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SIL's Body Parts 26 Jun 2023 16:37 #398087

I always found my wife's objectively pretty sister unattractive, all of the sudden I started noticing her....Whats going on?
Last Edit: 26 Jun 2023 16:37 by noshimnosher.

Re: SIL's Body Parts 26 Jun 2023 16:50 #398088

noshimnosher wrote on 26 Jun 2023 16:37:
I always found my wife's objectively pretty sister unattractive, all of the sudden I started noticing her....Whats going on?

Do you want a psychological explanation? Will understanding what's going on help?
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Re: SIL's Body Parts 26 Jun 2023 17:53 #398090

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connected wrote on 26 Jun 2023 16:50:

noshimnosher wrote on 26 Jun 2023 16:37:
I always found my wife's objectively pretty sister unattractive, all of the sudden I started noticing her....Whats going on?

Do you want a psychological explanation? Will understanding what's going on help?

I'll quote Cordnoy...
"Philosophizin' beats workin' any day of the week!"
"If I am not for myself, who will be for me? But if I am only for myself, who am I? If not now, when?"
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Re: SIL's Body Parts 26 Jun 2023 18:18 #398091

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DavidT wrote on 26 Jun 2023 17:53:

connected wrote on 26 Jun 2023 16:50:

noshimnosher wrote on 26 Jun 2023 16:37:
I always found my wife's objectively pretty sister unattractive, all of the sudden I started noticing her....Whats going on?

Do you want a psychological explanation? Will understanding what's going on help?

I'll quote Cordnoy...
"Philosophizin' beats workin' any day of the week!"

I don’t think psychological explanation is philosophizing, unless you consider psychology fake science which rabbi gottlieb shows maybe accurate to some extent…
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Re: SIL's Body Parts 26 Jun 2023 21:27 #398092

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My take is, that the question of “what’s going on?” Is valuable insofar as much as it’s part of answering the question:”What are you going to do about it?”

Being honest with yourself and having an understanding of your motivations are important , because these fact are important in making decisions that result in actions and change.

Which we can do, with Hashem's help! 
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Last Edit: 27 Jun 2023 01:56 by chaimoigen.
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