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Re: My Story - Reallygettingthere 10 Jul 2013 22:47 #211840

ZemirosShabbos OFFLINE Platinum Boarder pass the compote Posts: 6153 Karma: 72	your honesty and preventative measures are gevaldig! you know the drill, keep on trucking! wishing you much continued hatzlocha
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Re: My Story - Reallygettingthere 10 Jul 2013 22:58 #211842

gibbor120 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder NEVER EVER GIVE UP! Posts: 5251 Karma: 166	ditto. I remember dov saying that they call it "adult" entertainment, but really it's childish. They call them "smart"phones, but... Yasher Koach on your honesty and bravery! oh yeah, and KOT!
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Re: My Story - Reallygettingthere 10 Jul 2013 23:34 #211851

skeptical OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 1118 Karma: 78	How are you feeling? Hatzlacha on continuing to live!
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Re: My Story - Reallygettingthere 10 Jul 2013 23:36 #211853

reallygettingthere Current streak: 72 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 759 Karma: 27	Funny you ask. In the past I would have felt hopeless. Given the experience that I've had over the past few months here, I feel hopeful Thanks Eli
	Roy in the SA White Book noted that we frequently prayed and it did not work...because the best we could muster was begging G-d to "Please take it away, so I will not have to give it up! No amount of sobriety can cure the insanity -ChaimCharlie The emmes hurts but fake chizzuk will hurt more -Bards Remember, best block, no be there - Mr. Miyagi

Re: My Story - Reallygettingthere 10 Jul 2013 23:38 #211856

skeptical OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 1118 Karma: 78	I know exactly what you mean. Boruch Hashem!
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Re: My Story - Reallygettingthere 12 Jul 2013 18:58 #211997

reallygettingthere Current streak: 72 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 759 Karma: 27	Leichter. Check.
	Roy in the SA White Book noted that we frequently prayed and it did not work...because the best we could muster was begging G-d to "Please take it away, so I will not have to give it up! No amount of sobriety can cure the insanity -ChaimCharlie The emmes hurts but fake chizzuk will hurt more -Bards Remember, best block, no be there - Mr. Miyagi

Re: My Story - Reallygettingthere 19 Jul 2013 20:00 #212701

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Last night instead of porning, I cleaned the chicken for friday night. Not that I was about to fall, but a year ago, that's what I would have been doing.

Leichter, done.

Roy in the SA White Book noted that we frequently prayed and it did not work...because the best we could muster was begging G-d to "Please take it away, so I will not have to give it up!

No amount of sobriety can cure the insanity -ChaimCharlie

The emmes hurts but fake chizzuk will hurt more -Bards

Remember, best block, no be there - Mr. Miyagi

Last Edit: 19 Jul 2013 20:01 by reallygettingthere.

Re: My Story - Reallygettingthere 19 Jul 2013 20:55 #212734

inastruggle Current streak: 25 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder the picture is shimshon hagibor. not st. mary.... Posts: 1263 Karma: 35	רב ספרא מחריך רישא רבא מלח שיבוטא reallygettingthere machrich chicken... ALTZ LEKAVOD SHABBOS... (thank you zemmy for looking that up for me EDIT: and thank you for pointing out that machrich doesn't mean clean)
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Re: My Story - Reallygettingthere 20 Jul 2013 23:39 #212777

Pidaini OFFLINE Platinum Boarder פדני מעושק אדם-מיצר הרע העושק את הבריות-רש"י Posts: 2189 Karma: 107	The best of Yom Tov Erhlich!!! Thanks really, really!! KOMT!!!!
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Re: My Story - Reallygettingthere 02 Aug 2013 01:31 #214658

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HI guys.

I've been a bit quiet recently but not bcz things were bad. Was busy with work and other personal matters.

I reset my 90 count because i found my self pushing the limits of the definition of a slip until i realized that I was falling and not slipping.

I see that no matter what I need to check in with my daily chat (my friend who i discuss these issues with) regardless of what I did that day.

The day before things started slipping was a GREAT day for me in my journey. I hit benchmarks that i have never reached in time management, learning and not lusting.

Iv'e identified what exactly led to these slips/falls and have taken corrective action.

live and learn...

Eli

Re: My Story - Reallygettingthere 02 Aug 2013 01:35 #214661

Pidaini OFFLINE Platinum Boarder פדני מעושק אדם-מיצר הרע העושק את הבריות-רש"י Posts: 2189 Karma: 107	that's the spirit live and learn, but don't forget learn and live! It's great to have you back!
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Re: My Story - Reallygettingthere 02 Aug 2013 01:42 #214663

reallygettingthere Current streak: 72 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 759 Karma: 27	thanks
	Roy in the SA White Book noted that we frequently prayed and it did not work...because the best we could muster was begging G-d to "Please take it away, so I will not have to give it up! No amount of sobriety can cure the insanity -ChaimCharlie The emmes hurts but fake chizzuk will hurt more -Bards Remember, best block, no be there - Mr. Miyagi

Re: My Story - Reallygettingthere 02 Aug 2013 01:53 #214667

reallygettingthere Current streak: 72 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 759 Karma: 27	People are like art... You never completely done
	Roy in the SA White Book noted that we frequently prayed and it did not work...because the best we could muster was begging G-d to "Please take it away, so I will not have to give it up! No amount of sobriety can cure the insanity -ChaimCharlie The emmes hurts but fake chizzuk will hurt more -Bards Remember, best block, no be there - Mr. Miyagi

Re: My Story - Reallygettingthere 02 Aug 2013 06:18 #214700

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and if that which you identified applies to others, would you care to share?

you should have continued hatzlachah

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Re: My Story - Reallygettingthere 02 Aug 2013 07:28 #214715

inastruggle Current streak: 25 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder the picture is shimshon hagibor. not st. mary.... Posts: 1263 Karma: 35	reallygettingthere wrote: People are like [blank] You never completely done that has so much potential for a joke but I can't think of one Reallygettingthere, I'm happy to see you doing so good KUTGW and KOMT