hopefulswan89 wrote on 05 Sep 2024 17:35:
BenHashemBH wrote on 05 Sep 2024 14:33:
hopefulswan89 wrote on 05 Sep 2024 11:13:
stopsurvivingstartliving wrote on 05 Sep 2024 08:49:
hopefulswan89 wrote on 05 Sep 2024 00:51:
Thanks everyone for your help. B"h it looks like I have a plan to keep going with gye during zman.
Happy to hear that R' HopefulSwan!
I don't think I am the first one asking this of you but why don't you open up your own thread and introduce yourself?
I use the ebooks,videos and a mentor and have found them very helpful. I don’t feel comfortable talking publicly about my issues that I struggle with.
Shalom Brother,
I'm glad that you've found resources that have been helpful to you.
Opening up on the forum, even though it's anonymous, can seem daunting. If you think you can share even a little bit, that might be a step towards relating better with the oilam. Connection is a 2-way street. You don't need to (and shouldn't) tell everything, but perhaps you could try on a little vulnerability and let us know in general where you are coming from.
If I may prompt: What motivated you to create a new account and start posing on the forum recently? (If you are agreeable to answer, please open an introductory thread to respond).
Kol tov
I heard about the web site as a resource for assistance with shmiras ha eynayim
Not really. This website is mostly for struggles with P&M, sex lines, SSA, massage parlors and everything in between although we also address simple guarding the eyes. If it were just the eyes, GYE would probably advise you to watch vayemaen videos and the like instead of GYE.
As I wrote to you in a private message feel free not to post about your struggles if it is too difficult for you but it makes it very difficult for other members to relate to you properly if you don't post about them. Also, I think that it is in your best interests to post about them so that you can heal properly and efficiently. I am afraid that your shyness is part of what is feeding your struggles.
I am glad you joined GYE and make the best use of everything GYE has to offer. Wishing you success on your journey.