I guess that's good , because then I can realize better that I must rely totally on Hashem.
BIG SHOT!
Free Choice?!
Yirai's Memories
STORY TIME :)

Dr. Seuss - You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own, and you know what you know. And you are the guy who'll decide where to go.

FSKOT! (Fell Shmell--Keep on Trucking) (The Rebba R' Bards)

613stillgoing@gmail.com

Re: Hashem, please open up the road for me!!! 15 Jul 2015 14:26 #259509

Good Morning,
I have been unable to post for a while but B"H, I was able to make a few minutes to post today. I have not caught up yet on the latest posts here but i will spend a few minutes now to see what has transpired while I was away.
I hope to get some chizzuk today. I always need it.

Re: Hashem, please open up the road for me!!! 15 Jul 2015 14:29 #259511

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Re: Hashem, please open up the road for me!!! 16 Jul 2015 03:40 #259580

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glad to hear from you!
Much Hatzlacha!

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--"ולא המדרש עיקר, אלא המעשה"
--"To promise not to do a thing is the surest way in the world to make a body want to go and do that very thing." Mark Twain
--"If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking (or lusting), you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic (or sexaholic)." AA Big Book P. 45. Parenthesis added.
--You hit rock bottom when you decide to stop digging.

Re: Hashem, please open up the road for me!!! 03 Aug 2015 22:49 #260777

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A quote I saw that I personally do not relate to.

"We are not punished for our sins; we are punished by our sins."
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My threads: Mikvah Night - Page 1, Page 2, Page 3, Last Page

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Re: Hashem, please open up the road for me!!! 07 Aug 2015 03:15 #261135

Hello My Dear Friends,
Some of you reached out to me wondering where i was. Well, I know that i must hang out here and stay in touch to stay healthy. I did not follow the formula so a fall was inevitable. I am humiliated to have to disclose that I fell today after 140 days. I have no time to mope about it especially since i know clearly how to stay clean. I learnt that I can never let up on my constant work to get closer to HKB"H.

Re: Hashem, please open up the road for me!!! 07 Aug 2015 03:33 #261136

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Welcome back!
Much Hatzlacha!

My Threads:
Glad to be here
Don't slip it hurts
Lions & Tigers & Internet, Oh My!

--"ולא המדרש עיקר, אלא המעשה"
--"To promise not to do a thing is the surest way in the world to make a body want to go and do that very thing." Mark Twain
--"If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking (or lusting), you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic (or sexaholic)." AA Big Book P. 45. Parenthesis added.
--You hit rock bottom when you decide to stop digging.

Re: Hashem, please open up the road for me!!! 07 Aug 2015 03:38 #261137

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As I wrote to you....We are confident you will!
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: Mikvah Night - Page 1, Page 2, Page 3, Last Page

https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/210029-Tryin
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My job: Punchin' bag of GYE - "NeshamaInCharge"
Quote from the chevra: "Is Cordnoy truly a Treasure Island pirate from the Southern Seas?"

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Re: Hashem, please open up the road for me!!! 07 Aug 2015 17:03 #261168

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Welcome back. I also kept to myself for about a month, then baam! had a fall also after a similar amount of time. Let's put our arms round each other, become part of the group be mevatel ourselves to the group and be carried by the wonderful good inhwrent in being part of a group - of this group.
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